>tfw you realize how much of life is dumb luck
How does it feel knowing that if one particular girl had been put in your group in university or made to sit next to you in class or joined your team at work, your entire life could have been completely different.
I guess we'll call it fate and forget about it.
It feels fine because I don't base my life on the hopes that some girl will come drop into my life and save me and everything will be wonderful. That is the most beta of beta mentalities
>girl is forced to be around you
>Ew fuck off creep; don't talk to me
Yeah my life would be TOTALLY different
It is 100% luck. Even a basic understanding of physics will make it obvious that absolutely everything is luck.
>>35897398
This. The whole "woman saving a lost man" is a fucking story that only exists in fiction and is always written by a beta man. Women, hell NO PERSON, will just randomly drop into your life and fix you
>>35897420
We're not talking about fixing. Being in a relationship and everything that comes with that is a life changing situation compared to being single. Can't dispute that.
Whether it happens and who with is pure luck.
>>35897525
>Whether it happens and who with is pure luck.
You do realize that the majority of relationships that have ever happened was because at least 1 person took the initiative to do something, right? It's not like a girl is going to sit next to you and then BAM you're her boyfriend
>>35897525
No anon. You're just romanticizing it because you've never been in one and have zero understanding of what its actually like. You're the male equivalent of a little girl who watches a disney movie and grows up thinking prince charming is going to carry her off into the sunset.
>>35897417
Yep, life is literally nothing more than a dice roll.
Thing is, you can change things so the randomness of life is constrained enough for you to get what you want. No girl is going to approach you if you sit inside and play xbox all day, or don't do shit to maintain your appearance.
>>35897357
I literally met my best friend because my sister was friends with his sister and they forced us to hang out one time.
If my sister had been sitting somewhere else in her 7th grade science class I never would've met him.
Everything being luck seems about right.