>tfw you're always looked down on when you try and be

>>35853229
Treat them like crap instead.

>>35853248
i might as well, i've never had any friends from being nice to people

>>35853229
Could it be you confuse sucking up with being nice?

People treat you better when you're legit nice and not

>>35853295
I dont think I ever suck up to people, I've never been told I'm a suck up or anything. Everyone just seems to think I'm inferior

>>35853310
Are you?
Does it have to do with your niceness? I'm not sure what you consider "being nice" but would an alpha doing the same thing be considered below them?

>>35853229
whenever I get treated like I'm above people, like someone who knows what they're doing, I always feel wrong

like i've never ever thought i know what I'm doing

>>35853329
I mean I never agree with someone if i dont agree with them just to get favour, i always express my opinion and i dont do things with others just to fit in.

>>35853343
What I'm getting at is where do you see the connection of people treating you inferior and you being nice?

I think they are unrelated things and if you conflate them you won't find the correct solution to your problem

>>35853229
maybe they can see you have no self respect. youre being nice out of weakness, without any integrity. gotta respect yourself before you can really respect anyone else, otherwise it comes off weak. same with loyalty, gotta be loyal to yourself, before being loyal to anyone else, otherwise the loyalty you show others comes off as weak.

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>>35853377
this
this is
orgenaoooo

>>35853229
It doesn't matter how nice you are. Everyone can tell how weak you are.

>>35853229
OP you're a cool dude, people are just faggots

>>35853229
Because you are. Know your place.

>>35853229
You are playing defense when you should be playing a little offense, know what i mean?