What is cuddling actually like? Is it as good as everyone

>>35844200
Yes, the feeling of another warm body next to yours is one of life's greatest pleasures.

>>35844200
Shut the fuck up you people not even not cuddled before I used to do that in school

Honestly my favourite thing in the whole world. I would do anything to be able to do it more, and it is in fact the sole motivator as to why I want to work hard and cut back on pleasure spending so I can afford to move out so that I can cuddle every single day. It is that good.

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>>35844200
>tfw cant cuddle because of wimpy noodlearms

>>35844200
Pretty nice. Naked skin on naked skin is one of the most comfiest feelings in the world.

If you really enjoy the person you're with, and if its both what you want to do, its the best thing in the world. You eventually get used to it and once you break up, you realize how much you really enjoy it and crave the warm touch of another person.

I think people who like cuddling just have mommy issues

Cuddling is submissive as fuck. It's probably awkward and uncomfortable after a while too

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>>35844200
>tfw scientists say I take long, hot showers to substitute the warmth I would get from cuddling.

>>35844297
>tfw get endless supply of cuddles with qt
>took long hot showers when I was single and still do it now
Social """scientists"""

>>35844200
I've yet to experience a feeling better than cuddling
>it was with my oneitis too

Weird how so many """robots""" have cuddled.

>>35844261
yeah this.

>>35844390
yeah im a normie but i just lurk here until i find a thread asking about chads experiences

>>35844200
Never cuddled, but hugging girls I'm good friends with makes me feel really good.

>>35844200
It feels like stress leaving your body

>>35844258
This desu senpai. To her (>implying there is a her), it'd be like laying on a tennis racket.

One time when I was 15 I was sleeping in a tent with a girl in her backyard. She wrapped her arms around my arm and laid her head on my shoulder. We slept like that. I can't describe how good that felt, but I bet that it's better than sex (still a KHV (that cuddle doesn't count as a hug))

No because my arm would always fall asleep from the pressure of someone lying on top of it

Something that has really stuck with me is something that some anon said here a while ago.

It was "sex is great, but whats better is holding her hand afterward". Speaking as a former robot who put himself out there and got laid a few times, this is quite true.

Cuddling is way better than sex if it's with someone you really love. The feeling that you get of knowing that you are theirs and they are yours is like none other.

Your stress melts away and their warm touch fills you with joy. Not a temporary happiness, but a deep down happiness. You know that the physical connection is only a medium of expressing your deep down emotional connection.

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>>35844982
>wake up
>see this post
>day ruined

>>35844200
Cuddling is alright. Cuddling with someone you truly love and care about is amazing. I've cuddled with people but only one I've ever really cared about. Before you fags start calling me a normie, I'm not I'm talking about my sister

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>>35844982
just fuck my shit up senpai

ravioli

What's with all the people ITT who love and brag about loving people? Jesus fucking christ. Why aren't you sociopathic drones like me?

>>35845129
I'm just lonely and want to feel something, anything really. I got a cat today just to have something alive to hold on to

It feels really great.

Just not every single night. It's got it's discomfort. Her hair in your face, if she's resting on your arm it'S gonna be numb for the entire night, etc.

>>35844339
>its an angsty STEM undergrad episode
ill be sure to fail you when you take my class, mathloser.

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>>35844982
oh me oh my i wanna fuckin die

>>35845161
I was being ironic, although I still think people should be ashamed of falling in love and being so naive

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delet this fucking thread its bringing back my only good memories of cuddling a girl

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>>35844200
Only if you're happily in a relationship.

I'd be in extreme discomfort and disgusted when my high school sweetheart would spoon me. They say cuddling cures your depression but it just drained all the happiness out of me.

>tfw when you hookup with someone they don't want to cuddle afterwards
>they just get up and get dressed

the couple times a cute girl has sat next to me on the bus etc. and we made slight physical contact it's felt really good.

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>>35845020
fucking same, anon. I've cuddled my oneitis 2-3 times and i would give pretty much anything to have that feeling back again.

I was on a train once and a girl had to go really close to me, physically touching her, the smell of her hair, just everything was so nice. I didn't want it to stop.

All this from fucking standing by someone on a train. I hate everyone here that's cuddled leave this board

>>35845312
no it doesn't you dumb piece of shit, it's all in your head.

cuddling, "love", sex, people, validation, self-esteem

all overrated. Fuck you faggots

I've had sex with 2 girls now, and cuddling and fooling around in bed was way better than sex. All 3 blowjobs I tried my best to cum faster because I just wanted to cuddle instead of having my dick in her mouth.

I like physical affection like hugging, hand holding, kissing, and cuddling. But I dislike sex and other relationshit stuff.

>>35845418


Overrated as in you've experienced them all and deemed them overrated or overrated in the sense of the sour grapes analogy?

>>35845510
I've experienced them but in limited amounts. With an 8/10 girl I despised.

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>>35844200
The only two person i ever cuddled was my parents, i used to sleep in the middle with them when i was 5, i had a big fear of bats and they let me sleep with them, stop sleeping with them when i was 8 years old after one night where everything changed, after that, never cuddle with anyone in my entire life.

>>35844200
No. it gets annoying and you cant sleep and you get hot

its uncomfortable

>>35845531
Kill yourself, normalfag. You don't belong here.

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>>35845531
Look at this fucking Chad
GET OUT NORMIE
REEEEEEE

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>>35845020
>>35845122
>>35845242
>>35845341
Jesus guys I'm sorry I didn't want to make you feel like shit, I just wanted to explain how I felt. Here's a lil fluffball for your feels

Cuddling is easy to lust after if you haven't felt it in a while. After you get in a relationship, its not really thaaat special after a while.

Get a kitten or something that gives you the feeling of companionship and care. Sorry I made you guys feel bad :(

>>35845531

I think how enjoyable they are depends entirely on the type of person you share them with, otherwise, I agree with you, there are some shitty people out there who you will love and be attached to who will give you a bad after taste and make it seem like physical and emotional intimacy are overrated.

When experienced and shared with a good person it's pretty cool, though.

>>35845554
>>35845579
You're all neurotypical normalfags to me because you know what love is, you've all known the sweet pain of unrequited love. Somehow I get a pass on a whole universe of suffering that I'll never comprehend, how do you think I fucking feel? Alone and guilty, that's what.

By the way, the girl was batshit insane insecure. She fell into my lap because she had abandonment issues and I treated her like an angry sperg the first time she talked to me

>>35845587
Just kill yourself, normalfag. You're not a robot. You shouldn't even be on this board in the first place.

>>35845682
>you've all known the sweet pain of unrequited love
What? What are you talking about? Being lonely doesn't mean I have a crush.
And point still stands. You're in the wrong board.

>>35844200
It's actually a pain if you are trying to get a good night of sleep.

>>35845609
Psst, normalfag, you should fuck off.

>>35845706
I'm not going on wizchan. Fuck you. My daddy issues gf was pathetic, any robot could have gotten her. I haven't had friends in three years, haven't been friendly with a girl in 4. I'm unemployed and an ugly fuck.

Cuddling has to be one of the best things, but only if it is with someone you truly cherish being with. It's kinda "ok, meh, i guess it's nice" in all other cases. But when you're cuddling the love of your life, it's fucking amazing.

I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now, but due to shit circumstances, we rarely get the chance to spend a full night together, so when we do, I make sure to enjoy every moment and aspect of it. Cuddling her before falling asleep are memories I've engra ved so deep in my head that I can access them in full detail. I can almost feel the smell too.

Just laying there next to her, spaced out, mind is blank, save the feeling of deep serenity. She's turned around, still faintly awake and making small moves to let me know she still wants my touch before she fully falls asleep. Holding her, my arm around her soft bare back, with her hair falling over my naked body and gently brushing against it, the girly scent emitted from her freshly showered body... Sometimes I'll smell her hair or back just because it is so nice, and she'll giggle because it tickles her. Then I'll get the urge to kiss her, any part of her, just want to place my lips on her. I usually kiss her head. She sometimes tells me how she likes feeling that, so I make sure I do it when I can.

She falls asleep eventually, but even in her dreams, she's constantly making these small moves with her legs, butt, and arms, that make it feel like she's still awake and constantly wanting me to caress her. When she's asleep, I cherish these moments and still lie spaced out thinking how this might as well be the best moment of my life and that tomorrow I may die or some shit, so I should enjoy every second. Shit gets really dark at times in my mind, but her being next to me makes it go away.

I'll usually stay awake for at least an hour in this state of cozy nothingness because I'm fully aware that no dream can be better than what I have next to me in reality. Fucking miss her.

>>35844390
Le Define "robot"

>>35845758
how to get 8/10 daddy issues gf if you're ugly???

>>35845723

ok.

then again...no.

>>35845534
Ok, what's the story, what happened?

>>35845806
>all this text
holy shit
if I wanted to read about a normalfag I'd go on facebook. Just fuck off from this board, you're not a robot.

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atleast i cuddle my mom a lot when i pass by the kitchen and smack her ass

>>35845818

Because she's got daddy issues you fucking mongoloid! If you ever bothered leaving the fucking basement once in a while you'd know girls with crippling insecurities are way easier to manipulate than those with confidence. Even attractive ones. It don't matter how you look if you're a good enough liar.

>>35845818
be fucking lucky. And if you value your personal space/alone time at all, you'll end up resenting her, lash out at her and make her cry

>>35844982
I know this feel. Although we haven't had sex yet.

>>35845868
I didn't even need to manipulate her. She was likely a closet lesbian who was attracted to my betaness and young appearance for my age (at the time). She thought I was fucking adorable and it made me want to beat her senseless but I kept it all hidden

>>35846017
Why do you keep posting exactly? No one is interested in what a normalfag has to say.

>>35844200

post sex cuddling is honestly lifes greatest pleasure

>>35845806
damn dude sounds awesome

>>35846023
I'm the antithesis of a normalfag, you're just a failed normie like everyone else wishing for bullshit like love. What a fucking joke.

>>35846091
You didn't answer my question. If I wanted to read about what being in a relationship is like I'd go to Facebook.

a girl fell asleep on my shoulder some months ago. When the bus took sharp turns her body would press against mine even more.
It was like something I never felt before. She was so warm and soft. It felt like I was gonna spurt blood through every hole in my face

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>>35845821
>8
>Dinner
>Usual fight between my parents
>Things get heated
>They fight over food
>Mother gets mad and throws my food dish in the wall
>Father gets mad too and throws pressure cooker in the wall, the thing explodes beans went flying everywhere
>Me, my mother and older brother move out to another city
>Sleep with my brother in separated beds

The usual Saturday Night Family Shitshow that ends up in divorce

>>35846104
I keep posting because I don't give a rat's ass what you in particular, think, and because I hate seeing the same response "lol cuddl grate BUT ONLY WHEN IS LUV"

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>>35844982
>pic related
just fug me up senpai

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>tfw you die alone and unloved

Who Kissless, hugless virgin here?

>>35845074
soooooo very very 4chan of you

>>35844982

You're hugging another person whilst lying down, that's it, biggest fucking overreaction I've ever seen you're not going to heaven Jesus Christ.

Doesn't take a genius to figure out it'd get uncomfortable and sweaty and lose its charm after a while

>>35844200

cuddling releases oxytocin into the body, the "love hormone."

it's pretty good.

>>35846284
kill yourself normalfag ffs

>>35844200
cuddling feels like an overload of happiness, so much so, that when it ends it feels like a part of your heart is missing. therefore i advise do not cuddle your ex.

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1/2 and many smiles :)

I did not enjoy cuddling with my ex very much. Do you think it's because I didn't love him, or am I just a broken person who will never enjoy cuddling?

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>>35846331
2/2 and infinite smiles :)

Yes it's everything it's made out to be.

If you somehow come across this: I love you, P

>>35844982
>tfw locking eyes with a girl who truly loves you while having sex is the best feel desu

>>35846359
>>35846355
>>35846342
>>35846312
KiII yourseIves, normalfags.

>>35846384
Hmph

Don't you want to know what it's like to be sandwiched between a perfect girl and her pussy cat?

>>35846120
i'm sorry anon <3

>>35846331
>i have to go to submarine(?) now
>you'll get penguin on your eyelids

What

>>35846414
I'm sure he wants to hear you brag about how much better your life is, go ahead

>>35846491
Oh, fine. Just teasing. I'm not here much but some form of a victory lap didn't sound out of character for this thread. But yes to the original question and I'll yield the floor.

>>35846488
Talk to anyone hours a day for years and you'll have your own little retarded but special speech codes. Indicator that things are going well when that starts to develop, of course.

>>35846622
>talk to anyone hours a day

Dude I know you're a normie, but can you at least have some awareness of where you are right now?

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>Win Battle of Bagbrades
>Get back to Rome
>Go onto my ancient tablet
>See this post
>Day ruined

>>35844200
Cuddling is a fucking meme
>Can't get actual sleep because your arms are awkwardly positioned
>steals your fucking blankets and real estate on your bed
>will not let you sleep if she is horny even though you need to get up in the morning

>>35846622
Your being in a relationship is a victory in itself. You don't want to "tease", you want to hold it over their heads. I can't really blame you for it, but I can at least tell it how it is.

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- Can only use 1 arm and the other is forced into some awkward position for however long the cuddling lasts.

- Her hair in your face

- I'm not a side sleeper

- I hate not being able to move freely

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>>35844200
Sometimes when I get especially lonely, I close my eyes and spoon my pillows as if they were a person. If I'm lucky, I'm able to suspend disbelief for a few seconds at most and feel something similar to the feeling of happiness that I forgot.

>>35846719
Cuddling after sex is a meme.
Cuddling before sex is how sex happens.

>>35846829
finally a response that isn't faggy emotional horseshit

>>35846331
>Windows XP
What did he mean by this?

>>35844982
this is the gayest shit i've ever seen on this website baka

>>35846733
Well, since I'm still a shut-in like a lot of you and the only reason I got her attention was some craftiness mixed with the right amount of infatuation, free tips:

Tell her early on (not too early but after you know you have real respect from her at least) that you'll aim to get to know her better than her best friend/parents/whatever and never let off after that - just do what you can to maintain or grow her respect for you while intuiting how much to let her get away before snapping her back (find a way to emotionally reward her when you snap her back - if you pay real attention to everything she says, you'll find a way).

Good luck, seriously. Sincerely. I want you guys to do well.

>>35846872
I hate change. :)

if any of you losers ever get lucky enough to share a bed with a girl just remember to make sure she respects your fucking space and your basic biological need to sleep or else you will be in for a very miserable night filled with tossing and turning and very mediocre sex.

>>35846829
This is all true.
t. just got my first ever gf about a month ago

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>>35846478
Don't be, even with all the love i have for them, they are a bunch of retards and they raised a little retarded, when i was 5 or 6 i thought that everything was right, everyone was happy living together, now i realise that everyone hated each other, anyway, good night fellow robot.

>>35846877
yeah, intimacy with a female is pretty damn gay

>>35844200
Yebs

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>>35844982
I'm gonna ask you nicely to delete this very post

More than anything, I want to cuddle my oneitis, comfort her and tell her everything will be OK. I had such a shitty day and now all I can think of is how I wish she'd do the same to me.

As a man who has cuddled many women it is the best feeling in the world and it is better than sex.

You guys should try it sometime. You only have to do one thing...

>Just be yourself

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>>35845806
>mfw reading that post as a 27 KV

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>>35846890
Your advice is too vague. For anyone with no experience it is worthless.
> just do what you can to maintain or grow her respect for you while intuiting how much to let her get away before snapping her back
What does this even mean? I think you're just finding some way to brag about your girlfriend. Unless you're actually going to put some effort into helping us, you need to just leave.

>>35844982

>tfw you might have said that
Wew, now I'm reminded again and it made me sad.

>>35844287
What? You are the one cuddling her and making her feel safe, it's alpha as fuck.

>tfw your gf was staying with you because of roommate problems
>tfw she's not here tonight because she wants to try out her new room
>tfw you're alone and cold and can't sleep
>tfw you send that "You awake?" text hopes she'll text you so you can pressure into caving and coming over to sleep
>tfw she didn't reply so she's probably already asleep

>>35845806
It's gonna cut deep when you find out she cuddles other men after sex, too.

>>35850662
She's testing out how loud her bed is through the walls with Chad.

>>35850662
>tfw she didn't reply so she's probably already asleep
do you really believe this man
kek
she'll be sleeping soon tho dont worry

>>35844200
i wouldnt say its better than sex but its easier than sex for almost as much benefit to be honest

>>35844297
why is this board crawling with faggots?

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>too much of a beta fucking loser to have ever done this
>or gotten a hug
>or held a hand
why do people like me exist dude? what benefit do people that die alone serve?

>>35850758
I mean it's 3:30 and we're in a legitimate relationship. I tried way too late. If anything if she was waiting for me and forcing herself to stay awake, which she has, she likely would have crashed by now because she falls asleep for the night at around 10:00 when she's with me.

>>35844200
i don't know i haven't touched another human being in a decade

>>35844982
I'm probably gonna think about this post right before my inevitable suicide

Fuck man all i want is for someone that'll lay down and talk with me. Just be nice to me and do stuff with me. That's all I want fuck you normies I haven't even talked more than 30 words to a women since leaving high school it fucking sucks

>>35844200
Yes, it's better than sex to me
>never met a girl who like cuddling as much as I do tho

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cuddling is, in a way, more important to me than sex. It feels so fucking good

>>35845689
>"hurr durr he is former robot, he is not allowed here, 'tis unfair REEEEEE"

go kys you degenerate basement dweller. Try to change your own situation instead of bashing former robots who had succees in breaking out of this miserable autistic life.

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>>35844982
This post makes me want to die. God please end my suffering.

>>35851483
Don't let it influence you. It took me to age 20 before I found the love of my life. Never had serious relationship before. The wait was worth it.

>>35844200
No. I'm naturally hot and having someone pressed against me is fucking annoying. Even in the winter. Plus no girl I've ever cuddled with is comfy enough to fall asleep beside. It has happened once, albeit accidentally, out of the hundreds of times I've cuddled up to girls. Apparently I'm a good cuddler though

>>35851505
>20 year old khv

Don't think it'll ever happen. I stay in my room all day cuz normie shit ain't for me. But good for u for leaving the robot life

>>35851483
Don't worry anon. He's either full of shit and roleplaying or he is new to his relationship. This feeling goes away after awhile and is replaced by fluctuating levels of apathy. This is where the saying "behind every beautiful girl is a guy tired of fucking her" comes from.

>>35851688
Come to the other side! After 1100 hours in DotA, 850 in Cities:Skylines, 550 in BF3 and many more on other games, there is a point where the robot life doesn't make fun anymore. It just leads to severe deppression and probably autism. It isn't worth it.

>>35851743
Damn. You could have been 3 years into a degree with top marks with that amount of time.

Robot here who just purely coincidentally got a girlfriend in college.

Yeah, it actually is amazing, and this coming from someone that barely shows emotion and never wants anyone touching me. You know that feeling when you get under the covers on a cold and stressful day, and it wells up a sort of satisfying comfort in your brain? Cuddling is like that x3. She lays in the bed and I wrap my arm perfectly around her stomach, and her body slots neatly into mine. You share your warmth. You can smell her hair. Kiss the back of her name. It releases endorphins in your mind so you can sleep easier, longer, and deeper (although you'll roll away at some point).

yup it's good

>>35851804
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE


this always gets me because i can only get sex and not a gf

>>35851787
So fucking true, luckily I wasted that time while still in school. Now Im at uni, wasting my time there (but getting an degree at the same time)

>>35844287
I mean, yeah

My mommy gf and I cuddle a lot, and sometimes she lets me rest my head on her chest as she runs her fingers through my hair. It makes me feel so protected and safe :3 feelsgoodman

>>35851816
at least sex, I was thirsting for that for years.

>>35851364
you were never a robot okay?

>>35851840
How old are you and what do you study?

>>35845129
>bragging about being a sociopathic subhuman
>not being /schizoid/ masterrace

>>35851823
Wish I could do that. I fucking hate uni. I just enroll, acrue debt and take the government bux that come with it.

>>35851837
>protected
>by a woman
lol

>>35851855
21, Political Science (it's shit, I know)

>>35851842
fuck yeah I was, it stole many years from me while others where making friends and learn proper social behaviour.

>>35851862
Yes, protected
Do you even understand how mommy issues work?

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You get too hot from cuddling after awhile. It's like a cuddling a furnace. It also gets boring.

>>35851885
>Do you even understand how mommy issues work?
No. Why the fuck would I understand that?

>>35851918
This fucking guy gets it.

>>35851862
It sucks, I literally have no friends in this town (uni is some hundred miles away from home), so I spend most of my time in my room while the weather is perfect for outside activities. At least got a gf, that changes the pace from time to time.

>When she rubs your head until you fall asleep

Does anyone else miss this feel?

>>35851925
Is your girlfriend in town? I personally can't deal with being """"friends"""" with more than a couple of people at a time. I'd be savouring being away from the cunts who demand to leech my time.

>>35851922
Idunno, anon. Having a mommy gf is so great, though. She calls me "little one" and ties me up and steps on me when I'm a good boy :3, and then we cuddle for hours afterwards. tfw i feel loved

>>35851930
When she craves for attention by rubbing or touching you and you just ignore her for a while until you can't resist her any more.

;_;

>>35851972
>ties me up and steps on me when I'm a good boy
I don't think I'll ever understand men or women who like this sort of thing. Sorry anon. At least you're happy I guess

>>35851994
I guess I always gave my gf my full attention because I dont know that feel

>>35851954
yeah she also attends uni here.

>leech your time

Even if you and your friends do stuff you enjoy?

>>35852003
Yeah, it's not for everyone, anon, and it is usually caused by trauma or abuse. kek

>>35852036
I don't know. I think I'm weird. I've had plenty of girlfriends and friends over my time but I honestly begin to feel resentful if I have to spend too much time with them, even if it's things I like. I've come to accept that this makes me a shit friend and I've stopped trying to keep in contact with a lot of people because they only get upset/hurt/whatever when I don't want to spend as much time with them as they do with me.

>>35852039
What kind of trauma/abuse? Legitimately curious.

>>35852119
Like, it is usually caused by parental abuse, whether it be sexual, violent, or just emotional/mental abuse. My mom is just extremely emotionally childish and emotionally manipulative, and has a long history of triggering my anxiety issues in public, so even the mere thought of her frustrates me sometimes. Tfw I had no stable female influence in my life who I felt comfortable with. I mean, now i do, though :))))

>>35852119
I hope you keep some of them, being an adult without people to talk to is a sihtty situation.

>>35844200
If it's a hamplanet or landwhale then it's actually pretty taxing. If it's a chick whose shorter then you and isn't fat then it's nice.

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>>35844982
THIS PAIN IS ONLY A REMINDER OF MY DETERMINATION

MY DESTINY IS IN MY OWN HANDS, I WILL NOT LET MY FUTURE BE FAILURE

I WILL TASTE THE SWEET TASTE OF VICTORY IN OLD AGE

>>35852153
Too late. I'm not sure it bothers me though. I'm getting married soon and I have someone to talk to if needed and the though of having to have maintained those other friendships for years for the few times I need to talk sounds unrewarding. Maybe I'm just broken.

>>35852152
I was emotionally abused as a kid. I grew up the opposite to you though. The thought of being subservient to a woman makes me rage slightly

>>35852226
Good luck, I hope everything turns out the way you want it.

>>35852226
To each his own. The thought of being subservient to a woman gives me a literal boner, and I feel all warm inside. I'm really lucky that I found my current gf. She's a qt autistic 4chan browser who loves cute boys :3

>>35852270
Thanks mate. You too.

>>35852292
Well at least you're happy anon. Just don't let her cheat on you.

>>35852166
>If it's a chick whose shorter then you and isn't fat then it's nice.
Slim is the only fucking standard I have, i dont care if she's a few cm taller as long as she's not fat

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>>35845242
Pink, pink, pink, pink
Big pink ass

>>35844799
It bothers me. I love to cuddle but can't do it for a very long time. We need to get rid of this side effect.

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>>35852644
You say that now but there's nothing better than cuddling with a which whose half a head shorter than you.

>>35852807
*with a girl who is
wew

>>35852807
>nothing better than cuddling with a girl who is half a head shorter than you.

I know, I have done it but I haven't even tried with a girl that's a few cm taller but there can't be much of a difference, r-right anons?

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>>35852840
It's a huge difference. a 5'5" chick is much more /comfy/ than say, a 5'9" chick.

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>>35852887
>Even the most painfully average women are self-obsessed attention seekers

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>>35852955
They also date (and get engaged to ;-;) the ugliest Jew faced fucks imaginable.