why do bitches always talk about rejecting guys or guys pissing them off, shits demotivating. just reminds me that talking/writing to a girl means youre talking to like 30 people
Their social capital is the reverse of males.
A males value is determined by how many women he sleeps with, and to a lesser degree the quality of them.
Women's value is based on their exclusivity. They see themselves as a prize to be won, and rejecting low ranking males reaffirms this value to them. The same reason guys brag about fucking a bunch of chicks is the reason women talk about rejecting creepy guys.
>>35828279
Also it's to help justify the rejection, a lot of girls worry if they are being to short with guys. When friends say "nah I would have avoided that freak too" or "Sounds like you dodge a bullet" It helps them feel better being so exclusive.
Women care a lot about what sociologists call "social proof", which means that the more other women are interested in a man, the more attractive he seems to her.
Men don't work the same way, if we see a lot of other men pursuing a girl our interest goes down because it makes her seem like a hassle. But young women are generally too inexperienced to have learned that lesson yet, so they assume men think the same way they do and try to attract them with social proof.
>>35828300
>Men don't work the same way, if we see a lot of other men pursuing a girl our interest goes down because it makes her seem like a hassle
what fucking country/state are you from because everything I have seen it's the flip and the more prized the girl is the more flock to her.
>>35828335
New Zealand, but the way I described is the way it works in most places.
You must be misinterpreting the situation somehow, the vast majority of men are turned off by seeing that they'll have to compete with many other men to get a girl and keep her.
>>35828335
UK here and we very much have that too, why try to charm someone who is of high status when you know they will reject you then complain about you to their peers in order to project how attractive they are onto others - people would rather go for average to lower-tier women and have a fling or two while they have it, and those are the chads.
>>35828573
It can be the 9 and 10 girls that don't get pursued for this reason, and they are often social freaks