Just found out that the girl that I like is getting engaged with

>>35817048
sorry my bad, I was told to post my dilemma here. meant /r9k/. I'm just really fucked up right now.

>>35817048
Grow some balls...she doesn't want ANYTHING to do with you - she is obviously happy with the man she is MARRYING , grow up and get on with your life , stop being so limp.

>>35817096
So you're fucking telling me i should be happy for them? They started dating after first month of freshman year! They've kept me in the dark for 8 years, 8 fucking years...

If I had known about this in the first month my feelings could have subsided or i would've moved onto another friend group.

>>35817265
how the fuck did you manage to not figure it out on your own after 8 years? you mean after 8 fucking years of him being your best friend you didnt see them touch, hold hands, hug, anything like that? i think you're fucking full of it

>>35817335
We usually hung out in groups... Sometimes it was just the three of us.

I don't have a facebook, nor do i use social media. In a way i'm disconnected from the world. I usually get reminders from them for events and write it out on a physical planner.

>>35817394
i dont think that's an excuse. nearly a full decade passed, and you can bet your life that they were sexually active with each other within a few months of the relationship starting. if you hung at out at all there had to be clues unless you're just a completely unaware autist. the fact that theyre always hanging out and you never see them in relationships with other people should have been a huge indicator in itself

>>35817048
>they told me they didn't tell me because they didn't want me to be a third wheel.

translation: lying was easier than dealing with the awkwardness

they probably both knew you liked her and still didn't say anything. doesn't sound like good friends to me.