>father ignores you and shits on you for 20 years >tries

>>35799948
I used to be angry at my father anon. I purposefully tried to make him feel bad for how he had acted, and each time I saw the pain and regret in his face, I relished. Eventually, I started to actually forgive him. Now I can hear the sadness and repentance in his face even after I've forgiven him, and it makes me feel bad.

>>35800024
*Hear the sadness and repentance in his voice and see it in his face*

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They were talking about abuse of the elderly on the radio this morning, and people got to call in and give their opinions. Some dude called in and said that if one treats their kids like shit they shouldn't act so fucking surprised if they get the favour returned later on, I think he had a point.

>>35799948
people are selfish anon if I were you I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of forgiveness, he can fuck right off.

>>35799948
suck his old smegma ridden cock lol

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>>35799948
i welcome it because its like i finally have my dad back. he's doing well in his career and he's less intense than when i was youngbot.

>>35800083

This, and it's disturbing that the ones who choose to become parents, the ones we call adults, still basically behave as if they're in fucking kindergarten. They may have a job and be able to provide yet they're still on the same level as kids.

>>35799948
you should try and be nice to your dad anon
maybe he really has changed
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>>35800000

He just wants you to take out the trash, anon.

>>35800209
he definitely has not changed, he's still an awful narcissistic sperg with anger issues

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>tfw my dad won't even answer the phone

The last time I saw him he just talked about how terrible his life is and kept calling my mom a whore and mocking my brother.

I've gone and made myself cry

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>grew up lower-middle class in an upper-middle class school district
>got bullied and ostracized for it
>lived in a shithole townhouse filled with garbage and useless crap because my dad is a hoarder

>found out when I was an adult that my dad actually made a respectable salary but pissed all the money away on drugs and cigs and porn and other useless shit
>mom is a beta like me and never challenged him about financial things
>was never able to live in a real house or have a real bedroom or have friends over or be proud of where I live because he wasted money on selfish things

Tfw no that dad is sick and trapped home he wants to bond with family even tho he was never around when we were youngbots and when he was around he made my mother cried and used to scared the shit out of my brother and me.
Even tho all that happened sometimes I looked at him and I see his pale face and skinny body, there's a sad aura all over him and I have heard him cry a few times and it makes me sad but as soon as I start to ger close to him he doesn't know really what to do and we fight like always.

Saddest thing is that my kids will probably treat me as I treat my father

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>family are complete lunatics, father especially

>want to move far away and cut ties

>care too much about mommy to leave her alone with those psychos

>>35800466
just lose yourself....it's in your blood, become a psycho too...it might feel very, very nice

>>35800466
Same here,
Mommy is way too important to leave her back, I really want to give her a new house and convince her to left my dad

>Dad forces me and mom to travel with him in africa and asia since I'm 6 months old
>Forced to change country and language every 3 to 9 months (portuguese, french, english, tribal shit)
>Got malaria 4 times, typhoid fever, marburg's fever, ebola, my sickle-cell anemia genes activated, and a form of acute melanoma
>This goes on till I'm 7 years old
>Age 14, Dad in home country, I'm in NY
>Fuck that guy
>Turns out he had HCV and was dying from liver failure
>Died, haven't heard him years before his death
>Be me 19 now
>Did blood tests because I wanted to donate
>Turns out I have HCV as well with less than 6 months to live

Thanks Dad, at least you left your fucking legacy of diseasrs even after you died.

>>35800563
I want my mom to divorce my dad too but she literally can't, she wouldn't be able to live. she's injured and her job pays like shit. she'd have to get another degrading job and she'd have to take care of my low-functioning autistic sister on her own.

>>35799948
>father treats you nice and lets you do whatever
>realises that you're never going to leave him so he suddenly takes you for granted and shits on you
You fuck off, it's better to gain things in life rather than lose them.

>biological father abandoned my mom with me when I was like 2 or 3
>comes to my 18 birthday
Yeah thanks for the care daddy. Your genes are not getting transmitted further by me anyway.

>>35799948
My dad was a raging alcoholic and coke fiend and would come home after a night of partying and always yell at me and sometimes beat me up.

When I got old enough to fight back, both physically and verbally it was apparent we were going to wind up killing each other. I decided the best course of action would be to just run away...
Lived with a friend for a while and got a shitty job at a grocery store, then joined the Army.

Fast forward 9 years im not exactly successful but im doing alright on my own. Father is getting older.
Should have been dead by now but apparently there is a god because he has survived 10 car crashes, pneumonia, 3 muggings, and a flash flood. MOther fucker just wont DIE. But he knows his time is coming and I guess he's beginning to feel bad about all the fucked up shit he's done and is trying to make up with me.

I don't want to forgive him, I just want him to fuck off. Whenever I see him it just makes me want to kick his ass all over again.