Don't anyone here feel like having a gf would be too much

I miss Erica

Come back polar bear :(

>>35696327
I feel like this about any kind of company
I only feel lonely occasianly and keeping close contacts is too much a hassle for me

>>35696327
I feel the same way famalam even though im just a cyborg

>>35696327
If you are sure you can get a gf, then you can decide. Otherwise your probably just rationalizing.

im happy erica got away from here. i think she streams on twitch now (at least i watched her a few weeks ago) . She seems to be happy. shes actually really good at LOL.

>>35696327
Yeah I'm too lazy for a gf, and I'm unwilling to change my interests.

Having a gf seems like a lot of work.

It doesn't help my interests are things that women don't like. Metal, guitar, motorcycles, vidjya, animuu. I'm basically grill repellent.

I am like this, I have a gf, I love her but I just hate it when she wants to call the entire time

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>4 year relationship
>she was funny and interesting
>lots of sex at start she was great
>turned into little to no sex
>had to essentially beg for a half-assed handjob
>she got fat and bitchy
>didnt browse 4chan because naked ladies might pop up
>had to browse porn on phone in bathroom
>her parents always needed a favor from me once a week
>dropped

I've been unwillingly single for the last 3 years but it's great freedom when I think about it.

>>35696327
Sometimes I want a gf, but then the next day I'm just like "meh", that sounds like too much work.

>>35696327
>OMG ANON SPEND TIME WITH ME SPEND TIME WITH ME

once a week or less would be my policy on spending time together

>basically YOUR HOBBIES SUCK BECAUSE I DON'T LIKE THEM

yeah go kys i will do what i want

>ANON SPEND MONEY ON ME AT (insert waste of money here)

no.

>ANON STOP PLAYING LEAGUE AND/OR WATCHING ANIME SO WE CAN WATCH SOMETHING (most likely shitty normie humor) ON NETFLIX

no thanks, that would be a waste of my time

>LET'S GO ON VACATION (so i can try to make other women jealous of me on social media)

no. i have my computer (which is my baby) right here which provides adequate entertainment.

>ANOONNNN WHY DO YOU NEVER ASK ME ABOUT MY DAY

don't you have "friends" to gossip with that about instead?
this is nowhere near the beginning of the tip of the iceberg

having gf is too expensive and emotionally exhausting. I'd rather just beat my shit and spend money on myself or my family

>>35696572
>She's actually really good at Laugh Out Loud

>>35696327
I'm the same way, OP, except I'm a failed normie

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>>35696327

I couldn't handle a relationship, so there would be no point in being in one. I hate affection and do not want to be touched, don't want to spend money on another person when I don't have to, don't need the added stress, etc - I could never have sex even if the opportunity was presented, though I appreciate a female's beauty from a far and regularly masturbate to them.

Same reason I don't have any friends, I can't handle it. I've been that way since a kid. I've reached an odd point where being alone makes me the sad mess I am, but also the only thing that makes me happy. It doesn't make sense. I think I hate myself, but hate others more (not to sound edgy). I used to obsess over this, but I finally reached the point where I've accepted it.

ya I don't need the responsibility of keeping some chick entertained

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>>35696327
>>35696387
Erica Fanclub Discord if you're interested:

https://discord.gg/fdrzRu3

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Yes but I'd prefer that to loneliness and wizardry.

>>35697693
Why would you have a gf who has no hobbies in common with you in the first place

>>35700070
i don't want a relationship partner who shares in my hobbies. i DO NOT want to talk to them about it because women are incapable of deep conversation. it's like that anon who spoke of females in his engineering classes said - they just can't speak about anything on a deeper level. it'd be too superficial for me to work with

>>35696327
A friend is worse.

With friends it's always BRO DUDE COME ON MAN DUDE MAN COME ON BRO IT'S GOING TO BE EPIC WE'RE GOING TO DRINK SOME BEERS BRO SO EPIC WIN BRO MAN COME ON DUDE.


At least with a gf you can stick your dick inside her and bust a nut.


Although TECHNICALLY you could bust a nut inside your friend too, I guess.


At one point when I was the normiest I could ever be, I had friends and a gf while working nights full time. I barely had any time to myself while my friends and my gf were constantly occupying all the time I spent when I wasn't working or sleeping. Eventually I had to break up with my neediest friend.


You can always get a new gf, but you can also make new friends.

>>35700111
You sound like a closeted homo desu.

Every girl I was ever with, not that many, had more interests in common with me and were more relateable than any of my dumb friends.

>>35700278
you sound like a filthy fucking normie or a closet faggot because no man i've ever heard of who wasn't gay ever shared much in common with most women

>>35700323
>don't like girls who shares hobbies with you
>don't like girls who don't share hobbies with you
>therefore don't like girls
>therefore gay

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This is my girlfriend. I don't mean the 2d picture of the female either.

>>35698315
You sound a lot like me friend

>>35700323
Maybe I am a filthy fucking normie, even if you're trying to make it sound like it's an insults.


Boys and girls, men and women, they meet and relate to each other over common interests. That's how relationships work.

Of course sometimes the opposite is true, they might not have anything in common but still like each other on a personal level so they then introduce their own hobbies to the other.


Of course you're a raging autist so you can't relate to anyone about anything. Including but not limited to women.

>>35700619
you read and replied to half of my statement

All I care about is music and television. Relationships are too much effort.

>>35700619
what if I don't give a shit about relating to some other asshole as if it were somehow important

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>>35698315
This hits too close too home anon i know how you feel man. Does it get better?

I literally have zero dollars in my bank account because i'm a student. I'd have to ask my parents for money to even go on a coffee date, I also am not allowed to have sex in my house unless i'm tryna be homeless.
I did have money at one point but even then I was too lazy to put in the effort on going on dates. I'd much rather just netflix and chill everytime if I could but no girl is down for that unless you are turbochad.

>>35700778
then enjoy your tulpas and anime body pillows I guess, it's nice to relate to people sometimes, being the emo lone wolf isn't great in the long run.

>>35700691
just the relevant half

>durr hurr ur gay

Because girls aren't into any sort of music or movies or TV shows or video games or sports or spectator sports or politics or anything that guys are into, right? Guys only care about lumberjack beards and farting while girls only care about shoes and make-up?

>>35700866
My tulpa eats a mean, mean anus. I can almost swear it isn't my thumb and index fingers with lips drawn on them and a dildo tongue.

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>>35700968
>thumb and index fingers with lips drawn

You just triggered some buried memories of when I was like 15 and practiced kissing with my hand senpai

>>35697693
You sound like a dick

bloxx

>>35696327

I relate 100%.
I save myself the hassle and stick to porn when I have to drain my nuts.

>>35700866
>Because girls aren't into any sort of music or movies or TV shows or video games or sports or spectator sports or politics or anything that guys are into, right? Guys only care about lumberjack beards and farting while girls only care about shoes and make-up?

i'm not wrong

>>35701349
You're 100% absolutely wrong.

You can name absolutely any sort of hobby or interest, besides gay sex, and there will be both men and women involved in it.

I just want to lose my virginity, break up and go on with my NEET life. I can't handle the shame anymore.

>>35701414
how indulged and knowledgeable they are about it is the major difference. for example, you may find 30 females and 400 males who claim to play video games. maybe 1-2 of those females, if that, could have an in depth conversation with you about it without looking lost during major portions of it. you can say "common interests" all you want, but the extent is key here.

>>35697693
>playing league
why would you play such a shit game?

>>35696327

Yes.

I really just want a FWB type thing. I know the person, I like/care about them, but without the obligations of full on bf/gf titles.

I just wanna hold hands and cuddle and fuck gently sometimes, man

>>35701526
it's better than overwatch, dota, and heroes of the storm + i played every game into the ground that i have on steam so i needed something new to play. been playing league for over 6 months now and still going strong

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all relationships ive been in have been pretty shitty. I'm surrounded by basic white women, so I dont really have much to choose from, so its really best to not fuck with basic bitches and just play video games

>>35701474
>maybe 1-2 of those females, if that, could have an in depth conversation with you about it without looking lost during major portions of it.
>in depth conversation
>video games

I play video games to have fun. They're games. I'm not going to autistically have a Fake Gamer Girl questionnaire pre-emptively set-up so that I can interrogate a girl about the Final Fantasy chronology or Dragon Quest lore.

They're just games, guy, not philosophy or economics.

OP here, I'm happy to know most of you feel the same way, friends are included too

This is when you start thinking how empty life can be, like you're just too lazy to live a ''normal'' life

>>35701580
have you not ever just sat down and talked to someone about a game that goes beyond a few sentences? if so, you've missed out on some really good conversations. i play them to enjoy myself as well. the reason you can't have an in depth conversation with a woman about things like that is because they don't pay enough attention and/or care enough to be able to have a conversation on that level. men generally show more passion toward things they have interest in, while women don't seem to show much of it.

>>35701726
The only person I ever talked to about video games in a way that more than just "do you play X? No I play Y." was with a girl back in 2011.

I had just gotten Skyrim and also Oblivion, and this girl I worked with was totally excited and happy for me and I had no idea why. I had no idea of the Elder Scrolls world and she was telling how she grew up with Morrowind and everytime that we met up again I would tell her about what I did in the game and she would tell me more about the lore and the different races and their history and the previous games, etc.

The way that you try to blame everything on women and bitch about them... you sound like more of a woman than women themselves.

Had a long loving marriage. Wife died.

I recovered emotionally after four years but like many widowers and widows I'm now stronger and different. Traumatic bereavement changes you because some of the old you dies with your loved one.

You can't go back, and chasing a ghost in other relationships is toxic so I don't have the slightest desire to do that. I enjoyed being in love more than anything in my life, but I enjoy a variety of things and feel like exploring without the burden of emotional investment. It's not damage, it's change.

Most of you are younger than I but I gently suggest you think about what I said. Your future is never quite what you expect.

>>35701944
CHECKED
Dubs dont lie

>>35701849
oh way to completely ignore most of my post and constantly go on about "not all" when i achknowledged "not all" in my previous post. you sound like you don't get around the video games crowd much

it is some work but it is ok. spending time with her is nice. she is cuddly and cute. she is also clingy and obsessed with me. we spend whole days cuddling and having sex. it is really comfy.
sometimes when i am in a bad mood i want to be alone though. and i feel bad cause she is so nice

>>35696327
I feel like this is a little bit too real for me. I'm basically a NEET right now, had a job interview a couple days ago and should have another one lined up in a week or so. But yeah, I hate it when people have the constant need to hang out and don't give me time to myself at all. I'm not actually that introverted, I just like having time to do whatever I want. I guess I just don't like other people thinking they're entitled to my time.

>Don't anyone here feel like having a gf would be too much trouble?

Six years ago, I would've said no. Today, I would definitely agree. I'd rather have sex with escorts and have one-night stands with girls off Tinder than be in a long-term relationship. It's like being a babysitter, except you don't get paid (at least in my experience).

>>35696327
I know it would.
>friend gets back with his ex
>she's over alot more
>tells her he wants time to himself/spend with fiends
>she sulks and complains
>repeatedly asks her to leave
>starts crying and leaves
Like, haha, no, fuck that, leave, me, the fuck, alone

I want a gf and all the nice things that come with one but I don't see myself handling a relationship too well.

Maybe having someone who likes me for who i am and whatnot would make me get my shit together but i'm incredibly bad at maintaining my friendships so she'd prolly get mad at me for forgetting to send her a good morning message or something

>>35696327
Sometimes I get really stressed with school and life, I need sometime to just stay at school/home, shut out everyone and get work done. I need someone that understands this.

I broke up with my ex because she really didn't like this. I didn't see her for 3 days after she slept at my place every night for the previous week and she sent me a long ass text saying how she wasn't getting enough attention even though I texted/snapchatting her every few hours. I had to type out like 30 pages of work in a week so my life was basically going to class, going to the library until 10pm and then sleeping but she made it out like I was avoiding her or something. She's a 25 year old women and she couldn't just not see me for 3 days? What the hell?

>>35701571
Do yourself a favor and stop playing that shitty game.