>no one will ever find you actually attractive in any way

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Get in shape, get a tan, get a nice haircut, shave your ugly facial hair.

It's pretty much impossible to NEVER be attractive to anyone unless you're a burn victim or hilariously deformed.

>>35625436
I guess the normie advice to give here would be improve yourself so that a person doesn't have to settle to be with you?

>>35625475
"Improvement" is such a nebulous term though. Nobody actually cares how much you improve. All that matters is the end result.

It's too hard and the risk for failure is too high. Meanwhile other people can do it and more with minimal effort. It just comes naturally to them. They start out already better than you and go to impossible heights.

Stuff like "shower more" and "lift weights" is easy. It's tangible, it's measurable. Stuff like "find a hobby" or "become interesting" or "learn social competence"? The real important stuff? It's impossible. You can't make it.

>>35625436
U gotta put urslef out there m'dude
Just bee urslef m'man !

Who am i kidding anon. 23 yo khhv and genuinely ugly but i don't care anymore. Life seems like a movie that plays back in my retina.

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>>35625462
>hilariously deformed
Welp

>>35625475
you can't improve a shit face ;_;
t. khhv wizard

>>35625462
A tan isn't really necessary, but good advice

>>35625600
kek

>>35625436
>no one will ever find you actually attractive in any way

I might be afraid of having people like me because every time in school and uni when someone talks to me/shows interest in my life, etc. I just make myself seem like the most undesirable person. I slouch, act assholey and like I don't give a shit about anything, try to sleep when someone talks to me or say how I don't care about what he says at all, pull a very bad posture, laugh in the wrong places, smother food on my face while eating, make faces and rub my face all the time.

>tfw mom tries to get you a gf
>don't want to say 'I don't give a shit' to not seem like gay
>but I don't actually give a shit

Just leave me alone mom!

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>even if someone could get past your hideous appearance, they'd still be repulsed by your hideous personality

there is no feasible reason why someone would want to be in a relationship with me. i don't even know what couples do. i'm so far removed from the entire thing. i'm a manchild. i can't relate to my peers.

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>>35625552
Wrong, through hard work you can accomplish pretty much anything famalam. Sure, if you're boring you're going to have a harder time than someone who naturally isn't. If you're fat you're going to have to go through a life changing decision to lose your weight. If you look like shit you have to improve yourself in other ways. No one say it's easy. It's not. But you have to fucking do it if you want to find happiness.

>>35625684
Life is not an anime. Hard work does not always mean success.

And like I said, all the things you listed are tangible. If you're fat, you can work out and you WILL lose weight. If you're socially incompetent or just generally lack a personality or a reason to live, what the fuck do you do? There's no exercise for that. You can try a thousand times and still fuck up and make no progress because your personality or lack thereof is rigid as an adult. I messed up my formative years by being weird and shy and playing videogames too much. Now I'm ruined. I can't have a conversation. I'm a non-person.

>no girl will ever want to have children with you

>>35625836
good I'm ugly and retarded and my eyesight is bad

I'm doing the world a service

>>35625783
That's not true. You change, even if you don't realize it. If you're anti-social you're going to have to go through shame and a lot of uncomfortable situations for you. Even if it annoys others, you have to try and talk to people. Force yourself even. Eventually you're going to see it as something normal and casual to do and are going to get better at it. Just like a fat person can get fit, someone who can't socialize can get better at it just by trying. It's going to take time and it's going to feel terrible but it's going to work eventually. A reason to live though, that's something that you have no control, I do agree.

>>35625436
PLASTIC SURGERY. An investment.

>>35625866
I know, I'm the same.

It still hurts.

>>35625836
I would hate being a father so I dont mind.

>>35625872
I've tried. I've done the whole gamut. I've done behavioral therapy and exposure therapy. It didn't work. I didn't improve. Every time I fucked up I wanted to cry. I had to resist the urge to not cry in public like a fucking child. I have no friends, I can't make them, I can't keep them, I have nothing going on in my life that would make someone care about me. I don't do anything. I sleep all day. It's hell but there's nothing else to do. I can't find fulfilment through others or through myself. This shithole website is my only form of socialization because it's entirely anonymous and I can just disappear when I'm overwhelmed. I am boring and pathetic personified.

i had two girls interested in me at a hospital i was at i'm a jacked robot

>>35625995
Well, you've failed and gave up. I did too. A lot. But I tried again and again until it worked. It took me years, but it finally improved. It was long, hard, tiresome and gradual process but it worked. I can't really tell you anything except to not give up, but that will probably sound stupid in my part and not giving up is something really, really hard to do, you gotta have a strong mind.

>>35626058
At what point am I allowed to give up? Never? I don't accept that. I don't want to live like that. That's a guaranteed path to suicide.

>>35625436
I know all of these feels. It's an awful realization. Why were we even born?