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I suspect this has ruined dating way more than people admit (a lot of people will lie about having met through it so survey percentages will be skewed). How do we solve this problem? Will Western society go the same was Japan and the herbivore men, sidelined by Chad who has life on easy mode?
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>make tinder profile
>remember I'm ugly
>delete profile
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>>35589607
Thanks for reminding me why I don't bother with online dating.
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>>35589623
You're just making it even easier for Chad though. If there are more dud profiles we can at least spite Chad and Stacey, since they the profiles will take longer to sift through.
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>>35589641
it would literally take a stacy 5 more minutes to find a chad if every single robot made a profile, it wouldn't affect them
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>>35589607
>make a tinder profile
>swipe over 1,000 people in the course of 2 weeks or so
>8 matches
>none of them reply

just b urself guys
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>>35589736
what happens if you get matched?
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>>35589751


Lel oh anon
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>>35589751
You message them and they don't reply : )
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>>35589586
We have basically gotten rid of everything in courtship that isn't visual. Your interests don't matter Your voice doesn't your money doesn't. Nothing but looks. Can't remember where I reddit but there was a Stacey who admits online dating has made it impossible for some people to mate
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>>35589736
That's not bad anon, you probably need a better opener and you're good to go
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>>35589828
I probably need a better face.

FTFY

I'm good with words, I'm not good with being attractive.
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>>35589586

>get fit
>lie about height, make it >6ft, retarded roasties will believe it as long as they aren't >6ft themselves
>lie about hobbies

>picture with either friends or family
>picture of you with an pet
>picture of your ripped body

>ask for number/date 2-3 messages in

Tada
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>>35589842
You got them matches though, that's something
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>>35589857

>6ft

I still can't understand that kind of expectation.

6ft is the average male height in the TALLEST country on the world (Netherlands).

Either people don't really know what 6 feet really are, or everyone is lying about their height.
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>>35589868
Ye, 8 matches, 8 out of 1000 swipes, possibly more.

Moreover, 0 replied to me, woops.

There's just always better options, even for the ugly 1/10 girls.
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>>35589736
Not even black girls ?
i not that good looking and only 5'8
even i have gotten reply from black girls
but considering they are 50% likely to std i dont replay back
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>>35589908
Even niggers, I swiped everything, planets, niggers, even some bitch in a wheelchair.

I'm over 6'0, not fat, just disgusting in the face.
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>>35589915
dame dude

Their is only one option now, convert to Islam and try to get arranged married to a Muslim girl
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>>35589915
This
I fell for the just lower your standards meme. Even fatties don't respond to me
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>>35589857
I don't want to even try Tinder. I would like to see what happened if it just disappeared one day. It would have a massive impact on the roasties, can you imagine?
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>>35589935
female standards online are through the fucking roof mate. You're just a thing in the catalog.

I can't even pull 45yo single moms on this shit. Closest I've gotten was a really banged up mom who cams on the side.
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>>35589935
Yeah, I reluctantly fell for this meme too, I didn't want to have to lower my standards but I tried but even the landwhales and disfigured cunts have better options.

I guess it's tinder though so there's a plethora of choices and the bottom of the barrel will struggle. I sure as fuck won't be able to meet anybody IRL though, not even sure where I would do such a thing.

>>35589934
I'm a good catholic boy. It's ok I guess, just sucks I lost the genetic lottery.
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>>35589966
they'd just spend more time on insta and fb. It has virtually no impact on their lives.

I do know one person who met a gf on there though, but he's decent lookign with a great job.
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>>35589976
Not just that but you can't even tell if you're dealing with spam bots. Even ugly profiles are ppssibly just spambots
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>>35589586
even though I use it and would probably still would be a virgin without it I would get rid of it in a second. it's fucking cancer on society

it's made for two sorts of people:
>women
>males who have 9/10 and 10/10 looks
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> get match
> we have a conversation
> eventually she stops replying

and the other matches are bots
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>>35590052
I can totally see what you mean. I could try to use it and maybe just about manage to get someone with some luck and effort, but no. As you say it is just cancerous. It's going to create massive problems, even for average-looking guys. The lack of good studies into the proportion of young people who start relationships online is worrying, too. Older people running the country have no idea about what this is doing to younger men and the terrible demographic problems it is going to cause with low birth rates.
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>>35590137
>Older people running the country have no idea about what this is doing to younger men

I'm not sure they're ignorant. They just can't do aything about it.

>I could try to use it and maybe just about manage to get someone with some luck and effort, but no

This entire idea is antiquated in every way, from gf to job to social groups. This isn't hwo things work anymore.

Previously there were pathways available in which a genetically/socially disadvantaged man could improve their circumstances. Now these men are almost wholly fucked. If you don't have a social life in HS, you're likely to never have one. If you don't have what women want growing up, you won't have it as an adult. If you have difficulty finding a job at 22, you'll likely have difficulty finding a job at 32. If you got caught shoplifting when you were 18, that's now there forever.

Things are over very early these days.
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>>35589586
>>be bender's evil robot brother
>>have moderate "success" on tinder
>>6 months ago, had at least 20-30 matches at any given time
>>constantly wasting time messaging these stupid bitches.
>>go on a date with one for first time
>>lesson learned: if they don't show their entire...torso at least in the picture they are hiding some land lubber horror flubber underneath that instagram/snapchat filtered picture.
>>small world matched me with someone i went to school with 8 years ago, a girl that I actually liked...
>>we hit it off, 6 months of dating. 1 hour drive LDR.
>>turned out to be a psycho, manipulative bitch & I woulda wifed her bu I was hanging out with a mate and she called me and didn't believe me.
>>same night, me and my friend are back at my place chilling, and I get a loud knock on the door like 1:30 or some shit.
>>It's her.
>>red pills start to kick in
>>we get into heated argument about nothing
>>she is drunk, can smell alcohol on her breath.
>>couldn't morally let her drive home so she stays the night. reverse cuckd' in the sense that I'm trying to hang with one of my only friends.
>>tell her to stop bothering me about her stupid ex fiance while im working one day
>>get a 5 text message in a row blast about how her fiance cheated and shit about her sexual activity that should have been disclosed.
>>Tell her via text: That's it.
>>Blocked number, blocked everything.
>>unsolicited visit on valentine's day.
>>it was her, and she wanted to come inside to "talk" and get "closure" for fifteen minutes. (AKA get you in this closed space with no witnesses so I can claim you did whatever the fuck I say to me.)
>>probably would be in prison right now if I had let her in, she was clutching her keys with two self defense weapons on them
TLDR; tinder is a shit.. there have been no exceptions. period
so take it from a jaded robot with "good looks", being the only asset you can use on this fucking shit:
it's not worth it. and the app is fucking free.
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Holy shit this crap ruined my self esteem, now i feel even more ugly. 3 matches, 3 low grade, old single moms asking for a cuck.

I will never reproduce.
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>>35590137
like this shit is seriously damaging with serious ramifications. it's not a joke, it's literally fucking going to ruin generations of people.

you know how you see in the 50s/60s and even today with boy bands how women go absolutely crazy over those certain guys like the beatles and stuff. tinder is kind of like that for women, but they're actually interacting and can have sex with them (guys they find really, really attractive).

before maybe some women, a small percentage actually had a chance to meet guys like that when they would come across them in real life. now literally every single fucking female about 5/10 and above can get fucked by them in a few hours. now of course these chads are never going to settle for some 6/10 roastie. but for these roasties they will never find someone like that for a real relationship so they will eventually marry someone in their league but they will be eternally dissatisfied because their beta-bf will never give them the mind shaking orgasm chad thundercock did and he will never give them that feeling of intense attraction.

it's not fucking normal or natural and the consequences are fucked up.

and then to all the beta men who don't get the pussy, realise what women have actually been up to and decide they don't want used goods. this could be seriously damaging for society in the long run. how can you even trust someone anymore when sex is so easy to get?
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>>35590197
>This entire idea is antiquated

I get what you mean, 'hard work gets you nowhere' these days and all of that. In my case I have anxiety which totally prevents me from socialising in person. To me, success would be just meeting someone, not intimacy/a second date. What I mean is, by going from doing absolutely nothing about it to trying at least something would bring my chances from zero to at least non-zero, which is still technically an infinite increase. But as I say, I don't want to even do that. I don't want to fuel this garbage.
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>>35589891
remember one thing, you apeared on girls probably 10% of the swipes you made so 8-100 is already much better

spend 10 bucks and get premium for a week you ll actually get shown all the time and possibly get laid

if good with words, you ll get somewhere for sure
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>>35589887

I'm 6'4 and tell everyone I'm 6'1.

Dating sites are fucked. All the nice looking girls have fucking KIDS. Only people that like me back are fat girls which means I'm ugly as sin. FUCK IT ALL.
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>>35590632
Exactly. Anecdotally, it seems that most average-looking guys are really struggling these days. There will always be exceptions, but I have few average-looking male friends who are in relationships. In college, the only people in relationships are the 'cool' guys and basically all of the girls.
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>>35590707
80% of good looking girls on tinder are fake profiles

>maybe she ll like me
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>>35590815

I was talking about the non-fake ones. After that, the few that look nice have kids. The rest are fat.
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>>35590868
well there are a tonne of fake ones for sure.
the ones that look nice don't all have kids...
but the ones that don't have kids aren't nice.
and the fat chicks probably have a mayonaisse baby in that oven too already from fatmanfetishphil's annual spitroast party.
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>35589986
are you kidding?

roasties are OBSESSED with tinder. it's literally constant validation of their sexual value and attention from attractive men. it's worse than heroin for them. it's a 1,000x overload for their lizard brains

even if a woman never fucks a chad from tinder but uses it for the validation, when she finds a bf elsewhere that makes her delete she will be all fucked up and craving that constant attention/validation.

it's not healthy and probably worse than most drugs for your mind
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>>35590942
Yeah, loads of girls openly admit to just using it for validation. Imagine having dozens of people all desperately trying to get with you? You'd feel entitled to hold out for a 10/10 Chad. Except women don't realise the desperation of these men, the silent hell which I bet a massive portion of the male population is now going through.
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>>35590942
yep yep, this anon speaks the concise truth.
validation is the name of the game.
you wondering why that bubbly convo you thought you were gonna have that would lead to a date and your dick getting sucky suckied?
it's because that's not what they are using the app for.
they have real life for that.
this is just "sprinkles" on their already glazed like a doughnut, vaginal circumfrence wider than michael strahan's gap dick syrup recepticle.
RUGH.
it's ruining everything.
and everything was pretty fucked up before all of this.
tinder is a bell of the apocalypse, in the terms of modern day of society.
we may not die out as a species, but shit sure is changed forever now.
from the top down, our mating systems are becoming so convoluted with purpose vs pleasure, opting for an overindulgence in the latter.
and i say it again RUGH.
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>>35591016
at the end of the day the only people really getting any real benefit out of it (if you can call it positive) are the top tier guys who now have access to even more women than before.

even though women think it's empowering and think they're getting good sexual pleasure out of it it, it's ironically objectifying as fuck for them because all they are is wet hole #147 to chad thundercock. it's just going to leave them miserable and dissatisfied.
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it's also pretty scary to think we've probably past a point of no return by now and shit is only going to get worse before it gets better. to be hopeful it might just be some societal phase like hippies or whatever and people will look at back at this era of over promiscuity and hedonistic indulgence as gross and wrong.

but it's also quite possible that that will never happen, given that's it pretty much driven by many of the strongest human emotions (sex drive, attention, validation etc) and it will just keep getting worse until society fails or becomes unrecognisable.
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>match with girl
>panic and delete app
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>create tinder last Saturday
>around 10 matches since
>7 qts have the dullest most uninterested conversations, eventually interest wears off
>3 plain janes actually engage in conversation but not attractive enough so I get bored

I think I'm just spoiled, I was Chadish attitude-wise during my teens and late teens (21 now) and had some great looking grills back then but after a while I underwent the redpill mindset and now I can only see degeneracy, ironically I'm better looking than ever and get less female attention but I still won't lower my standards
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>>35591592
I'd ree you but you seem to know what's up with this.
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