General chatting thread, complete and utter apathy edition.

Should I quit fapping?

Also, what should I read now? I've got some short different stories and a tale about a man and a donkey in southern spain.

>>35566666
Nice get. Nah, I masturbate pretty regularly (2-3 times a day) and I think that there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, when I tried to cut down cause my ex suggested it, I just felt frustrated and cranky, so I didn't hold out for long.

Whatever you want, man. I'd personally go with the donkey tale, but honestly do whatever.

>>35566717
Ok thanks. I have shitty stamina so I fap twice or four times a week. But still.

I'll go with the donkey one now.

>>35566755
Yeah that is completely reasonable. Coolio (:

>>35566610
I want some friends :(

>>35566823
Is that something you're willing to work on, or are you more of a "occasionally thinks about this stuff but forgets it and plays vidya/smokes weed/insert escape here" kinda guy?

I wish I was a cute girl with a big, strong, dom bf to turn me into a sex kitten

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>>35567079
That's fair enough, I can get where you're coming from. The whole domination aspect in sex is quite interesting to be honest.

I haven't started the book yet. Here I am procrastinating.

>>35567487
I am as well rather than doing my coursework. I have no real idea on how to deal with procrastination.

>>35566666

THOSE FUCKING DIGITS

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Girls want only want Chad
Focus on traps
Traps only want chad
What's the fucking point robots

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>>35567833
Yeah, if you have attractive qualities, people are more likely to be attracted to you, that's how it works. You're more attracted to cute girls than massive landwhales, so I don't see why you're angry about this when you yourself are guilty of the same thing. Instead of crying about how unfair the world is, why don't you instead try to better yourself and try to become more attractive? Play some instruments, get some hobbies, etc.

>>35568085
I'm starting to lose weight, but I'm still ugly and too nervous to use dating sites, how can I causally find a girl without going outside?

>>35568178
Dating sites are the least nerve-wracking way to meet girls, because you're both on there for the same reason and it's easier to send messages at a leisurely pace. For me, Tinder has worked pretty well, so I would recommend that, but I feel it's more of a young person thing, and I have no idea how old you are.

When you say ugly, do you mean like horrific or just pretty average? Could you include a photo so I could judge and figure out what the appropriate course of action would be?

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>>35568279
I'm just average ugly 20, i might give it a try he's a pic plz no bully

>>35568487
Yeah you look distinctly average, your looks aren't what's preventing you from getting a girl. Online dating takes a little while to get used to, and prepare to get rejected a lot, but that's just natural. Good luck anon(:

>>35568548
Ok will do thanks anon

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>>35566610
my pdoc wants to give me Electroconvulsive therapy. i already tried 4 antidepressants to no effect and seems like my last chance to fight depression and suicidal thoughts but im really scared. ive heard horror stories about ECT. what should i do, normie

>inb4 just be yourself

>>35569796
I'd go for it. Like, I haven't heard much about ECT cause I get by on SSRIs, but at the end of the day I feel like anything that helps you deal with depression and suicidal thoughts is worth it. There might be some risks to it, but I wouldn't want to live through life unable to enjoy it. Good luck anon, hope it does well, and my advice would be to listen to your doctor, since they know what they're doing and they genuinely want to help.

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>>35569991
ive just heard there is a big chance of losing memory and permanent damage to your brain structure. and my pdoc seems to be interested mostly for research reasons. he went to harvard to take a course on a new type of ECT that is less invasive and supposedly has less side effects and he's now implementing it on the hospital he's working on. its supposed to also help with schizophrenia which i also have but i dont know. im really scared he doesnt have my best interest in mind

Will I ever get laid? I'm a 23 year old khv and I'm starting to lose hope, do you think tinder will work for me?

>>35570150
I can understand your fear, and since I don't know your doctor I can't possibly comment on it. I'd still give it a go, I think at worst your pdoc is misguided, but I like to think that he wouldn't just use you as a guinea pig. I know drawbacks and everything, but I still think it's worth it.

>>35570223
Possibly. How comes you're a khv? What's been happening with you there?

>normie
>"Resident on 4chan"

Choose one

>>35570420
You do realize what 4chan has become, right?

>>35570452
Indeed. My housemate is a chill normal dude, he's had exes and has plenty of friends with whom he chills with regularly. However, he still browses /r9k/ from time to time. Going on 4chan doesn't disqualify you from being a normie.

>>35570409
I'm not tall enough , handsome enough , and I have low self esteem, girls look at me and run away because I'm Mexican, do u think TINDER will work for me?

>>35570647
It could, but I think the problem is your lack of self-esteem. Girls generally don't like people who need constant reassuring, and, truth be told, most guys don't really like it either. Basically work on believing in yourself, and keep in mind that you will get rejected A LOT on tinder. I'm like a 7/10 and I maybe got one match a day back when I was on tinder. However, in the long run it should work out.

>>35570829
Can I see ur profile so I can get tips on how to get a match on TINDER?

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>>35570924
Sure, here's the profile.

>>35571180
I don't look anything like that tho, isn't their more to TINDER then looks? Can't I just bee myself?

>>35571180
You've got robot eyes.

>>35566610
Any fetishes? I'm interested on what torques people knobs

>>35571222
I'm afraid that Tinder is one of the more shallow dating sites out there. You're supposed to swipe left or right based on looks alone, it's naturally going to invite shallow people. If you're trying to avoid going on looks, you might want to try to stay away from Tinder, and maybe real life or some other dating sites will be a bit better, as long as you deal with your confidence first.

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Hey robots. You can call me purple popper poppy.

I'm having a difficult time accepting love for what it is. And it doesn't really exist as we imagine it. I want to avoid it at all cost. I just want to be numb. Yet I am feeling sorry for myself, just like any other human would.

Picture is my shoes I dunno why felt like it fuck

>>35571268
Eh, fuck it, I look like what I look like, and there's nothing I can do about it, so might as well deal with it(:

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>>35571222
Fuck off u normie in disguise , Start posting full videos


>>35571327
Why are you even entertaining sushibro, do you even realize he's been shitposting for months now, he's no KHV dude has fucked like 100 girls and posts them here to make fun of us

>>35571269
Well, I've masturbated so much that I've wanked to pretty much everything, but my big returning turn-on would probably be bondage - I like the whole power aspect of sex. In addition, just being a bit rough is quite a turn-on as well, since it feels a bit more primal and passionate. Yourself?

>>35571340
Nice shoes. I dunno man, I think that experiencing love it quite important and I'm a fan of the range of emotions that you go through when you fall for someone, especially when the feeling is mutual. However, I am taking antidepressants to numb my thoughts and emotions, so I guess I'm a bit of a hypocrite.

>>35571422
Tbh I don't lurk enough to recognise any usernames, other than Eggman. And even though it was probable that he wasn't being serious (who emphases TINDER like that?) I just post serious responses to people. It's easier to just play along and not get into a whole "you're trolling" "no I'm not, you're just refusing to help me" debate, plus maybe they are actually being serious.

>>35571521
Does overdosing on anti depressants really kill the emotions? Also I'm a fan of it but I've just been hurt too many times. It's pretty stupid to kill yourself over a girl. But yeah. Experiencing love is great because that's how it was design or more specific we were design to enjoy. The act in general is just reproduction. Sure you communicate with another person, you both adjust to each other life styles and you tolerate each other while drowning in dopamine, actually that sounds pretty good. I think what I'm most upset about is that the person doesn't like you for you but your appearance? And it sucks because I've been the same way too.

>>35571180
You're above average, no wonder you get girls...

>>35571688
Not really, if you've ever taken MDMA it feels like the afterglow the day after you've taken it. Basically you feel a lot more numb and things that would have bothered you previously feel fine on SSRIs. And yeah, I get what you mean, it feels kinda shallow and like people don't appreciate you for you. In a way you feel kinda lonelier because of it, in the same way that cities with the largest populations feel the most lonely and impersonal.

>>35566853
>more of a "occasionally thinks about this stuff but forgets it and plays vidya/smokes weed/insert escape here" kinda guy?

Is your advice with this "just learn to be happy with your hobbies" or something?
I think that may be the answer but it isn't all that helpful, and I've just been trying for decades now.

>>35571770
Tinder is a lot about looks to be honest, but in real life it's much more a combination of things. You can't say that every guy who looks worse than average doesn't have a gf.

>>35571826
Yes. Exactly.

Fuck original fuck off fuck

>>35571844
It's more of an attempt to get you to have a look at yourself and for you to figure out what you really want in life. Basically if it's something you think is nice but don't actually want to achieve it (like me wishing I was a millionaire), then you need to rethink your approach to life. Otherwise I'd go to meetup.com or something and go to something you think you might enjoy, and go chill with people there. That's one way of making friends, although it might be easier to talk to people at your work/school/wherever.

>>35571446
I'm all about Ballbusting. It's never gotten old to me. That's being hit in the nuts for pleasure

>>35566610
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sick of work, sick of being alive. so fucking tired. 16 hour work days now, I cant take it anymore. slowly losing all motivation to even eate, i just drink all the time tnow. i would quit my job, but my mom would kick me out onto the street. but the longer this goes no, that doesnt seem so bad.

>>35566666
Congrats on those digits m8

I'm in a similar boat with fapping, I hate myself for doing it but it's too much fun to stop. Maybe it's just because I jack it to degenerate things.

On a completely separate note I just recently got into Gilmore Girls, although I feel strange for enjoying it so much considering I'm a relatively /fit/ 6'2" guy. It's too cute though, any other bots seen it? Don't spoil it for me though.

>>35571269
I have a wide but very specific range. I don't get turned on by just attractive women like it has to be something more. Usually it's the thought of them fucking me with a strap on, or some type of bondage. Hard to narrow it down but I'm basically a degenerate. I've accepted it though and it strays no further then my mind.

>>35569796
At my uni they told us ECT is pretty good, some memory loss seems to occur often, but brain damage is not reported. Trying it once most probably won't harm you

>>35572224
It kinda eventually draws you in and makes you numb to it. I think that the meaning of life is to do what you enjoy, so I'd recommend you try to find that and spend whatever free time you have doing that. It might be music, movies or just chilling with friends.

>>35572359
>>35572469
wew lad. would you ever actually try it?

>>35572380
I tend to think that you should do things you enjoy, and if you enjoy masturbation then so be it - I don't think I've read any studies that say that it's harmful for you or anything. Nah, I haven't seen Gilmore Girls, but I have my fair share of guilty pleasure shows so I'm in no position to judge(:

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might have diagnoseable depression

>>35572469
Eh, the dick wants what the dick wants. I've had so many weird fetishes like guro and rape porn, and I don't think that it makes you degenerate or anything, it's just something you fap to. It's honestly natural and there's nothing to be ashamed of, you're fine. In fact, I even tried to do some rape roleplay with an ex (having sex while she struggled and squirmed) and it just didn't feel right to me, so fapping to things and actually being degenerate are two very different things.

>>35572733
Yeah, it's a pretty common thing to have. The vast majority of my close friends have depression, so yeah.

>>35572669
Nah, still a khv. It's definitely something I'd wait until I was deep in the relationship before saying. Not gonna ask to fuck my ass the first date.

>>35572766
That's what I've come to accept, like my dick wants some pretty wierd stuff but it's hard to tell if it's just wierd fantasies or I'd actually love to get put in a latex dog suit and fucked. I'm hoping I'll get to try all the safe stuff one day but who knows right.

>>35572670
That's usually my train of thought before I start to do it. But I'm not trying to be a degenerate hedonist as well. But I try to limit it to once a day and sometimes the urge doesn't come so I'll go a day or two without and then it's really satisfying.

What kind of shows? No judge here friend as you did the same courtesy to me.

>>35572669
>>35573643
Samefagging because I realize I read your question wrong.

I think I'll give all my fetishes a try eventually, the hard part is finding some other poor soul to do it to me. It's more of bucket list I guess but I think I'm pretty interested of getting strapon fucked so that might be the first one I knock off.

>>35573643
Eh, one day I'm sure you'll have a go at things. I lost my virginity quite late, and it took me a while to get comfortable around girls.

>>35573685
All good, I mostly watch shows with girls when I'm at theirs, so an example of a shitty show would be this British show called Naked Attraction, where the contestant basically sees 6 naked people and gets to choose which one they want to go on a date with. There's a bit more to it but it's essentially that. In addition, I got into a habit of watching not-great films that I have an itch to watch, like I recently saw the new Robocop and Constantine.

>>35573778
That's what I'm hoping for. I'd hope before I get really old and disgusting preferably in my 20s haha but that may be too much considering I'm pretty autistic when it comes to women.

>>35573847
Constantine, is that about a super hero esque kinda guy? Or am I thinking of something different.

Yeah there is something about guilty pleasures that is really satisfying, I almost feel like I enjoy those more then the stuff I don't care to "hide" I guess or to not flaunt that I've seen them. I don't think I get embarrassed talking about shows I've seen, hard to say though never been in the situation.

>>35574093
That comes with practice, I think. In my experience, just keep trying until one day you stop failing as much.