how do i get over my oneitis? she talks to me just enough that

either try to get closer to her or cut contact. have you tried getting closer already?

>>35506567

This.

Orbiters are responsible for their own pain.

Cut contact with her permanently. If a girl hasn't had expressed sexual interest in you within the first 24 hours of meeting, you're friendzoned and will never escape. She knows you like her and is stringing you along to feed her ego. She doesn't have any particular feelings for you as a friend either because she can replace an orbiter like you in a heart beat.

>>35506629
This isn't necessarily true. You have nothing to lose by trying to make a move. But if she rejects you then you cut contact.