>meet a girl on tinder >she actually messages me first

Instagram suggests people you have memorized in your phone. Maybe she follows everyone who makes a new account.

>>35495795
>>hang out with her a few times but she's very reluctant to kiss
>>develop feels for her and tell her about it
>>"oh anon, but I'm not interested in relationships really, I've been hurt the last time I don't want this to happen again, sorry but I can't see this go that way, and I'm sorry if you thought it would"

Can someone please explain to me why does this happen all the time?
Why would someone hang out with opposite sex unless they want to have sex or a relationship.

Anyway, you're a fucking normie and should leave my board re

you should dm her SUCK ME SUCK ME SUCK ME SUCK ME SUCK ME and see what the response is

>>35495869
I don't know, I completely got rid of her.

On the other hand, why would she follow anyway? Why not just skip my profile or hide it and just live with it? Not like I had anything posted there.

>>35495795
>>she actually messages me first
>without actually looking me up?
>Can I actually delete her
you should actually kys

>>35495895
he means you're still in HER phone

>girl messages me first on tinder
>pretty cute but bit of a landwhale

What do?

>>35495895

anon you unintentionally applied the tactics of a natural chad

you have a lot of talent.

You never bothered her again. You deleted her everywhere and moved on. This is highly attractive to women cause they think you simply have better things to do or alternatives.

There is also an effect that lets women forget the bad things about you and they remember the positive things from the past (its all humans).

So what happened is that in those 3 months she realized she still likes or likes youi more now and is still interested in you.

You'd blow it by being a needy bitch nigga so i'd either message her briefly and ask her whats up and get straight to the point. Be really direct and ALPHA as fuck this time. YOu have nothing to lose and can only gain from taking advantage of the situation you unintentionally created for yourself.

This is your chance of becoming the alpha chad you always wanted to be.

>>35498003
How 'bit' are we talking about?

>>35498039

look up "no contact strategy" ... its what peopne do intentionally to win back the love of their lost ones .. it rarely works ofc but its a tactic that works from time to time in some circumstances .. it did very well for you so use it to your advantage.

Normally its ultra hard to go through with no contact cause people are in love, needy and generally beta. You somehow managed to just delete her and moved on which is admireable and not a trait many men have.

Backup plan, m8.

>>35498059

Like wouldn't wanna be seen in public with her. It's a funny angle the photo she sent me which finally showed her body so can't pinpoint exactly how big but definitely well above average.

She seems really eager to give me a blowjob but dunno if I could fuck it honestly.

>>35495795
you showed interest in her and she's using you to feed her ego. "if i follow him, maybe he'll orbit me again".

the exact same thing happened to me last month (minus the Instagram thing. i told her to fuck off, and she hasn't bothered me since)

>>35498078
This, she already had a Chad in mind but she wanted to have you on lock in case he found something better, then she didn't need you

This is true of most people but Always true of women, they will never engage with you unless you have something they want and when you stop having it they kick you to the curb

>>35495882
To make friends? Not everyone is as big as an autist as you.

from what I've heard about instagram from people at college, it just seems like a big circle jerk of who has the most followers, she probably wanted you to follow her back