How do i get over a rejection from my oneitis, /r9k/? >Hello

>>35467215
Fuck me...
Just hope she won't spread this to other friends, that's the true hell.

I've never understood this. How does one get friendzoned?

>tfw never been in friendzone
>tfw kind of want to at least once just to see if I can get out

>>35467215
Well for me it's at the bottom of a bottle, but I can't recommend that.

>>35467215
idk anon
i'm still struggling with it after like a year
i wish i could give you some worthwhile advice

>>35467261
That's one thing i'm fearing.
>>35467353
I never was a big drinker.
>>35467355
You and me both.

>>35467215
I think it would help to talk about it to her and just sorta, explain where you are coming from, not with the hopes of winning her over, just for some closure. I am regretting not explaining my feelings enough when it happened to me.

>>35467332
>be their friend
>reveal your romantic interest to them
>be turned down

what's the mystery?

>>35467215
You have to move on. It's happened to me before. The pain goes away once you start going after another girl. With any luck one of these times the feeling will be mutual.

>>35467332
Girls decide whether or not a guy is doomed to the friendzone from the first time they meet them. If you are friendzone material they will never think of you as more than a friend, end of story.

Stop caring about 3d and enter the 2d realm you faggot

>>35467418
I mean I usually make it pretty clear what I'm interested in right away. A girl knows if she'd fuck you or not like 30 secs after meeting you.

>>35467404
>talk to her and explain feelings
Definitely don't do this. If you send anything back at al, make it a short and sweet "no worries, thanks for letting me know"
Then never message her again.
Any other course of action is throwing any self respect under a bus.

>>35467215
What does she mean about expectations for the movie? Did you choose a shitty movie?

>>35467215
I was about to say the same thing.
I was worried you wanted this dick.
And, i just aint about that life.

>>35467489
That she didn't want to fuk him

>>35467215

didnt you post a thread earlier today gloating that she had said yes

>>35467570
That must not have been me

my oneitis was a lesbian(she even had a gf)who didnt tell me until the end of what i though was a first date. It was also the first time i had ever asked a girl out because im extremely autistic with girls but i really liked this one. I was one week without eating after that. Now I have a gf but i dont really feel anything for her.

>having a oneitis
plebes, all of you