At what point did you give up on trying to get a gf? I'm

>>35442420
Most women actually don't care for men just because they can support them financially (Though that does come in to play later when u commit). What they want in the beginning is to have a loving equal relationship. To be cuddly and emotionally their for each other. This is why single mothers happen because guys will be sweet at first and cuddly, but not for long term commitment and only for sex or pride.

>>35442884
This is just my experience
I am with a man that most see as overweight and lazy, and I hate that they can't see how he is a cuddle :3 been with him sense high school 15 yrs ago and love him more and more each day. We are always with each other to the point were when he is at work or gone I am to depressed to want to do things like game on my time off I will just wait til he gets home bc nothing is enjoyable without him, and he does the same with me. We animu and do anything together and can talk about anything. I can accept him no matter what, and I think that's what all women really seek if that explains it more for you. Just because he is to lazy to pick up his cans or brush his teeth everyday doesn't mean he isn't loving and caring. I am pretty sure I got my side of bullshit he has to deal with, you just got to learn to be fair and understanding