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>Starting college at 27 >Have severe social anxiety Any

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>Starting college at 27
>Have severe social anxiety
Any tips so my experience isn't awful?
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>>35404540

>severe social anxiety

Enjoy spending all your time not in classes alone. And have fun with sitting alone in classes unless you have group work where you'll be the quiet one who doesn't speak.
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>>35404540

Just BEE urself

And bu this I mean don't give a shit about anyone thinks of you, don't bother socialising if you feel uncomfortable (age difference probably too great desu)
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go one man army mode if you are not dumb but if you are dumb
make friends with smart people.
invite them some food or whatever, normies loves that.

also watch this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBwH2iYC-8c
read this
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/communication-success/201410/how-increase-your-emotional-intelligence-6-essentials
also walk in the sun
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/reading-between-the-headlines/201307/vitamin-d-deficiency-and-depression
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>>35404540

Use your lack of speech to imply you're wise. Speak slowly and with proper enunciation. If you study hard and do this reliably, people will perceive you as someone who does not waste their words, talking idly or speaking to make noise.

Most CEOs do this. They also speak quietly after theyve established dominance.

Youll come off as a hardass. Look up a couple of jokes that come off great with a slow intro - Hitchcock has a few limericks that do this eloquently.

Most importantly - Have a goal. Why are you in college? If youre getting a degree to get a degree youve fucked up.

Get a degree to be able to do what you NEED to do. Without that constant impetus you will fail.
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>>35404540
Therapy, meds, and exposure
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>>35404540
>tips so my experience isn't that awful
You and I both know there aren't any tips we can offer you anon. College is always a difficult time for those with SA disorder. The only "tip" i could offer you is try to get rid of you SA disorder by forcing yourself into social situations until you grow to like them, which we all know is one big fucking meme. You're screwed anon. Just try to power through it and hopefully you make it out alive. Good Luck my fucking boi.
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