Please help. >be me >work with higher ranking coworker

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2017-03-09 04:56:57 Post No. 35401811
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Anonymous 2017-03-09 04:56:57 Post No. 35401811 [Report]

Please help.

>be me
>work with higher ranking coworker
>middle aged, quirky, fit spiritual lady
>drive to neighboring city together for work
>end up talking about a bunch of stuff, it gets deep
>talk about your experiences growing up
>she ends up crying
>that extremely chaotic feel when someone cries for you
>many months pass, and your time at that job is over
>end up telling her that the time you've spent with her must be what its like to have a mom you have a good relationship with/actually enjoy being around
>she invites you to dinner sometime with her husband and daughter
>caughtoffguard.jpg
>accept offer, but the idea is nerve wracking
>'sometime' has come, invited over for next sunday

What do I do? I have extremely complex fucked up feelings towards this lady. How do I not drop all of the spaghetti?

Anonymous 2017-03-09 04:58:41 Post No.35401841
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>>35401811
Think of her as an aunt .

Anonymous 2017-03-09 04:59:42 Post No.35401854
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Anonymous 2017-03-09 04:59:42 Post No.35401854 [Report]

>>35401811
Go with it OP. But for Gods sake don't expect anything romantic, this could be disastrous.

Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:01:41 Post No.35401888
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>>35401811
OP can't you see she's trying to set you up with her daughter? GO FOR IT
>see you on the other side space cowboy

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>>35401811
>get her drunk / roofie
> molest

Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:02:05 Post No.35401896
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>>35401811
Try to fuck her hot daughter

Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:04:44 Post No.35401939
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Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:04:44 Post No.35401939 [Report]

>>35401888
>>35401896

Daughter is like 6 or something.

>inb4 "so what?"

>>35401854
I don't. But the mommy gf feels are fucking real rn.

Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:11:38 Post No.35402070
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Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:11:38 Post No.35402070 [Report]

>>35401939
If she's a "spiritual" lady she probably can't even conceive of you being a love interest Opie.

I say take your loss, use her for free therapy sessions but keep it at that.

Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:20:19 Post No.35402215
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Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:20:19 Post No.35402215 [Report]

>>35402070

Spiritual more in a new age kind of way, like psychic soul energies and stuff.

Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:33:33 Post No.35402434
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Anonymous 2017-03-09 05:33:33 Post No.35402434 [Report]

>>35401811
honestly, if the woman doesn't judge and is empathic you could tell her, if it's sexual tension just accept that it's there and laugh it off, it's totally normal to feel that. ( you don't have to act on it and just laying it out in the open can really help you process the feelings you have.). or she'll be freaked out but at least you were honest about it.

unless you're thinking maliciously, then a psychologist can help you out understanding the feelings and work it out.

thats what i'd do.

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