Since it's obvious some of us are going to be alone forever, how do we stop caring so much about it?
How do you make the feelings of envy whenever you see a couple go away?
How do you stop having fantasies about that one girl?
I understand no one will ever want me, but I don't understand why I have to have this pain along with it.
>>35367335
Alcohol, vidya, tv, shitposting, wageslavery's draining effects on my destabilizing psyche
That's about it
Find a hobby and invest a lot of time into becoming really good at it.
Or you can just participate in nothing but video games, porn, and image boards for shallow, immediate pleasure.
>>35367335
Seriously just improve yourself as a human daily and you'll be content.
>>35367994
>>35368127
I see this advice frequently and it is weak advice, because if you're like me and you spend so much of your time reminded of and thinking about your loneliness, you are too demoralized to enjoy or focus on or expend effort on anything very often or for very long at all.
I try to drown myself in my hobbies, but it doesn't work at all because nothing can keep the thoughts of loneliness from constantly pouring in, and so I spend all of my time miserable anyway.
>>35368459
I'm not telling you to get hobbies. I'm telling you to get on a regular sleeping and eating schedule, exercise and eat healthy, and try to severely limit the amount of time you spend using technology for entertainment. If you can't focus on a task it's more likely lack of sleep and healthy food than it is loneliness, but not getting good food or sleep can make you feel like shit so I can see why you'd feel that way. Get some form of purpose, whether it's volunteering or a job, and put a lot of effort into it even if it won't amount to anything. It'll amount to your satisfaction