Is it weird to have a crush on a qt3.14 but find it impossible

>>35341121
bump out of interest because i'm experiencing the same thing

>>35341121
That's how i was for me.
I put them on a pedastal in my mind and valued them too much to do something as crass as fap to them.

If I ever fall in love again, I'm going to find pornstars that look just like them and give myself blisters every day.

>>35341383
Also just as a follow up question I'm still in high school and would like some advice, should I just go up to this girl and say, "Hey I'm into you. What are we gonna do about that/do you want to go out?" Or should I try to just become friends with them then ask them? Plz I'm running out of time I'm a senior.

>>35341432
It might not work, but immediately expressing your romantic interest is better than playing friends and then hoping it leads to more.

>>35341121

It's the highest form of crush. From my oldfag experience I can tell you I've had a couple of crush I couldn't fap over because I thought they were (for lack of a better term) too special.

>>35341333
What's your situation my brother in this ordeal?

>>35341458
>>35341432
This.
Never "play" friends.
Always be fairly open that you are interested in them, it shows confidence and girls love that.
Do not try to be her friend. It will happen naturally if things go well.

Just dont worry about fucking up, youre a senior and these girls will never see you again. You have nothing to lose.

it means you value them as people. you see them as more than something to cum over

I have a crush on my boss at work, but can't jerk it to her photos. Probably for the best though.

>>35342070
Just a guess but are you a sub?

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>>35341121
I felt the same way about a female friend.
One time I went a week nofap and she came into work with some nice cleavage and when I got home I couldnt help myself to the thought.

>literally my reaction when I was done

>>35342160
Is this a gay thing? My boss is a woman.

Some women are too perfect and pure to jack off to.

>>35342291
No its because she is you boss I'm guessing you saw her as a superior because you respect her, and subconsciously don't want to degrade her.

>>35342403
this isn't actually true

>>35342018
Not him but how do I approach it if she has a bf? I don't want to 'play friends' but I'm not sure how to put myself on her radar otherwise in case they break up.

>>35341432

Never tell a girl that you have feelings for them, I learned that the hard way. Just ask to go out.

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I have a crush on this qt 3.14 but don't jerk off to her because that's icky.

I've been experiencing the same for years. Its really a respect/put-on-a-pedestal thing: I can't bring myself to objectify the girls I really care about to such a degree. This kind of progressed over time to where my logical hypocrisies led me to totally eliminate jerking it or overly sexualizing any girl that I know. Its kind of an "off-limits" zone to spare me from guilt.

Still kind of fallacious because of porn, but I haven't watched porn or jerked off in (about to turn) 9 days, despite not being on nofap.

I prefer it this way to be honest. I've come to appreciate the girls more for who they than just what they look like for it, even though I'm still a KV with low self esteem that hasn't had a girlfriend.

>>35343527
Move on to the next girl. It's a waste of time to orbit around them until they break up.

>>35342563
Sounds hot tbqh
I'd let her step on my balls probably

It's because you're idolizing her at the moment. You think sex is disgunting that's why you can't master bate her.

>>35343857
I felt like that was probably going to be the answer. I already tried twice but the first one turned out to be a roastie who would flirt with almost every guy she met. The second one also turned out to have a bf. I don't really have anyone else I could try to move in on and I don't really have any interest in any girls other than my crush now.

>>35341121
all my crushes have been like this

i can't fap to people that exist in my life

thinking such thoughts makes me wince with shame. it's a silly thing to feel but i can't help it

>>35344438
Meet a lot more women and desensitize yourself from onitis or whatever you call it.

>>35343527
I was thinking about a pick-up line related to this recently.
Bear in mind I've never once in my life successfully picked up a woman.
>Do you have a boyfriend?
>Does he make you happy?

hmm... it seemed better somehow in my head.