Bitch broke my heart. Help me forget about her /r9k/. I'm

>>35288639
kill youself you normie piece of shit faggot nigger

>>35288675
Just trying to convince myself that everything is for the best

>>35288639
I'm in the same boat senpai, tell me what happened

It'll take approx. 9 month to get over it. Have fun, anon.

>>35289183
2 if he finds a "better" one during that time

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>>35288639
I don't know who you are or how serious it was but I am going through similar shit right now.
Maybe you actually loved her, thought she was special, that you two were perfect, thought about a future together and never saw it coming.
She is going to get over you, maybe she already is. She is going to hook up with some random guy she thinks is hot and get fucked in the v-hole, she will love it and be pleasured by that random dude, everything she did with you she will do with him and maybe more. Eventually she might commit to someone, which she did not want to do with you.
Now you can slide into a depression over this, try to escape reality, but you will fail. She will be fucked by other people, not thinking about you at all when you go to bed and that will still be the reality when you wake up. You can either keep lingering on the past or rather the future that will never be, and on your gravestone it will say "here lies anon, he could not handle the rejection of a random bitch in a world filled with pussy". Or you can get the fuck on with your life, move out, learn a skill or simply start training, slowly letting the pain of her memory fade into nothingness and irrelevance while retaking your own happiness in life, afterwhich you WILL find new women, have better sex and more loving relationship(s) than you ever had with her. It is up to you to choose what to do with whatever energy you feel right now.

Also only ever stay friends with your ex if you still fuck her, otherwise there is literally no point but sadomasochism, better still to move on completely.

>>35289221
not OP but that was a nice text, thank you.

>me
>still going to be useless and depressed for the rest of the year

>>35288639
few months from now you won't care anymore

>>35289145
>be me, virgin, 22
>be on a 5 days trip with random people i never met
>shit goes fine, I don't interact with people too much, don't expect too much. Enjoying my trip
>last day this cute short girl started to have a conversation with me
>shit goes well but being the beta I am I don't even notice it
>at one point we leave the group and go for a walk by the beach, only the two of us.
>at one point she started hugging me
>then she started kissing my cheek
>I don't realize what's going on but it goes like that for 5 mins
>we warp things up and go back to the group
>it was the last day so its time to say goodbye
>I was about to leave
>the she calls my name
>she comes closer to me
>she kisses me on the lips
>my first kiss
>this was my first kiss
>I was surprised and kissed her again
>we finished hugging and went each to his own way
>we started messaging, wanted to meet
>at one point she just stopped replying
>I ask what happened, she said she's not always in the mood to talk
>hear broken
I can still feel her lips
I really want to forget but just can't
every time I see a kiss I remember he

>>35289410
>at one point she just stopped replying
>I ask what happened, she said she's not always in the mood to talk
how long ago did she stop replying?

>>35289221
Thanks anon, that helped a lot, I've been looking for something like this.

>>35289469
Three days the first time
two days the second time
Now its been 8 days since our last conversation

>>35289512
chad is plowing her right now while she looks deep into his yes

>>35289596
Pretty much this
I'm trying my best to forget her but it just hurts

>>35288639

you must not completely invest your own happiness in someone else because it will leave you empty inside, with or without her

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>>35289286
Thanks anon I understand your feels, it has been a month since I got dumped by my first gf for whom I was the first too because "she needs freedom", it fucking sucks and I got real fucking sad at night a couple of times.
The sadness for some reason is also some form of energy which is now pushing me to finally really get my shit together.
If you really try to focus on you right now and move on, you will forget and get better, I promise you that.
>>35289476
You can do it anon, I am sure of it. There is literally no reason why you can't get with another girl, none. Especially when you start working on being happy with yourself. In love there are so many retarded paradoxes it can be really confusing. The most important one for us is that you are most likely to find love when you are least dependend on it.
>>35289410
I am sorry anon, but what happened probably did not mean even a tiny bit to her as how much it means to you. That really sucks but you must face it.
The fact you attracted a girl without even really trying, even if she was not in it the same as you should be a confidence boost for you, as you have a potential you might not even have thought you had.
>>35289653
Very true, this is a mistake people who tend to flock to places like this often make.

>>35289643
every single thing in this world is fading away from you sooner or later until you fade yourself.

In my personal live I only found one thing that is eternal and that is Jesus Christ.

>>>35289410 (You)
>I am sorry anon, but what happened probably did not mean even a tiny bit to her as how much it means to you. That really sucks but you must face it.
Thanks a lot, and I know that. I just keep telling myself lies that she was hyperactive and forgetful (she really was) and maybe there's still chance. But its all lies that my brain is telling me because she was my first kiss

>>35289410

don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened

wow somebody actually said this before on r9k, i'm impressed