Idk if anyone remembers me but I made a thread a few days ago

>>35273605
I remember you
What did you try messaging him with?
Please don't think about killing yourself, you seem like a nice person.

>>35273659
I just said "Plz talk to me idc if we're not in a relationship anymore I just need to talk to my best friend"
IDK MAN NICE PPL GOT FRIENDS

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>>35273605
>being this gay
http://www.pornhub.com/users/stuglyfeofficial
subscribe pls

>>35273697
>being this gay
>being gay
Do lesbian relationships hurt less

>>35273694
That's not what you were supposed to say at all.
And I meant like text, facebook, what?
Don't stress out about it, there could be a network error or something.
You could try talking to him in person if you think he blocked you.
There's a lot of nice people with no friends, but I'll be your friend if you want.

>>35273774
I know okay I was just acting on impulse. I was looking through old pictures and text messages, I can't bring myself to delete them.
I sent the message through text. The thing is, I can't see him in person if I can't text him or call him. I have no way of contacting him.

>>35273825
Do you not know where he lives?

God this is the worst thing that's ever happened. I wanna congratulate anyone who's gone through a break up and hasn't killed themselves, you're a winner. Does anyone wanna see vent art I made while this was all happening

>>35273858
Yes, but I'm not gonna show up at his house randomly like a psychopath

>>35273904
You said he's your best friend, you're not a psychopath for visiting your best friend to talk.
If he hasn't responded by tomorrow around noon, go to his house and talk.

>>35273949
I feel like that's crossing the line a little bit. I feel like he would totally freak out on me and tell me to get out

>>35273825
I know it's hard, but your relationship seems like its over. It's gonna take a while but the sooner you cut off all contact and any memories to that person, the faster you can move on with your life. It's been 3 weeks and one day since I've had contact with my ex and I still miss her and think about her all the time, and I have done everything to cut contact and remove anything on my phone or room that could remind me of her. I've even removed/muted mutual friends on social media that I know she would pop up regularly on. If you don't get all traces of them out of your life, it just makes this process harder.
It's hard thinking that they're doing just fine without you and they've made new friends, but if you still miss him you're not going to be able to move on and be in a position where people want to be around you.
Try downloading Tinder or something to distract you, you don't have to meet up with anybody but just talking to people who find you attractive can help distract you and remind you that you are not nothing without him. And who knows, maybe you'll find someone you click with.
Good luck, and remember that in the end, no matter what people say or do, no one owes you anything and you are in control (at least somewhat) of your own life and the decisions you make.

>>35274010
If you're best friends, and you were a couple not that long ago, there's no logical reason he'd freak out about you visiting him.
You need to talk about this, or it will end up hurting both of you.

>>35274015
Thank you for all that I really appreciate it. I just don't think anyone would or could compare to him, I have never met anyone like that guy in my entire life. I've never felt more safe or accepted by one person and their entire family ever. The thought of tinder makes me sick. If I can't trust him, the most trustworthy person, then I can't trust anyone.

>>35274088
I want to speak to him about it so bad, I would kill to see him again. Showing up at his house would just be too fucking insane and I feel like I would lose it. If he blocked my number he obviously doesn't wanna talk about it. He's been doing just fine too, I made separate social media accounts to look at his and he's acting like nothing ever happened. He didn't cry or anything when he broke up with me. Just told me "it's over, accept it." I was so excited to text him too, I had this huge fucking 8 paragraph long text that I prepared for when he responded

>>35274189
You NEED to see him. You NEED to talk about this. At the very least it would give you closure and you'd know for sure if he doesn't want to talk with you anymore.

>>35274234
No they don't, they were me 2 years ago
They need to let it go

Anon be strong

>>35274234
I'm not breaking into his house, I don't wanna be THAT bitch. I know I need to talk to him but he blocked all contact with me

>>35274285
>breaking into his house
I said visit him, not break into his house. Knock on his door.

>>35274234
Shut up you fucking beta dumbass, she NEEDS to leave him alone and quit being a needy, entitled cunt

>>35274308
i don't wanna seem clingier than I already am. He will most likely get pissed if I show up at his door uninvited

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>>35274354
Is this my ex bfs friend?

He's obviously a shitty friend. Move on.
>he's the only one reeeeeeee
That won't be true forever, and the sooner you dismiss his presence in your mind, the better it will feel. Not easy, but not as hard as you think.
>tfw no clingy gf

>>35274410
I really hope you're right anon

>>35274364
Alright fine.
Never talk to him again, be lonely forever, and never stop thinking about him.
Have fun.

>>35274459
I will find ways to talk to him online before I talk to him in person. I need to make sure he actually wants to see me in person first. I just don't want to come on too strong
I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings or something anon I really didn't mean to

>>35274107
I really felt that way about my ex too. I thought that she really did care about me and could trust her, but she thought that misleading me and not communicating was better, and it ended up ruining our relationship. I really thought she was my soulmate, and the sad part is that we were best friends before, and she still likes me and we could've still been good friends after we broke up, but even though I miss her, I've honestly lost all respect for her to the point that talking or seeing her is not fun, and you deserve someone that doesn't just break up without a reason and blocks you.

I learned a lot though, and you're right, you really can't trust anyone, and its sad that you might never be able to have that full faith and trust in anyone for possibly the rest of your life, but I promise you'll feel better as time passes and you begin to forget about him. I'm not good at making new friends, but putting in some effort to meet new people, even if its for a distraction, really helped me. And please don't kill yourself, you seem like a good person.

kys my dood

>>35274523
>one relationship ends badly
>you can never trust anyone
solid logic senpai

>>35274523
Shit dude I'm sorry you had to go through that. That doesn't seem fun at all
That makes me mad though, I can't believe I was dumb enough to put all my trust into a person and they just threw it out the window. Life fucking sucks dude, it really does.
Thank you, you too.

>>35274633
Have you ever been in a loving relationship

"Only time can heal what reason cannot" - Seneca the Younger.

>>35274633
I'm not saying you can't trust anyone at all, but how can you easily give your full trust to anyone when the person you trusted the most blatantly lied to you for no good reason? I'm not trying to say I don't trust anyone because of this one person, and I'm not a robot that hates everyone because of this one girl, but it makes you be a bit bitter and skeptical about any person you meet.

>>35274813
I mean, he didn't really lie to me. I think he loved me and I still think he loves me. Ive always had trust issues but I was learning to open up more when I had him around. Idk, I'm gonna be bitter about it for a while

>>35274459
I'd just like to point out that you are a massive faggot giving her awful advice and because she said no and she's doing the right thing you get all pissy? This was never about her it was about you feeling good for "helping" even though it's obvious that you are a beta virgin nice guy who has no idea how relationships or breakups work. Kys.

As for OP, it may seem impossible now but stay strong. There will be more great guys. Go through the sadness but better to cut all contact and do your best to move on. Time really does heal all wounds.

>>35274189
I know you want closure and a reason why he left you out of nowhere, but do you really want to know? There could be a thousand reasons why, maybe he got tired of you, maybe he feels you're too good for him, who knows why people do what they do. But if his reason is "It's over, accept it", that means he does not have a good reason or a reason you want to hear. You can try to weasel the real reason out if you really need a reason, but it may hurt more than it helps.

Also, before you try to fix things and get back together, ask yourself do I actually still want to be with him after he put me through this, and would we still feel for each other as we did before. I promise you that even if you fix things, there will still be a lingering feeling of doubt and resentment that may not go away, but if you think he is worth it and you can forgive and forget, then go for it.

>>35275137
You know I didn't think about it that way. I guess something inside me just has to know, I'm just obsessed with him. I haven't really known life without him and I was dependent on him. It might be best that I just let him go but I just wish it wasn't so bitter.
He probably doesn't deserve to get back with me and I'm not sure if things would ever be the same after this but I just love him so much. I wish I didn't, I wish I could cut off feelings like he did. I really enjoyed being in a relationship with him but not all things are meant to be even if we really want them to be.

>>35273605
Hunter?
Something original so the autistic spam blocker lets me post

>>35275321
Don't expect him to be willing to talk about it or get back with you, but try to talk with him.

>>35275355
Huh?
>original beep bop boop

>>35275388
I know I'm gonna try. Thanks for the advice man

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>>35275550
>OP posts vauge break up scenario
>blocked my ex after a while and told him he was my best friend when we broke up
>feel like I might know OP
Glad to know its not him.
But in the off chance he's reading this. I broke up with you becaus eyou were a dick and an asshole to my friends. yeah I loved my best friend more than you but shit your jealousy and hatred towards my friends was the final straw. Also you were that loud type of gay that always wants attention on himself. No thanks man.

>>35275611
Man fuck Hunter he sounds like a fucking asshole

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>>35275637
This is the exact type of shit Hunter would do.

>>35274647
Thanks for listening, this is the first time I've actually talked about this and it helped, good luck with whatever you decide to do.