I did it, lads...I did it.
I beat my social anxiety and got my long overdue haircut.
I was postponing it for weeks because I was so scared.
But 15 minutes of awkward silence, here we are. Now back to bed and vidya.
>>35258417
Cut your own hair
It's the small victories that count.
Good job, OP.
>>35258449
But I'm a dumbass.
>>35258450
True, true. Thank you!!
>>35258417
dude whats there to be anxious about fucking hair cut. You dont even need to chat with the dude. Just go there and you say make it short, and thats fucking it
some of you guys are far too gone. It is not like you go to job interview lmao
>>35259006
Where do u think u are nigger
>>35259006
Jeesus what's with all the normies lately.
>>35259006
Easy for you to say, normie.
Do you realize how the slightest interactions with human beings can be torture.
Reeee
>>35259026
I aint no normie, 25 yo KHHV with no friends, just dont understand haircut anxiety lol, whats so hard about saying make it short ? That's far too into robotdom even by r9k standarts.
OP, do you shutter or have some speech impediment ?
>>35259053
Why do normies think just being virgin makes them a robot. I'm not op but seriously fug off
>>35259053
Are you from france?
>>35259053
you really have no clue do you norman
>>35259082
if 25 year old dateless KHHV with no friend isnt robot then by your definition 99,9% of r9k aint robots. Only those who can't even gather courage to say something to cashier/barber...lmao
>>35258417
good job OP
did you talk with the person?
>>35259100
nope not really. That's why I like r9k tbqh, it really put things into perspective. I might be a virgin loner but at least ordering food at subway isn't a nightmare for me.
>>35258417
Thisis a fresh start.
>>35259053
WTF you retard, you probably answer calls from strangers too and answer the door for people you weren't expecting
>>35258495
It's actually very easy, especially if you do something simple.
When I have to talk to someone it really bothers me until I start to view it as "inevitable" in my head. Like I had to go get a blood test this morning, but it was "inevitable," like I can't get out of it, so I was able to talk the nurse and secretary and not have any problems. But I can't go get a fucking haircut because I can do it myself. I'm terrified of getting a haircut. Just the thought of sitting there having to say the hairstyle or make small talk, it's horrifying.
>>35258417
Congrats op, I cut my own hair again two days ago after a failed attempted to get one at a haircut place in Walmart. Being estranged I asked the difference between style and a normal haircut and the lady realized I must not get out much (also very pale person) and when she told me to wait, I needed to give a phone number. I don't have a phone, so I said the area code, stopped and told her "I can't give you one right now" and said I'll come back in half hour. I waited 30 minutes in my car and drove home and told my parents they were closed.
>>35259053
you cant rationalise social anxiety or any anxiety disorders, they are irrational because they are disorders
>>35259006
>hello, i'm here for a haircut
>greetings, sit down
>sit down
>so what would you like
>just simple short hair
>and what shape?
>s-short...hair...simple...
>okay :)
>proceeds to ask me how long or short would i like it to be at every region on my head
JUST CUT MY FUCKING HAIR ALREADY REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>35259006
I agree, getting a haircut is not hard geez
>>35258417
FUCK YEAH OP
Good job!
>>35259868
>normies start talking about hair grades
>>35258417
Hey that's great. Next step: talk to a girl unprompted.
>>35259868
I bring a business card with "#4 GUARD + TRIM TOP BLEND IN" written on it. Ask your barber if they can write something like that down for you.
>tfw you started cutting your own hair not because of social anxiety, but because you're so god damned cheap
i can't tell if this is a blessing or a curse. i quit smoking, too, because of the price.
>>35258417
Grow dreadlocks
>>35258417
Can't even get haircuts because autist ladies can't cut my greasy locks without fucking up. I'll just go with the greasy hobo vibe till I die at 50 do to constant diet of Chinese delivery.
>>35259006
>Getting a haircut is easy just be yourself
>let hair and beard grow
>it hiddes the uglyness, makes me be able to look myself in the mirror
>everyone bitches at you for having long hair and beard
>ok maybe it's time to cut this shit and look like a normal human being
>cut all that shit
>holy shit I'm ugly
>can't look self in mirror
>repeat
KILL
MEEEEEE