I don't really know how to instruct male on how to have

>>35250891
the key is getting it up. nature takes over from there.

so if you can get your dick up, you're already doing it better than me...

sex. not even once.

>>35250891
There's petabytes of free porn a click away. Watch some pov shit.

>>35250891
Virgin here, is it really that complicated? I thought you just put the penis in the vagina.

Its a lot harder than it looks. I lied to my first girl about not being a virgin, after about 2 mins she started laughing and said "you're a virgin aren't you?"

I was nervous as fuck, and terrible.

>>35251780
this

he should just do what feels natural. also he should feel comfortable in working with the female about it, I'm sure she can help and/or take charge.

>>35251861
porn gets to be pretty unrealistic, but if you do go the porn route then amateur porn tends to be less contrived than the usual stuff.

I'd say raw speed and power are most important. You really want to jam that sucker in there hard, you want her to have friction burns in her pussy. You want her pussy so chaffed that it will hurt her to walk. That is how alpha male fuk a grill.

>>35251884
you do stick the penis in the vagina, and then figure it out from there. it's not rocket science but there is knowledge to gain. there's also the matter of the sexual stuff that doesn't involve penetration.

>>35251906
you should never lie about being a virgin, because nine times out of ten it's obvious. should've just owned up to it, it would've surely made things less awkward. sex at its core is about accepting the other, you shouldn't get boggled down by performance and shame.

your inability to stick dick in vag is probably not what gave you away as a virgin btw.

>>35252020
>you should never lie about being a virgin
What if you are 40? I'm not 40 but someday I might be a 40 year old virgin.

>>35252020

Bullshit. Had I told her I was a virgin I would have never fucked, I faked confidence and had a good thing going but then when it was time to fuck I completely sperged out. Oh well, I still lost my virginity. But she wouldn't let me fuck after that. Young chicks want guys that are "good", and to get good you need experience sadly.

Get her nice and wet, thrust in a couple times to lube up your dick and then pull out real quick and shove it in her butt. She'll scream and claw at the bed in an attempt to get out, but women are weak and you should be able to hold her down. After a couple minutes of hardcore anal, there should be enough blood and shit that maintaining lubrication will be of no issue. When you are about to cum, pull out and shove your dick down her throat. This will not only prevent a mess from getting cum on the bed/couch/whatever, but it will also be a quick and efficient way to clean her blood and waste off of your cock.

>>35252020
>you should never lie about being a virgin, because nine times out of ten it's obvious

or he could just say he's done it once or twice but thats it. i didn't realize everyone becomes a sex god as soon as you lose your virginity

>>35252037
even then. I probably wouldn't lead with "i'm a virgin" but if there's a chance that you'll get in bed with her I think it's important information.

>>35252075
you're not that lad who's dad set him up with the scene looking girl are you? you had a thread and greentexted and posted pictures of her sleeping.

if I were in your position given the information you just gave me, I would have let it drop that you're a virgin after the part where you "had a good thing going" and "completely sperged out"

faking confidence has little to do with denying your virginity. it's entirely possible to be both confident and a virgin.

admittedly it is probably better to let it drop that you're a virgin after the girl is already interested in you, but under no circumstances would I suggest lying about it because it tends to come out sooner or later.

>>35252158
>i didn't realize everyone becomes a sex god as soon as you lose your virginity

I never insinuated this. the key point i'm trying to make is that you should be upfront about a lack of experience to save yourself both internal and external torment. if your ego is that fragile where you need to tell a lie then go for it. I don't see how that changes much though, as the bottom line is admitting that you don't know what you're doing.

>>35252297
>I would have let it drop that you're a virgin after the part where you "had a good thing going" and "completely sperged out"

"after" should be "between" here, forgive my blunder

>>35252297
>I never insinuated this. the key point i'm trying to make is that you should be upfront about a lack of experience to save yourself both internal and external torment. if your ego is that fragile where you need to tell a lie then go for it. I don't see how that changes much though, as the bottom line is admitting that you don't know what you're doing.

worst thing that happens is she thinks he's really really bad at sex, oh well, he still stuck his dick in it. if he tells her before hand then he's gambling and she might just nope the fuck out.

you're a femanon aren't you?

>>35252391
earlier in that post I said that it's better to let it drop after you're pretty sure she's willing to bed you. I'm willing to bet that any female that wants to have sex with someone before she knows that he's a virgin will still want to have sex with him after. the hard part is taken care of in both scenarios (getting her to want to have sex with you).

I believe that you are not looking at the full picture and largely disregarding what I said. "I've had sex once and don't know what I'm doing" and "I'm a virgin" both communicate "I am inexperienced" which is the main thing that needs to be conveyed. you are letting the person you are coupling with know that you don't know what you're doing.

>worst thing that happens is she thinks he's really really bad at sex, oh well, he still stuck his dick in it. if he tells her before hand then he's gambling and she might just nope the fuck out.

these are baseless claims. she is free to deny him in either scenario.

I am female, one who has had sex with virgins and non-virgins. I don't see how gender matters though, it's obvious when you're inexperienced. lying about it only serves to make things more awkward, both for yourself in trying to adhere to a standard or ideal you know nothing about and for her in having to deal with you lying.

>>35252613
I should have said "it's usually obvious" because there are outliers to everything.

>>35252613
most girls are completely turned off if they find out a guy is a virgin so everything in this post is complete bullshit and filled with muh communication nonsense that belongs on a certain site where you upvote posts

What if you are a girl vergin? Do you just let hime lead? Do you tell him so because maybe he might be into that?

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>>35252699
>most girls
another baseless statement. have you met most girls or do you get your information on females exclusively from what 4chan has to offer?

>muh communication nonsense
>implying communicating effectively doesn't make things better for everyone
>dismissing every piece of academia about the benefits of communication in healthy relationships as plebbit nonsense

again, you're missing my main point. I'll spell it out for you.

the hard part is getting her to want to have sex with you.

if she wants to have sex with you before she knows you don't have experience, she will probably want to have sex with you after she knows you don't have experience.

it is (usually) completely obvious when you do not have experience.

if you lie about it then you are only making it more difficult for everyone involved.

are you underaged or something? your debate skills as well as your logic are pretty lacking.

that being said, I wish you the best anon. have a good day (or evening or morning or whatever time of day it is there).

>>35252968
you're probably like 20 years old. there's plenty of guys on here that are over 25 and are still virgins. if you think most girls would be ok with this you're fucking delusional.

how about you spread your legs for all the 25+ virgins on r9k?