It's not worth it to alienate yourself from the 'love game' because it's retarded and empty. I decided to pursue a career in the academia and in the middle of my phd I found a girl I fell in love with, this was the first time in like six years that this happened. She was perfect, I was dreaming of meeting her my whole life. However all the knowledge I had and all the books I read served no purpose as I was clueless on how to make my feelings mutual. I struggled but was still forced to see her taken by another man. Participate in the love game anons, please, so at least you know what to do when you find someone you care about for real.
Nah no thanks; I'm good. I don't want to be tied down to a roastie
>>35206490
>I was clueless on how to make my feelings mutual
it's called be Chad lmao
>>35206616
I thought I didn't need to anon. I've been approached a lot of times because of my status by bitches and it didn't work no matter how hot they were.
>>35206490
lmao @ op
'falling in love'
you fell for her, she didn't like you
after all, why would she like some beta fucking loser doing some lame ass Phd? every fucking guy in my econ cohort is some fucking aspie fucking faggot, can't carry a conversation to save his life
theres the occasional good looking guy in the department, and all the girls naturally flock to him
improve yourself
conversation is a meme
>>35206490
I hate the game with women it's so fake and counterintuitive I almost want nothing to do with them
>>35206490
Ouch. It's your fault since you let yourself fall for her tho.
>>35206490
I'd much rather live the rest of my life alone. No one has ever genuinely liked me and i don't see that changing
>>35206837
>improve yourseIf
oh jesus christ, how? let me guess JUST LIFT BRAH, JUST DRESS LIKE A FAGGOT BRAH. there's nothing to improve, either you're good-looking and sociable or you're not.
>>35207105
Well just lift bro lmao
>tfw I'm almost 25 and I've never felt love
Thank fucking god. I'm suicidal enough as it is. Couldn't deal with the highs and eventual lows of love.
>>35206774
why didn't it work?
>>35206490
You don't make your feelings mutual, anon. Either they like you or they don't. What you do has no bearing on that.
>>35207188
Congrats man. You saved yourself from a lot of anxiety and let downs. Have you ever been a bit close to it at least?
>>35207274
Maybe, I think I had an online thing where I grew dangerously close to genuine attachment. Cut it short just in time and suffered little as a result.
I still feel like killing myself every other day, but I like to imagine my choices helped.
>>35207229
Because I didn't want to be a part of the game. I don't want a girl using me to show off her social status, and I don't want to be with her just because she's hot.
>>35206490
Its absolutely worth it to eliminate yourself from the love game. All you get, if you can even manage to get a girlfriend in the first place, is betrayed. Your hypothetical girlfriend will find someone better looking than you and will then cheat on you. Thats how it works.
If you like to be hurt and experience emotional pain then, by all means, keep trying. If you want to avoid all of that, then its best to just give up.
>>35207358
This. Or you would get bored of her and be tempted to cheat.
>>35206490
>was still forced to see her taken by another man
When will you learn?
>>35207562
Obviously never but I hope ;_;