Whenever I think about improving my life, I get angry at myself for being so far behind everyone else, and I don't start anything.
It feels like I'm so far behind they there's no point in trying. I'm only 20 though.
I want to have sex and live a decent life, but I feel like I don't really deserve to give myself a chance.
I have a job and I go to the gym. That's pretty much all I do.
Has anyone else been in this situation? How did you make it out.
>>35205820
You can't force it. Just keeping doing what you're doing and what you think is right and one day you might meet...her..
>>35205883
But what if things don't go well for me? I know that not everyone makes it.
>>35205952
Make peace with that possibility op. Make peace within yourself
>I have a job and I go to the gym
More than I can say for myself. I'm 23.
You just gotta try man. The point is, if you don't try then there's no point in complaining because you didn't really try.
Having a job and going to the gym counts for a lot in the dating world though.
>>35205952
Never stop trying, you only get one life.
Be sure not to ruin yours.
I know what you feel OP. You know you're responsible for your own life and no one can fix it for you, but yet you still can't build up any motivation.
>>35206146
What would someone in my position do about it?
>>35205820
Do whatever it is you want to do, and do it fucking now.
I'm fucking 27 and I let myself and other people convince me that I'll never be able to do what I want to do, which is to work in games. I could've spent the past 7 years working towards that goal, but I let myself drift on shitty jobs that I hated. I thought about suicide so many times because I thought this was all life had for me.
DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!
20 may seem like it's too late to change anything, I thought the same thing, and I let it consume me.
It wasn't until I turned 25 two years ago is when I learned that there's still time to improve, and learn, you just have to learn to budget your time. You can't be the best at what you want, but you are going to be miserable if you don't even try.
>>35206338
If I would know the answer I wouldn't be spending time on 4chan
>>35205820
>Far behind
>20
Fuck you amerifags and you crying when you're not CEO by 23.
>>35206338
Stop being a whiny little fuck and do something about it, you pathetic goggly-eyed cunt
>>35206396
I met a guy who's 22yo and already has his own law firm
>>35206399
Where do I start?
Bashful
>>35205883
Doesn't matter if you meet the one and you're not in a good place mentally. I didn't have my shit together and I met the girl of my dreams. We lived together for 2 years before my problems became too much for her. Now I'm in therapy fixing myself but it's too late to get her back. I always thought "the one that got away" was a meme but it's not.