How can looks be so important in socialising if i nevermanaged

Bumping for myself. This is not bait or anything like that. I genuinly cant understan why i dont havr any friends or relationship if looks apprently are so important.

>>35182881
All parents tell their children that. Real beauty comes from inner peace and control of yourself. Unlike this thirsty n00b, goodgamesgreg http://imgur.com/a/tfV4o

>why don't people talk to me
>I avoid any kind of contact

You answered your own problem.

>>35183588
Well i wouldnt avoid contact if people approached me. It just seems like others dont even try.

>>35183631

That doesn't even make sense OP.

If you have mental problems people are going to avoid you. You also probably aren't that attractive either if the only people that ever complimented you are your parents.

>>35183553
That would make sense if i wasnt approached by model scouts on the fucking street. Its mindfuckingboggling that agencies like img and lions would like to contract me but other people dont show interests in me besides looking.

>>35183683

People aren't going to just come up to you and want to be friends out of the blue. You have to socialize and talk to people. You have the same line of thinking Elliot Rodger did, he expected everyone to come to him.

>>35183736
>People aren't going to just come up to you and want to be friends out of the blue.

According to my observations it works like that for others. I may seem "cold" on the outside but thats not really an argument as to why other people couldnt approach me in school.

>>35183631

It's a never ending cycle OP.

You avoid people because they don't talk to you, and people don't talk to you because you don't talk to them.

You have to make the first move.

>>35183807

It doesn't. It looks easy for others because it easy for others, they know how to socialize. You don't. Also men don't really care about your looks when it comes to socializing. Women mostly aren't going to approach you either unless you're at a bar/club because that's just how gender roles work.

Also >>35183815

>>35183815
Yes you are partly right, however how can other adults make contacts so easily? It lools like they spend most of their time with friends.

>>35183631
Nobody is going to go out of their way to make you their friend. That's not how life works after grade school. You have to put in effort. Go places where people congregate to do a certain activity. Perform that activity while making small talk with the other people there. Eventually you will begin to recognize the people who frequent that location.

This is the beginning of friendship. It's 50% proximity, 30% common interests, and only about 20% likeability.

>>35183886
Why in the fuck should i normalise myself for the sake of women? Im sure there are no intellectuals at those places.

My point is that even the biggest fucking autist had some friends meanwhile i hang around the school ground wondering what exactly was wrong with me.

>>35183982
So i should invest valuable time in to a meanigless conversation where i pretend to be interested in something besides anime and shitposting?

>>35183911

You can practice on other people like cashiers and such if you are really bad at socializing.

Just be polite and talk with some inflection.

Once you have that down, you can go to events where people share similar hobbies or interests and strike up a conversation.

"Hey I see you like X, me too"

Another tip is to ask questions about other people, people always love talking about themselves.

Good luck man, I wish you the best.

>>35183996
>>35184055

You're not going to get anywhere being that pretentious.

>>35184079
I guess i have to start doing groceries now. If this really should help then thanks, anon. Maybe i'll do an update in the future.

>>35184109
But thats exactly how normies act. At least i have my looks so i can (rightly) feel superior to them.

>>35184153

I find that talking into mirrors in the morning works as well.

Also not doing introverted stuff like listening to music or reading on the way to school/work or whatever helps as well.

>>35184197

Let us know how that's going for you.

>>35184204
Yeah well the mirror thing is alright. I dont work or go to school so that might be a difficulty in finding friends.