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who /nofriends/ here? how do you pass the time and deal

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who /nofriends/ here? how do you pass the time and deal with the loneliness?
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>>35170729
Why would having no friends bother you?
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>>35170768
This.
You seem like a failed normie OP, a true robot appreciates the lack of noise disturbance that any human would bring.
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>>35170729
I'm a med student...so I study.
If I weren't I would have literally no reasons to live,..
I guess I'm lucky I at least have this...
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>>35170729
I abuse sleeping pills and make inconsequential posts on 4chan
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>last night
>incredible loneliness
>go on reddit, gamerpals
>a girl says that she wants someone to watch anime with and play runescape with, while talking to each other on discord
>excited, i send her a message, please god.
>she says okay! and adds me
>super nervous, get into a voice call with her
>she's so fucking cute and giggly and sweet, but i have autism and push to talk and can't help but let out one word responses with no emotion or personality
>she says she has something else to do and hangs up
>i feel like hanging myself.
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>>35170841
I always run into this problem where I feel incredibly lonely and desperate for human interaction, but then everyone I talk to is so shallow and boring that I'm like... not YOU, I wanted to talk to an actual person with interests and hobbies that we can make conversation about.

I really really want friends, but not just any friends, they have to be the right kind of people for me to actually like them and want to talk to them and I can NEVER find anyone like that.
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>>35170965
What manga is that from?

>Captcha: MANGA School
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Endlessly browse teh interwebz.
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>>35171015
this dadasdas
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>>35170783
No, I'm pretty sure I'm a robot. I'm a kv, NEET, and 20 years old. It's not that I really want friends, but it would be nice knowing someone cares about me, I guess. I do like the lack of disturbance, but I just feel empty if you know what I mean. Animu, vidya, and pornog do not fill the hole.
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>>35171015
what are your favorite websites besides 4chan, anon?
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>>35170987
"i am a hero", an undead apocalypse story with an extremely underwhelming ending
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>>35171054
So you realize that superficial pleasures get boring unless you're a literal retard.
But why do you think that relationships would be any different?
You're driven to socialize psychologically like you're driven to jerk off, neither is "superior" or "deeper".
Just do whatever you want nothing has inherent meaning, you might find something that has meaning for you, but it's not guaranteed you will.
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>>35171076
When I'm not here I waste most of my time on Funny Junk and Youtube.
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>>35171148
i don't think that relationships would necessarily be different, but something new.

i guess i'll try to find a new hobby
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>been lonely for 10years
>have a breakdown on the 24th of this month
>asked mom if my brother could hook me up or know any girls that would be interested in me
>he will not hook me up because he would be doing all the work for me and me not doing it myself
>he knows i have no connections and am a shut-in
>banned/blocked out of most popular dating websites
>asked my mom and she said older females would not be into dating me because they all have lives and things to do
>she tells me to learn to ride a bus and meet people
>am only robot in kentucky
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>>35171224
How exactly are you supposed to meet people on the bus anyway? People on the bus just want to go about their business, they don't want some stranger coming up and starting conversations with them.
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I'm perfectly fine with having no friends, just means one less person to hurt when I kill myself. Just waiting for the cat I raised to die before I finally do it :D
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>>35170729
I don't get "loneliness", I prefer being alone but finding something that is rewarding and productive while being worth the effort is a massive problem I still haven't solved at 28, I've tried so many things and have plenty of interests but ultimately none of it continues to be worthwhile and it just devolves into yet another tedium I have to force myself through and then I go back to unproductive internet habits.

My point being, maybe your loneliness isn't the problem in itself, maybe you have displaced your dissatisfaction into it so as to make it into something targetable and potentially, solvable.
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>>35170729
>how do you pass the time and deal with the loneliness?
by doing fun things on my computer, im schizoid so i feel most comfortable by myself
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>>35171224
How did you get banned from datingsites?
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>>35170729
Realise that your loneliness is missing the point, not having that imaginative relationship you long for is not the real problem here, it's your attitude.
The loneliness will go away when you start fixing your shit, hard to believe but I'm speaking from experience.
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i'm okay with no friends but i really want a qt gf
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I probably have schizoid disorder, since I've never ever felt lonely in my life. In fact I fantasize about living in a single-man, self-sustaining space habitat.
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>realise my loneliness is a great thing
>have lots of time to spent on shit i want to do
>want to learn stuff
>dont know how to start
fml
i always end up just browsing the web
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Get hobbies where you'll be outside meeting people
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>>35171175
>Funny Junk
What is this 2008?
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>>35170965
What are some of your interests and hobbies?
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>>35170729
Just waste my days doing the same thing day after day when I would possibly be productive the no friends was up to me don't trust most people
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>>35170841
https://www.reddit.com/r/GamerPals/comments/5weoww/18f_us_cst_im_looking_for_someone_who_likes_to/

LLOL
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>>35170729
I cope by playing roblox. It is literally the game for robots since no one there has social skills. And girls play it so you can get a qt gf. I just go to trade and participate in war groups and sacrifice myself for my brethren. But they always end up calling me a faggot so
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last time I chilled with a friend was 7 years ago.
>tfw your dad says you can watch Indian comedy shows with him
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>>35173598
Dude just go out and find people who enjoy indian comedy shows. Not that hard. There are plenty of pajeets in my area who are into that bollywood cap
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If you feel lonely just take a look at the culture around you - it's not like you're missing anything worthwhile. Better to live as someone who appreciates the finer things in life than be just another one of them.

And if you do ever have friends, quality over quantity - always.
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>>35173598
>Indian comedy shows
poo >>> loo
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I have friends to pass the time with, silly.
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>>35171845
females only want chad and they false report anyone but.
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>>35173470
My identity is an amalgam of powerful memetic wizardry far too dank for the Normal person to withstand for even one picosecond.
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>tfw you have friends but you avoid them because you never have anything to say and you're crap at conversation

this is the worse feel than /nofriends/
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The secret is to stop caring. Stop focusing on your loneliness. You're still be alone but you won't be lonely.

Look, it's basically impossible for an adult who is a robot to make close friends. You're literally asking the impossible.
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>>35171262
i would use the bus since i do not have a car to meet up with someone but
>ultra-casaul-normie-nu_male-tier brother has tons of connections and is working his way to becoming store manager of a walmart and he has a whale GF
>asked him to help me since he has connections
>nope because i do not apply myself to the social norm and do not have confidance to have connections of my own and him helping me would not teach me anything
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>>35171845
bumping this comment. Please post screenshots of your online dating messaging
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>>35170729
I get high and watch Reno 911 lately. Masturbate. Ruminate. Play career-mode sports vidya.
Basically what everyone does.
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>>35170729
That setup wouldn't work, that isn't a pulley system, you would just pull the gun off the chair like a retard
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>>35174010
>store manager of a walmart
sounds like a dick
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>>35173779
Come up with something new brainlet.
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having social life becomes crooked shit at certain point. Its terrible to think about it
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>>35170729
I've been alone my entire life so loneliness doesn't affect me. I fill my spare time with vidya, animu, reading, porn, browsing 4chan/plebbit/youtube ect.
>>35170833 Haha same
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>>35174094
Assume the gun is fixed to the chair and the chair is fixed to the floor. Then it should work
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>>35171076
Literally plebbit also kissanime(inb4 some torrent fag gets mad that I'm watching streams)
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>>35170729
Only had one friend in my life but I haven't seen or heard from him in years. Had chances to make more but I wasn't really interested so I let them pass by.
Playing games and watching stuff on Youtube makes life good enough for me.
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>>35173894
This. I'm renting a private flat with my friends and it sucks whenever they keep asking me to come out of my room. I just suck at conversations and don't want it to show.
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>>35175863
Conversations are a skill like everything else. You suck at them but you are never going to improve your skill if you don't try.
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I watch kon everyday for a month straight every couple months and it makes me happier then I play drums. I don't want friends.
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>>35174970
>reddit
>streaming
I want them OUT!
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>>35176085
Who is your favourite keion?
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>>35170729
Work, dreams and memes.
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>no friends
>not even one acquantance
>never had gf
>virgin
>literally zero social life, only talk to my mom and customers at work or cashiers in shops

However I'm somewhat happy I guess, I think the word that fits it is 'content'. I always think I want friends and a social life, but when push comes to shove and a person actually starts talking to me, I just think jesus christ fuck off leave me alone. It doesn't bother me anymore, I don't have the time, I'm always busy and I've accepted that I'll always be alone. I'm lucky I guess that I've got a lot to do to fill the time.

>at uni (accounting & finance, pretty comfy I really enjoy it and love working with numbers)
>study a lot
>part-time job (work a 8 hour shift 2 times a week at a shitty wagecuck fast food job)
>go to the gym 3-4 times a week (don't talk to anyone there but it's a good timekiller and feel bretty good after) (by the way not a chad, I don't lift I like to do cardio, I haven't even really improved but it feels good to run)
>play vidya
>watch animu
>the biggest one that helps me with loneliness - listen to podcasts/talk radio. I've listened to hundreds of hours of Opie & Anthony (I know, I know) it's funny and it's nice listening to people have conversations that you don't have to get involved with
>on friday/saturday nights I enjoy going for late night drives (seriously if you drive this is amazing it's so fucking comfy and gets you out the house - roads are dead, play my favourite music, have a few cigarettes, go to McDonald's and grab a nice coffee)

That's what I do. I suggest if you're a NEET obviously try and get a job. Take some courses at your local college, I'm sure they have night classes. Take a course with legit qualifications or just do one for fun. Join a gym, or if that's too much go for a run through your park or get a bike or something. I think the main thing is to get a hobby. Anything. Art, reading, models, drones, photography, etc.
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>>35177945
Sounds comfy. I'm on the same boat minus job/school being a shut-in NEET.
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reporting in, i had friends like almost three years ago. they both moved on when i was in rehab. i got into a car accident because i had a seizure driving home from his house.
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>>35178063
Jesus dood your friends are dick heads for abandoning you like that
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>>35176085
K-On makes me want friends. It'll never be the same as being 4 high school girls drinking tea and getting into moe shenanigans but it'll be closer than wanking and wanking on guitar in my room.
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>>35179469
>tfw no keion friends
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>>35170729
I have one Friend.
I met him a few months ago, does this count?
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>>35172247
It's not so bad. I don't really think it's a mental disorder just because other people don't think this way.
If trannies aren't considered sick in the head now, neither am I.
It's sane to not want to wade around in a sea of human filth.
(I'm actually really broken but, most of the point stands.)
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>>35179528
I forgot to add that I moved out of the basement into a 1-room flat in another country.
Although I am not a NEET but a university student, I do not have regular social contacts.
I even see my family only on rare occasions.
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>>35172247
A-are you me?
I actualy dream of the same thing.
If they look for someone to fly to mars alone, I would apply asap.
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