>you need to make a move quick so she doesn't go to someone

this actually fucking ruins me i think about it all the time
>will never find a gf without being paranoid

That's one of the reasons I stopped playing into the dating game

If I ever find a soulmate, then I will pursue her forever, yet confident that she would not go to anyone but myself in the end

If I don't find a soulmate, that's fine too. I won't force romantic love.

>do it too quick and you look desperate and blow your chance
>do it too late and she moves on

It's all luck. Can't win.