>be THAT GUY in highschool
>zero interaction with women because sphagetti and being a loser
>gradually improve myself with years years
>27 now
>/fit/, socially adjusted etc etc
>I got so alienated with women I can't muster up interest in them
>I always had my free time to myself and can't think of giving it up for a women
I'm basically like an unsocialized dog.
I know there is a lot of women hate on /r9k/ but honestly I just feel like I skipped a part in my life where women suppose to have a part in it and now I see through all the bullshit they pull and the way they behave.
Basically learned from the mistakes of others.
I think I have this feel. I just dont want to spend time money and effort on a relationship
>be 21, KV
>had just a bit of interaction with women in last few years, just enough to get me interested
>sometimes i get lonely, and it drives me crazy
>most of the time i'm pretty well, as i have all the time in the world for myself, to do what i like
>seems getting a gf is not my true desire, i'm feeling it as pressure from society (why don't you have a gf anon, you seem like a nice guy)
>>35095457
>>35095457
If you feel what I say tell me how you feel about this:
You suppose to "entertain" women. Honestly years ago I was pretty socially anxious and retarded but now I can get dropped into a group of 10 people and instantly connect with them.
Guys fucking love to talk to me, they open up fast, share some aspect of their life or how they see things.
I can't fucking talk with women like that, like they feel that they have nothing to contribute to a discussion anything other then when it's about THEM.
>>35095514
>(why don't you have a gf anon, you seem like a nice guy)
Ohhhh man don't fucking start me on that shit. I met my friends girlfriends best friend this summer. She asked my friends gf "why doesn't Anon have a gf? I can't understand it".
Shows interest, locks onto my arm etc. Call her up a couple days later. "Hey it's me Anon, wanna grab a coffee sometimes?" "no sorry"
Then I heard she's with a guy for 4 years now that literally verbally abuses her, cheats on her and tells her, and overall is a biggest faggot ever. She won't leave him because they share a flat and I guess it would be hard for her after seperating.
Life always teaches me something new when it comes to women.
>>35095530
The only time I ever really talk to women is in a group setting. At that point its not too bad as I just talk to anyone who's there and they can chime in with their thoughts and opinions but now I think about it the times I ever talk to them one on one the conversation does kinda grind to a crawl. I dont think I'm doing anything different.
>>35095457
Huh you unlucky faggot , i fell in love with a girl then after like two months i found out she comes from a rich family lmao