Hi. I have a huge issue. So I have been talking to a guy online for nearly a year and he moved near me and we met and he's amazing, I really like him. He's just very big... like I'm "thicc" myself, not very small but he's obese and I'm worried about being judged by my parents and people and the looks we'll get. I'm not sure how much he weighs... probably close to 400 pounds. I do find him attractive but I'm worried about the opinions of others. I don't want people to be like why's that girl with that fat guy? I'm only 20 and I'm not ugly but people are very superficial here, especially the young... what do I do?
Maybe this isn't even an issue but I have social anxiety and hate feeling like there's eyes on me and I hate being judged
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>>35093227
Another female here.
I weigh 98 pounds and my boyfriend weighs 196, so there is quite a difference between the two of us as well. I was worried I would be judged, but to be honest that judging is nothing compared to the love that we have. If you truly like him, go for it. Don't let other people get in the way.
The only problem I've had in our 4 years is that he eats way more than me. Sometimes I wish he could tone it down just a little bit, but what can you do I guess?