Any self outcasted people here? If yes, why did you do that?

You're not alone OP, I had a bunch of stupid ass friends for years who did that same shit everytime I hung out with them, then I realized life is too short to settle with that low-tier nonsense and moved on.

Of course that doesn't mean you can't find a new group to chill with though, there really are some great people out there contrary to this board's vicious cycle of hating all of humanity

>>35088264
Hard to say. I'm not sure if I'm isolated from social life for good (24 at the moment, been friendless for 3-4 years).

What always brings me back to outcastism is that I really have a hard time caring and being interested in other people over a long period of time. I can do things with people and have fun, but I never feel like I have to see them after that, so if we are to do something, they will be the one initiating. I'm a follower when I'm in a group, and I can be appreciated by the group, but I can easily forget about them for days, and at some point I just don't really feel like reaching out ot them anymore, and eventually we both forget about each other.

Basically, whenever I meet someone new I can have fun for a while, but it quickly becomes a chore to "maintain" the relationship, and the effort never seems worth it.

Doing fine for now, never really felt lonely or anything. I'm bored sometimes, but it's a "what should I do today" kind of bored more than a "im so alone" kind of bored.

Multiple times

I just have a tendency to want to get away every few years and to leave as much as I can behind

Attended 4 high schools, left my childhood friends before time was due, and now I'm about to leave my college friends 2 years in

I just feel like a year or two is enough to spend with specific people or at a specific place.

>>35088384
Shit this speaks to me because I'm also on the same boat, people can be fun to hang out with and all but in the end it's vidya I always want to come home to. That's why the majority of my friends I have do nothing but play co-op games when we hang out

Life is pretty damn boring after all

Yeah most people want to make their lives revolve around sex and dramamongering

I feel like bantz and other normie bullshit is a fucking waste of time and a pointless emotional drag. I don't want to be a part of that.

why can't people be decent and fun anymore

>>35088449
>Life is pretty damn boring after all
Yeah, all alone it can be boring, but then you realize other people don't really fix that either. Guess it's all about what you get from human presence, there is probably something we're not paying attention to or aren't affected by.

>>35088382
I tried moving on, I had a good friend in another group, we made some sort of reunion, we went clubbing twice.
Well, this friend noticed he was getting half the female attention he usually got, then he noticed I became more attractive than him, I felt bad for him when he was realizing it was really happening, "Anon seriously surpassed me, piece of shit...".
So he never called me again if not for boring "I got nothing to do this afternoon" bullshit to hang out and talk shit about the others in the group since he neutralized the possibility of me hurting his confidence again.
I don't know, it's like this anon says >>35088468

>>35088585
I hear that man, there are good people in this world but you need to move past the bullshit ones to find them. This is not a fucking fairytale, this is the real world

by the end of freshman year of my highschool career i became a normie. started off nice, drama was cool and had mutual friends across my campus, then i started to feel exhausted. the drama became filler, no longer able to satiate my lust for interaction with other human beings, and i was forced to sit through nonsensical ramblings about some vapid personalities that i didnt give a shit about. these people spent four fucking years wallowing in trivial filth to fill their vacant minds, shedding depression by adding a sense of importance into their lives in the form of negative energy. grew tired of it and reclused into a small group of friends who eventually moved away.

and it doesnt stop there, even in the now there is no limit to how fucking evil and empty people can be, and out of my life i can only pick a certain handful of people that were trustworthy and actually compassionate. the moment you hear about drama you should run away, that person is like a fucking vampire out to suck your positive energy. the worst part about friends is that the genuine ones are hidden beneath piles of shit.

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>>35088970
I completely feel you, the best thing is when you tell'em and they say "duuuuuude! you need to get laaaaaaaaid".
>my reaction

it's like you can't genuinely be against drama, normies think you're either gay or you need to get laid, no way out, they're perfect beings, you're the mentally ill weirdo

>>35089157
>it's like you can't genuinely be against drama
That's because people who usually say that are usually involved in the biggest dramas.

>>35088827
Life convinced myself there's no escape and if there is, every decent person is in my same situation and refuses to give a chance to someone..
I'm tired of the same routine over and over again:
>person tries to be your friend
>it takes you very little time to understand he/she is shit
>shut down that person

And this happened hundreds of times before I finally got tired of it, done.

I did it in high school. I was never ever popular but I had a small friend group. I cut contact with them and switched schools. I just felt like I didn't belong and that they weren't really my friends. I spent the rest of my high school years in my bedroom and not going outside.

I'm 22 now and while I still largely feel the same way, but I've mellowed out a bit. I still feel like I want as minimal contact with people as possible but I've learned if I want to survive with any sort of decent lifestyle I need to incorporate myself into society to some degree.

I basically just go to my job and school. I interact with the people there to the minimalist extent possible while there, and have pretty much no social life outside that.

I've gotten a roommate because I need one to afford rent, and he's a cool guy, I like him, sometimes we talk but for the most part I just chill in my room still.

Aside from that I talk to my mom, but have no real social contact outside of what is necessary.

>>35089306
I wanna be you, I only have 4chan, but that's fine desu

>>35088264
For me I just have difficulty deeply connecting with most people. It's rare to find someone I can connect with and I see no point in investing time and effort into a meaningless relationship that doesn't go beyond "how's it going?" I wanna talk about shit that matters and feel understood by those around me. But I'm so weird most people just don't get me. So why bother. I hate meaningless conversations that just consist of gossip or immature shit. It's just too bland for me.

>>35089239
If that is true then maybe you yourself are a terrible human being, that would be the only 'logical' sense given that you shut down all of humanity a chance. No one is percect, that is why we are human. And if you are too weak to believe in that then maybe you just don't belong

>>35091006
Don't worry, I don't leave the house and I don't play online games, we're ok.

>>35088384
>What always brings me back to outcastism is that I really have a hard time caring and being interested in other people over a long period of time. I can do things with people and have fun, but I never feel like I have to see them after that, so if we are to do something, they will be the one initiating

This. I'm not completely outcasted at the moment simply because the friend group I have is totally okay with me not speaking to them for a month or so until they arrange something, then we go out one day and talk/drink/socialise as normal. We have history so the bantz are fun and conversation easy, then afterwards i go home and don't speak to them for another month or so.

If they weren't okay with this setup then they would have been dropped like every other relationship i had, I have no desire to maintain relationships other than the guilt of making people feel bad, when i stopped caring about the guilt life got a lot more simpler.

>>35088264
I've been a NEET for 4 years now. Because I think everyone is fucking retarded for the most part.

>>35089157

you need to go back to tumblr, whore

>>35088264
>5'9 and women seek taller men, even if I find one she will cuck me for a taller man.
>Not as good looking as other men and I am too lazy to spit game to make up for it.
>I have a very vulgar personality.
>I was bullied as a kid, started lifting weights and now no one directly messes with me and acts fake around me, simply because I gained muscle.
>Women are a fuckin headache to negotiate with.
>Everyone talks of how they're going to college and will become a very successful person living the dream while I train to go in the Marine Corps infantry.
>I feel as if anywhere I go I won't be accepted and would be treated like shit unless I'm with people who are just like me.
>Chads pull up with their fancy cars and model tier outfit/hair after a vacation in Hawaii with Stacies and buy their way through life while my close friends get shot/stabbed/locked away for pulling licks to support their families.
>I am too tired to engage in conversation with people.
>Too many fake fucks trying to make a name for themselves, someone I knew verbally threatened one of the popular hard asses around and made him cry. Yet stupid whores are still attracted to these fake ass people because of their "status"
>The only way I can connect with my old friends now is if I "want in"
>Everyday is lived out robotically, I do the same shit every single day, no emotion it just goes by in a blur but I don't give a fuck.