How do you get over someone? Whether it's over a oneitis or over an ex what the fuck do you actually do?
First stage is accepting that hope is lost but it still hurts
You just wait it out. Try to avoid anything that makes you think in that person and whenever a thought comes in you just push it ou of your mind and remind yourself that you just need time.
You don't. If you're the type of guy who regularly posts on r9k you just don't, you never will. People like us don't get over "her".