Do you guys ever have periods of time where for some reason you just piss everyone off?
Once every 2-3 months everyone who speaks to me seems to hate me. The worst thing is I don't think I do anything any differently, but I'll express an opinion, or make a joke or reveal something about myself that pisses classmates, my family and my friends off, one by one in the space of 2 days.
And they'll either be clearly pissed, or things just become uncomfortable and they just won't talk to me. But I've no clue what makes what I said/did different from all the other times I did similar.
So I just sit about, wondering what the fuck I did. I don't know.
>>34979433
I think you must be going through one of those phases right now.You son of a bitch.
Opposite of that. Really appears to be the opposite. Everyone seems pissed off at me nearly all the time.
>>34979433
Yes this is a very good description of something that happens. It used to cycle like that but now it's permanently switched on.
I noticed it a lot around religious people. If be charismatic for a while and then suddenly, amongst the same group, the theme turned to "shame on everyone for everything, especially YOU" and everything I said or did was reprehensible and I was in a hole, a real double bind where everything was grounds for contempt.
Then days or weeks later (but sometimes moments later), the same people would become very licentious and the phrases "live a little", "lighten up", and "you need to get out more" would prevail and I'd be depicted as a boring square by the same people who just went into moralistic crackdown mode.
I'd like to type a lot more and go further but my back hurts horribly and I can't focus now. Good thread
>>34979732
I don't know, anon, you seem all right. OP, on the other hand...
>>34979433
Today I overheard that a female co-worker hated working with me. I work my ass off and really try at my job. So I think it's a flaw of my personality she doesn't like.
It's kinda got me down, then I get angry.
>>34979896
And then...? Then you...?
>>34979433
some information would help your thread
yeah ive been feeling that way today. i was walking outside and i passed some guy and I looked up and said "hello" and he said "g'day" but his facial expression was like, mistrusting of me. It's like he was suspicious of me or something. I dunno, it's probably because I'm an anxious weirdo. Either that or Im just being paranoid.
Also with my mum I felt like she was just annoyed with me or unimpressed or something. I think it's because of how I act, but Im just beeing myself :(. I guess I suck.
whatever i'll keep trying to be better. I won't let it worry me. I could just be overthinking.
There's this Asian girl that would greet me every day for 3 years. She's a bit shy and doesn't seem to have any dedicated friends. I never new her name until recently, so I never initiated conversation. Up until a few weeks ago, she was a friendly (a bit eccentric though, she once was walking circles around a table I was sitting at), but now she doesn't even notice me. She almost seems angry or annoyed. What does she mean?
>>34980352
I don't know, but my friend Justin doesn't know either.
>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DK_0jXPuIr0
Isn't it possible this is just a perceptual thing? You have a couple of bad or seemingly bad reactions from people in a row, and then your whole perspective is clouded by insecurity as a result? Fear of rejection is one of the major fears anyone has, so we're all highly sensitive to it.
I have noticed though that there does seem to be a sort of mass-behaviour that takes place sometimes, where a group of people will spontaneously gang up on another person or shun them somehow, almost as an act of random release of pent-up aggression. One person sees another put someone down (and it's easier if that person is technically already a member of the group), then another gets inspired to take a jab.
I sperg out sometimes when around friends, and they call me autistic and give me shit about it.
>>34979433
no idea, but who is this cutie?
>>34981524
Looks like Grimes aka Claire Boucher.