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>actively avoid going on 4chan for days
>force myself to get up in the morning and be productive
>spend several days getting my life back on track
>feel good for the first time in years
>find old pictures of oneitis while cleaning
>depressed again and can't think of anything else
I wanna message her so bad, but I know I shouldn't.
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>>34962036
Don't message her, it will pass.
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>>34962036
remove the obstacles from your path of self-improvement. Memoranda of your oneitis broke your combo, so rid you living space of them so it won't happen again.
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Is she Will Hunting?
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>>34962036
Channel those feelings, that energy, into making yourself into someone you feel like is deserving of your oneitis. Whether that means lifting, running, shaving, studying, brushing your teeth, just channel that energy into improving yourself.
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>>34962086
>rid you living space of them so it won't happen again
Unfortunately that's not so easy, there's too many things that remind me of her that I can't get rid of.
>>34962118
Depression is the lack of energy, there's nothing to channel. Also, I don't feel inadequate. She wanted to meet up some times ago, but she's living with her boyfriend and I know even if I was an absolute Chad, it just couldn't work out.
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>>34962036
If your main complaint is that your spree is broken, consider that you may be using perfectionism ("I want a perfect spree of self development") as an excuse to not even try.
You know what I mean? Only the mediocre are always at their best. I mean that you should go away from here and keep trying to improve your life.
You yourself admit that you have no chance with your oneitis. You have to move on. It's possible. You'll find someone new. There are millions of women in the world. No, billions! And most of them are filled with the desire to love someone, as you are.
The most important thing is not to think, but to ACT.
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>>34962530
>You yourself admit that you have no chance with your oneitis.
I'm almost certain I'm her plan B.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2769593/HALF-women-fall-partner-standby-fancied-case-current-relationship-turns-sour.html
>You have to move on. It's possible. You'll find someone new.
I've tried man, for almost a decade, this feeling isn't going away.
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