Anyone else doesn't want to get into relationships because of the roles you are expected to fullfill in it, both by your partner and society?
"Lessons" I got from my family and observing other relationships made be just angry and unwilling to get into this mess.
I don't do anything because even thinking about doing something is exhausting. I really wish I could just hit an off button instead of having to go out of my way to have a guaranteed death. I'm sorry if this off topic but your question is a subset of having to exist and I just needed to ramble.
>>34957212
>mom always did all the work, from being breadwinner, cooking, cleaning, taking care of me and my sister
>dad just kind of exists and chills in front of tv
>dad throws tantrums when he doesnt get exactly what he wants on dinner
>always have to be the one helping mother (together with sis) because "oh, that just the way men are honey, we have to do all work"
>same with all other families I know
>man in my culture smoothly goes from his mommy to his wife/gf and probably doesnt notice much change
>still remember my grandmother getting my 18 yo uncle breakfast to his bed and literally spoon-feeding because "my sunny is going to have hard day at school"
>mfw aunts and mother "lecture" me about having to always looks good and be mysterious or the husband will cheat on me
>its your fault if the guy cheats on you
>it isnt different in families of my friends
>friend with brother literally instructed to do all the cleaning in the room their share and house because "muh boy, he needs to rest"
Fuck that
>>34957477
This happens in my household too but it is somewhat uncommon. Most of the time, it's the opposite.
>>34957477
This fampire.
>>34957507
Depends on a country (central-eastern europe), here its pretty common.
>>34957477
Are you perhaps from a third world country? This just seems like a very common thing in tw countries since I'm from one too
>>34957558
Poland, not really third world
>>34957558
Which third world country are you from?
>>34957212
>because of the roles you are expected to fullfill in it, both by your partner and society
Yes, it is one of two big reasons I hesitate every time I got a chance to be into a serious relationship.
The second would be fear of being abandoned.
>>34958462
I dont blame you, feel pretty much the same.