why am i so submissive? no matter how hard i try to be a leader

>>34921299
>im 5'8 so im pretty tall

you better be a female

>>34921299
You again? I thought you wanted to be submissive

>>34921322
im a guy /oriiginal

>>34921375
continue being submissive, i guess? i mean 5'8" is short, but it's not that short. don't fall too hard for /fit/ memes. why do you want to be a leader anyway?

>>34921452
really its cause i feel like i should be a leader. who even likes a submissive guy

I'm 6'2 and submissive. It's even weirder for me.

>>34921490
>who even likes a submissive guy
well some girls kind of like it, in a sort of femdom way. but other than that, it really doesn't come into play in average life outside of office politics and all that garbage.

if you're gay, then you should have no problem finding a guy who loves a sub.

>i feel like i should be a leader
that's just instinct, then again, you're not a cheetah-skin, wood-club-wielding caveman, are ya?

>>34921539
i am gay, so its more acceptable?

It's not your fault. You may have noticed that society in general has become feminized, men are less aggressive, violent crime continually drops, etc.

It is xenoestrogens in plastics in EVERYTHING we eat, as well as lack of male role models.

Being a submissive male is just the new normal now. So long as you can get an erection don't worry.

>>34921585
without a doubt more acceptable, holy shit, don't even sweat it. i guarantee, you'll be able to find a hot and dominating guy who wants a submissive and short boyfriend.

>>34921612
but i mean i have a submissive personality, thats what im concerned about. i cant stand up for myself or be assertive

Are you submissive or shy? There is a difference. Do you get off on being controlled and told what to do? Or you just can't assert yourself? In modern society most people are the latter, unless you go to prison or something you just won't be ready to fight all the fucking time, you won't assert yourself but that does not make you submissive, unless you get off on it.

>manlet
>horrible social anxiety
>will have panic attacks
>meek
>can't yell

Yet whenever there's a group of people something inside me screams to take command and lead the group.

>>34921649
then get a loving boyfriend who'll stand up for you, instead, and help you be assertive

>>34921660
im both /orriginall

>>34921672
Napoleon, is that you?