Serious question, robots. Should I start attending gym or it

>>34900478
I don't know, I'm fine being a wizard and never getting a stupid gf.

Have fun with that, though, unattainable prize in a rigged game.

You should go to a gym for self improvement purposes. Not to get a girlfriend. Think of it this way. If you go to the gym for 3 years straight, you'll be stronger, leaner and healthier. If you practise a musical instrument for three years straight you'll be able to play or compose many different pieces in many different styles. If you study for three years straight you'll be approaching, if not, a qualification that could lead to higher paid work. If you date a woman for three years, she could cheat on you for no reason and leave you. Make YOU the source of YOUR happiness.

>>34900605

Approaching if not obtaining, sorry, missed a word.

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you damn right should

>>34900605
>self improvement purposes. Not to get a girlfriend.
This sounds so stupid. At the end I improve myself to get a girlfriend. If I wont get one I better kill myself already.
> Make YOU the source of YOUR happiness.
Haven't you heard that humans are social creatures and need to have friends and sex to be happy? I am already satisfied with myself, girls are not though.

>>34900700
I am sure the guy had a gf even when he was the right one.

>>34900812
You think it's stupid to improve the vessel you live in for it's own sake? Sign up for a gym and quit after two weeks then idiot. A girlfriend doesn't "save" you, only you can.

Socialisation, yes, you need. Sex? Meh. Celibacy is perfectly doable. If you're with a girl just because she's a girl, and that's all and there's nothing deeper, you'll both end up miserable before it ends.

>>34901103
It is stupid to do anything it I will never be happy, and I never be happy without a gf.

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>>34900892
then what about this guy

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>>34900892
>>34901139
or this guy

origineel

>>34901139
Probably no.

>>34900478

You will feel less small, weak and disgusting, and consequently your confidence will go up for sure. Don't think muscles will metamorph you into super-chad though.

>>34900478
It's pointless unless you have a reason to be fit.

>>34901365
Is ugly face a reason?

>>34900478
gym is easiest way for autists to get gf. It gives you confidence and girls think it's hot and anyone can do it, no matter how bad your social anxiety is.

>>34901385
I suppose being ugly is a reason.

>>34901385
it was my reason

>>34901485
Do you have a gf now?

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working out is difficult, and doesnt feel that good at least for me. so im straining my body to lift stuff only to feel sore. im going to aim for 3 months before i quit since everyone says you see gains after 3 months but 1 month in and the only difference is that I can lift a little more then when I started. still skinnyfat too

ive been working out for the past 3 years
no, i'm not that swole
no, i didn't do it for girls
no, i haven't gotten any girls since
no, i'm not really happy without myself
working out makes me feel a little good, but the main reason i keep going is i just can't really stop anymore. it's too ingrained in my lifestyle

>>34901202
I ever got this. It just changes how you look.

>>34901500
I don't have a girlfriend because my crush rejected me when I was a fatass and moved to Belgium. But I've lost my virginity and sleep/make out with girls at least once a month.

The best part is, I gues, when random girls notice you in the street or in the bus. It's so nice to see when cute girls drop their spaghetti for you. You should definetely try, anon.

>>34901683
I, probably, will. Now I should somehow figure out how to do it.

>>34901709
Start browsing /fit/ and watching youtube channels like ScottHermanFitness or Buff Dudes. Those things will teach you and motivate you. Then start going to the gym 2-3 times a week, then make it 4-5. Watch what you eat and be consistent. That's what I dod and it really worked for me. In just one year and a half I went from chubby to muscular, and it has changed my life. You can do it anon, just trust yourself.

It's stupid to want to lift just to get a girlfriend. What happens when you do get a girlfriend and stop wanting to lift? She's going to leave you.

Go lift so that you can beat the shit out of most guys. Even if a fight never happens, it's good to know that you can.

>>34900478

Yes. Go to the gym. Learn effective methods so that you're getting the most out of the time and work you invest. You will gain discipline, a better physique, increased confidence, increased self-respect, and eventually others will perceive you to be someone who has some sort of determination/ambition. It's fucking gold brother.

HOWEVER.

Women do like men who are fit. This isn't rocket science. Will being fit alone get you a girlfriend? Emphatic no, if you don't invest time in developing some rudimentary social skills/game. I'm not talking douchebag PUA bag of tricks, just the general skillset necessary to land pussy. The boost in confidence from lifting will make it easier to slide in, but you're going to have to work at actually making effective advances. This takes TIME and PRACTICE.

Free lesson: Don't be such a desperate twat. They can smell desperation - one of the single biggest turnoffs for them. They love to believe they're hot shit, they aren't interested in giving it up for a man who will settle for anything.

Also, if you want a girl to stick around (gf), you should be focused on having your shit together financially. Once you're with them long enough they get a nesting instinct. They want stability for their goddamned brood.

tl;dr lift and fuck and forget about a girlfriend until you got goddamned money.

>>34901946
>lift and fuck and forget about a girlfriend until you got goddamned money.
> implying poor dont have gf

>>34901137

Yeah there we go. You've chosen not to be happy. Have fun stagnating.

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If youre working out to expect girls to randomly flock to you then no. But working out will definitely become a good habit and make you more competitive. I am in high school and have a decent build (Pic related is me currently cutting) but have not ever had a girl at school complement me or treat me any differently than when i was a fat, black hoodie wearing, repulsive acne ridden beta.
>Constantly wanting to hit new PRs
>Looking back at old pics and seeing how far you came.
But
>Still no gf
>There will always be Chads better looking than you.
>Girls dont care for muscle as much as you think.
One of the only pics i feel alright with sharing.

>>34902006
How do I fucking start doing gym? I walk in, by a ticket, and how do I choose which machine to use?

>>34900478
Depends anon, if you go daily and put some serious effort then its worth 100% but otherwise its bullshit. If you don't go 100% then the most you'll get out of it is minimal muscle and a bit of weight loss.

>>34901976

You can definitely get a girlfriend if you're poor. Just don't expect them to hang around for very long if you remain poor.

I'm saying if you are looking for a long term relationship and you're 21 or older, get the motherfucking money first or you're fooling yourself.

>>34902049
Sign up for a local gym or LA fitness or 24 hour fitness, isnt that bad. Because youre new start with getting used to the feel of different exercises and start off doing full body workouts 2-3 times a week, just using machines with light weight.
After a week or 2, you will divide the types of body parts you will hit throughout the week.
>Chest
>Arms
>Back
>Shoulders
>Legs
All on different days (There many different splits you can find online) Look up how to preform exercises on youtube for that body part youre training that day, (i recommend Scott Herman, Chris Jones, Hodgetwins) Just keep lurking around /fit/ and youtube and make it something you study and apply to yourself in the gym. Its a long journey so not everything can be explained, not even bodybuilders have learned everything there is but there you go.

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>>34902049
here, you can find each excercise on youtube

>>34902266
I love u, senpai.

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If you want to get in good shape buy a pullup bar and just do pushups and pullups and make sure to run a lot

If you want to pick up chicks make a lot of money and buy tailored clothes

>>34900812

If you live for another person you've already lost anon.

>>34902298
I love you too, now go to the damn gym and come back to /r9k/ in one year to show off your new body

>>34902049
Ask the instructor? You dont have those on gyms in America?

>>34900478
Lifting does NOT get you girls

Most girls don't give a fuck if the guy is ripped or not, fuck half of them don't even care if he's chubby or not. It's like #12 on their list of things they are concerned about.

When you're ripped it's like an added bonus. Girls will not be with you if all you offer is being jacked.

>>34900478
Well, gym is a decent place to meet girls. Do a lot of cardio, chicks dig cardio.

Just talk to a girl after a workout, but instead of asking for her number, you give her yours and hope she calls or texts you. Then, when she calls/texts you, use caller ID on your phone to know her number. If she shoots you down, oh well, just try a different girl net time. Eventually one will want to be your friend.

Now you know a girl.

>>34902266
how well will that work if you don't take steroids?

>>34900478

You will gain big muscles. This will not help you get a gf.

You will gain confidence and energy and be happier and less depressed. This will help you get a gf.

>>34902580
very well, just work out hard and pay attention to what you eat

>>34900478
If you have the money, just buy some weights. Watch training videos on jewtube, etc.

If money is a problem, gym is a good option

>>34900478
if you want to become more fit go

it won't directly give you a gf but it increases your odds by making you more sexually desirable, both visually and in term of sex performance (it takes cardio to give a good fucking)

if you got nothing better to spend your time on and have enough financial resource, go to gym, duh, it's really not a matter of going but a matter of keep going

work out for your own health and longevity