as a 33 year old how do I stand up to my father? he's

>>34895631
By getting a job and moving out

>>34895645
What if there are no jobs where you live?

>>34895631
Knock him out

>>34895631
Stick to your guns. My father was always aggressive towards me and only stopped when I became a grown man and made it clear that I had my own set of principles he couldn't shake me from. We have a nice and somewhat healthy relationship now.

>>34895750
In other words you fucked him up bad didn't you anon.

give a light jab to his stomach so he lowers his hands by reflex

then you punch him in the face with your other hand

>>34895631
I'd use my mom against him when i was a teenager
>go ahead, hit me, asshole, I don't care lol
>GET OUT OF MY HOUSE YOU FUCKING LITTLE SHIT
>mom intervenes
>his balding stuttering redfaced self just stands there glaring as I hug my mom

our relationship has gotten a little better since then, considering im also your age and still living at home

>>34895772
No, I never have and never will lay a hand on family. I know he was just trying to make me tough even if his own way of doing it was dumb as hell.

>>34895663
There are jobs literally everywhere. Get a minimum wage job.

If not move out and live on the streets until you get a job somewhere else

>>34897208
>minimun wage
>making enough to live on your own
pick one

>>34897208
Yeah sure if you want to live in a dumpster and barely get by, that sure wont ad to the misery.

>>34897572
>>34897621
That's what I do. I work 2 minimum wage jobs and go to school also. I pay $500 for a room. No gf, no expenses but food, insurance, etc.

>>34895631
Punch him in the dick. If you're 33, he's at least 55. If you aren't a lardo, this should be a one-sided fight. When I was 12, I managed to beat up my ex-football player dad by repeatedly kicking him in the knee injury that never quite healed. He stopped trying to beat me after that and acted somewhat nicer.

>>34897830
And do you enjoy your life?

>>34898134

>desperately trying to wriggle out of taking responsibility for your life
>being so short sighted you believe sacrifice in order to improve your circumstances is wrong
>literally wanting everything easy and handed to you

>>34895631
>Move out.
>Get toxic people out of your life.
There, no reason to keep people like that around if you live on your own.

>>34898222
I never said I wanted things to be easy and handed to me, I never wanted things to be so hard either,

you're working two shitty jobs and barely get by, you have no gf which means no love life.

doesn't sound like a life to me.

>>34898268
You still need a job to move out.

>>34898345

>he doesn't understand more than one person is replying to him

You're 33 and leeching off your parents. You're the only one here barely getting by.

>>34895631
By going to >>>/adv instead faggot

>>34898345
Yeah, being 33, unemployed and living with an abusive father is such a great way to live.

>>34898625
>"A-At least I don't have to work!!"

>>34898134
Yes I do.

It's not ideal, but everything is temporary. But I get through it by focusing on I things I care about and doing things I like.

It's your life you can do anything you want. I bought a fun little car with some of my saved money. I highly recommend it, but only cuz I'm an /o/tist. But do shit like that