>It's Valentine's Day
>girl asked me out
>i have some feelings for her
>mfw still had to reject her
This is always the worst part.
Am I the asshole, /r9k/?
>>34871407
You better have had a good reason to not accept, like having a gf yourself
Otherwise you're a lost cause man
>>34871407
Why did have to reject her?
>>34871407
Why did you do the rejecting of the girl?
no?
you dont have some responsibility to date people just because they asked.
>>34871407
begone normalshit
why did you reject her tho
>>34871443
simple answer is i don't want to settle down in this country. i've been pursuing my dream to emigrate for about 3 years, to get a gf to tie me down this late in the game would be signing my dreams away
even though i do harbor feelings for this girl, i have to have my priorities straight. she's not the first girl to ask me out and won't be the last. but until i'm safely in my destination country, i can't risk being tied down.
>>34871532
OP confirmed literally retarded, this thread is done, let's all move on.
>>34871465
he's the asshole
>>34871532
Why not ask her to come with you?
Unless you're trying to come to america, then stay out.
>>34871674
>Why not ask her to come with you?
she already knows and isn't devoted to fulfilling the requirements to move to the country in question, so i see the bombshell coming like with my ex gf that i had to break up with that she would eventually ask me to remain.
don't really feel like going through that heartbreak a second time.
>>34871714
At least tell her the reason you said no was because you're moving soon
I'll take her then, OP
wow I can't wait for everyone to respond to this troll thread
>co-worker keeps looking at me and turning her head when I look at her
>after her shift ends she lingers around my dept
>I walk past her and our eyes meet
>I ignore her and keep on moving
>she leaves looking kinda sad
>tfw you can reject women without a word spoken
>>34871714
What country are you going to? Where from?
>>34872111
nice trips. but why does it matter?
that would severely detract from the purpose of the thread. there are reasons why we have to reject girls we like. this is one of them.
sometimes you just have to choose between the girl of your dreams, or the future you want
>>34872139
I'm just curious. But I agree, I know that I will never have a relationship, being successful is my only goal now.
>>34872166
if you're curious, i'm an american trying to move to japan. japan is the hardest country to move to, and so a lot of girls here don't have what it takes to make the cut. hence my dilemma.
>>34872596
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Bait thread confirmed. Later, OP.
You're not obIigated to accept anon
>>34872596
HAHAH Jacob is that you?
>just stay in Texas and draw anime
>>34872765
My name is Jacob and I'm in texas, but I'm not OP and I can't draw anime
>>34872793
well learn to draw anime and then stay in texas
>>34871532
>"hey anon, wanna go out to dinner or something?"
>"I can't. I have important dreams..."
fuckin autists, jesus fuck...
>>34873355
you just don't understand bro.