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>r9k always complain about their status >how they never

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>r9k always complain about their status
>how they never go out because social anxiety
>complain about their social failure

Tell me, r9k, why aren't you trying to get your life together ?
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Because we are all here circle jerking while using our tears as lube.
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>>34862617
But why ? I used to be the average r9k user, now I rarely have more friends than I used to and I still browse here, but at least I understood that it's not how much people like you or not that determines if you're life is a failure or not, here people think that only Chad deserve to be happy, and they very obviously force themselves to be sad
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>>34862707
Responsibility requires work. We are manchildren who prefer blaming others.
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>>34862822
No no no, YOU are a manchild who prefer blaming others...me, my life just sucks and though I try to work at improving I feel like some greater power wants me to fail. But I keep trying, because I feel I have to.
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>>34862592
Because no amount of trying to improve yourself will actually make you happy. If you were capable of that you would have been in a better place long ago, if not all along. We're fundamentally broken people who can't change our fortunes no matter how much we try to improve (or not).

t. cyborg
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>>34862592
I'm constantly trying to get my life together, I just keep failing.
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>>34862854
Hahahahha. Blaming a higher power for YOUR situation. How's that working out for you little baby. Cried today?
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>>34862912
Nah, not yet. Haven't for awhile. Still trying but, shit. Things are just going slow.
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I try to do the right thing but it always backfires. I help people and they get mad at me, then I stay put and they blame my lack of initiative. I try to not bother and they say I'm boring. I try to entertain them and they say I talk too much. There's just no winning with normies.
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>>34862879
>>34862854
>>34862906

Your standard are probably too high, you don't need to be Chad, just have a work and enough money to buy things you like
I always had this weird fantasy where I would go live in a robot house and make him appreciate life again
Probably will never happen tb.h
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>>34862879
Not true by longshot. Self improvement is long and tedious business, and it is far easier, but not rewarding, to give up. The changes come so slowly and gradually that it is hard to even notice if any improvement is made until you have made some major improvement.

t. ex-major depression, social anxiety turned druggie turned jailed turned pretty gud way to normie.
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>>34862954
I'm not saying I have a lot of friends either, I am not very good at social interaction, but I prefer to think about things I like instead of my social life

Why do you give a fuck if x who lives in cuntington doesn't like you?
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>>34862978
This

Jdbrhjdjbg original
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>>34862592
>XB-70

muh fucking dick
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>>34862912
Not him but why did you get all offensive? We're all in the same boat here. aren't we? No need to get on someones case just because he may have said something that reaffirmed your self loathing.
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>>34862592
Man the XB70 was one fucking badass plane.

Anyway, because I expect that theres a large chance that I'd fail to accomplish anything if I tried to get my life together, and trying is not costless.

>>34862978
well said. I'd add that normies assume that if and when you do see progress, it makes you feel happy and motivated. This isn't necessarily the case.
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>>34862592

I am trying. And it's working!

>Job prospects improving
>School is going well
>Fitness is improving, no longer hate the way I look
>Plenty of money

I'm gonna get back into the gf hunt soon and if that works out things will be even better. Life's gone from shit to almost good
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>>34863259
Indeed, you don't get so much happiness from the progress itself, it opens opportunities to do stuff that will give you the happiness. The self-improvement is just a step, and next step is to utilise those skills.
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I am
>started studying again. Not failing anymore
>Resumed Japanese and thinking of taking N4 this summer.
>started working out. Still quite dyel but not fat.
>taking care of my appearance. Shave every other day and got a haircut.
>got a part time job and have 8k in the bank.
>force myself to go outside. There hasnt been 2 consecutive days where i havent. No longer hikikomori.

I still feel sad though. It all seems fe ibut i still dont talk to people. When i try they always end up making an excuse and fucking off. I guess i missed the boat on learning to socialise and now im a condemned lonely man.
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>>34862954
You'll win with the normies as long as you just be yourself anon :)
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I used to come here a lot for jokes, realized it's a toxic shit hole so I stopped. Then I started working out, working for better job prospects, finished school.

Recently I went to HWNDU in the hopes of meeting a person with similar interests and I did meet a fucking amazing qt3.14 who linked me to this thread who I've been on a Skype call for 5 hours now.

The secret is to just do shit and of course be yourself ;)
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>>34863603
what if "myself" is lazy and doesn't wanna just do shit all the time?
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>>34862592
There's no way to get your life together if you're ugly. Or is there OP?
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>>34863628
Idk you're fucked, how will shit happen to you if you don't put yourself in a position for it to happen.
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>>34862822
Shut the fk UP.
I moved to another continent when i was 17. Got my shit together. Worked to pay for college.
Stop talking out of your ass. I have nothing but responsabilities in this life and yet i am sad as fuck. Thinking about anheroing
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>>34863628
Just continue to bee yourself :)
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>>34863603
Basicallt what u are saying is that life is rng.
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>>34863753
As opposed to it being fate the reason why you're alone? Wat
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>>34863750
>>34863584
She's the troll girl I've been talking to on Skype, somebody mute her ass
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>>34863813
Both of you can kill yourselves.
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>>34863603
>qt3.14
>is actually 4/10 at best.
No compromises duse.
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>>34863799
There is no fate. Life is pure RNG but if it makes you feel better thinking that fate made you met that girl, that the whole univers want to be happy by being yourself, then good for ya.
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>>34863849
Yeah I wanted to post her body pic, she said no, so no go with the ruse fella.
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>>34863849
>Not even being able to land a 4/10.

Why me?
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>>34862592
Because I'm comfy dese kouhai
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>>34862592
I am. Progress is slow and setbacks hit me hard, but I am trying and am moving forwards.

But I'm still about 7-9 years behind a normal person, at this point. Give me a fucking break.
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>>34863879
>female
>not wanting to whore herself
The jig is up.
>>34863903
Rather no gf than shit gf. Except every gf is shit gf.
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>>34863994
Lame and transparent.
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>>34864022
Transparent and lame.
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>>34863675
Being happy =/= having ton of friends, being a chad
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>>34864508
If people were able to be happy without qt gfs, this board wouldn't exist
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>>34862592
Because everything sucks, the economy is shit, women are fat and companies fire you for no reason or keep you around doing the same low shit for 20 years without promoting you
Shitposting helped trump, in don't think pol elected trump but getting the other side under tension and having Hillary declare war on memes didn't help her
Wathever I'm doing here is working and I won't stop until it makes sense for me to do
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>>34862592
Eh, I'm doing pretty ok. I have a weird situation where I tuned out of my life way back in high school when I broke up with my Eva Braun tier gf who I never really got laid with nor did much kissing.

I didn't become a full on anime watcher, but I was and kinda still am pretty tied up to my PC, mostly grand strategy vidya. I can go out and do with rl friends but the problem is it'll always feel off to me. It literally, absolutely, feels like I'm acting.

From my experience, even if you 'fix yourself' (I've always been 50/50 and didn't tune out of society too much, so I know how to 'act' like I said at least) it'll always feel like you don't belong or like you're screwing something up.
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>>34863912
Well at least I skipped the car and don't have one, so I have more money to my name and never have gone bankrupt.
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>>34864508
>being happy =/= being happy
what exactly is being happy then? If youve got a ton of good true friends how could you not be?
>inb4 monie
money doesnt make you happy. All money does is facilitate social activities.
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