I'm not from around here, but v-day has me feeling down
>be 20
>have fling in the summer with a girl i've known for years
>really great time, develop feelings for her
>except she lives 1500 miles away
>ask her if she wants something more
>she says maybe
>i give her time, and she says she doesn't know
>eventually i tell her that i'm coming to her, and that when i get there we can start small and work some things out and see how far we get
>she says okay, she says that makes her happy
>drop everything, get my money together (was in debt at the time due to poor choices) and move across the country to be closer to her
>she shuts the door in my face
what the fuck do i do now? i know nobody in this goddamn state. i tried talking to her, but she wants nothing to do with me. i always prided myself on not standing to the side and not giving time to a woman who wouldn't put me over other men. but that's out the window now. i don't have my self respect, i have no friends here, and i can't even buy booze to drink myself to death.
t. an unknowing cuck
>>34855536
>I'm not from around here
then don't come here
>>34855568
fuk yuo i feel where i want to
You made a mistake dude. You move 1500 miles after being a total beta
>h-hey d-d-d-do you think that m-maybe u kinda of... you know... want to like, d-date me?
>it's ok i-i-if you c-can't decide, i'll drop my life and c-c-come to you and we will be very gentle and slow with our r-relationship
Honestly how the fuck could you have possibly thought your behavior was attractive? How could you be so fucking stupid, to think a girl would accept such a ridiculously grand gesture after clearly demonstrating that she doesn't have strong feelings for you?
Learn from this, I guess. And you should probably move the fuck back to where you came from.
Are all white people this stupid?
>>34855536
god you're a dipshit kid.
>transferred back to college in-state to be with gf
>watched relationship fall apart in slow motion
>moved away from 2nd gf
>moved back after 6 months because "feelz"
>watched relationship fall apart in slow motion
you do what YOU want to do and they follow. If you don't have something to pursue then that's your first problem.
p.s this is disgustingly beta behavior. never do it again, you fucking pathetic faggot.
>>34855695
Most white men are completely beta from feminism and social justice etc. And betaness is, in its own way, a form of incredibly severe retardation. So yes
>>34855635
I'm pretty secure in my masculinity. I go where I want, I do what I want, and I make my own money. I wasn't afraid of letting myself be weak. I'm still not.
>demonstrating that she doesn't have strong feelings for you?
Maybe I fooled myself, but that's not what it seemed like at the time.
>>34855724
>god you're a dipshit
>proceeds to tell story of doing basically the same thing
kek
>>34855778
>implying im somehow absolving myself of the same wrongdoing for giving comparable evidence from my own life YOU FUCKING KIKE
>>34855752
Well then just to make sure you understand: Most girls are not very assertive. They beat around the bush and hope that men are able to get the signal. That goes for positive signals and negative signals.
So when a girl says "I don't know" when you ask her if she wants a relationship, the answer is definitley "no."
>>34855829
thats why you have to just rape them if they put up resistance when you make a move