So I asked my oneitis out today and I'm confused >ask

>>34853201
So were you sitting with them at lunch? What's the context?

>falling for "'just be yourself"
That only works if you're already a Chad.

>>34853237
It was lunch break at work and I just walked up to the table her friends and her were sitting at and asked
Took me weeks to build up the confidence to ask her like that and now I'm considering giving up

>>34853201
>oneitis
tf is that?

>mocking that I go to symphonies
just say there's a reason girls like piano players

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>>34853201
>>34853281
How old are you, man? How old is she? This sounds like some teenager shit.

>>34853291
newfag and probably not a robot if you can't even read the phrase oneitis

You probably weren't actually friends with her to begin with. Just an acquaintance, and they weren't entirely sure why you were sitting with them to begin with but they tolerated it to not seem like cunts. Then you asked that girl out and she realized you've been there the whole time to ask her out. That's what the face and tone were for as well as the comments and her friends telling you to leave her alone. And yes, symphonies make you look gay.

TL;DR

You were probably clinging to some girl who wanted nothing to do with you and you pushed things too far.

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>>34853281
They sound like fucking cunts. Sorry that happened anon

>>34853312
I'm 19 and she's 17
I work at a rec center with her

Fuck that bitch, Anon, she's clearly dumb as hell and not interesting at all, you deserve better. This is just a bad experience, no need to throw it all away just because of this episode.

>>34853317
sorry i got lost on 9gag and ended up here lmao

>>34853360
Fuck off u fucking piece of shit

>>34853385
dabs 42
>normie get out reee
am i internet cool yet?

>>34853349

Haha, that's what you get cradle snatcher

Stop lusting after teenage stacies because of the "young, pure innocence" meme

>>34853401
Fuck you bitch, say something to my face you faggot cunt

>>34853323

Best answer so far OP

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>>34853349
>she's 17
There's your fucking problem, man. There's only a very specific type of 17-year-old you ask to go to the symphony with you, and it's not the generic Stacy-type that she sounds like. Maybe if she were in the marching band or something. Plus, if you're into symphonies and she's not, it doesn't sound like you have a whole lot in common, any way. You can find somebody better than that bitch.

Just move on, you're only 19. You'll have a lot more crushes. You're too young to be on here complaining about this bullshit, lots of people get turned down when asking for dates. If anybody should be ashamed, it's her. She sounds like a real bitch.

>>34853463
okay I'd love to, you seem nice enough. I wouldn't mind coming up and saying hey.

>>34853201
How pretty are you on a scale of 1 to 10? Height? Skeleton or lardass? Virgin walk/talk/smell/face?

>>34853201
OP just work out and better yourself and find a girl that isn't a bitch.

If your old oneitis is still around when she sees a cute girl that actually likes you hanging off you, I bet she will try to talk to you.

Of course, you know her true self now, so don't fall for her succubus ways.

>>34853516
I'd love to knock your teeth out you smug cunt

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>>34853349
That's your own fault for 2 main reasons.

1) Knowing you, you probably barely communicated that you showed ANY sexual or romantic interest prior to this asking out since it apparently took you weeks to build up the confidence to ask

2)There is a small, small, SMALL percentage of 17 year olds in this day and age who would ever want to go to a symphony. We're talking like I'm pretty sure you statistically have a better chance of getting hit by a car or at least shat on by a bird.

There are very very very very VERY few teenage girls that would ever go to a symphony.

If her face soured then that means you overstepped your boundaries, which were probably squarely in the friendzone.

You sound like you have become fixated on this one girl who wants very little or nothing to do with you. At first she tolerated you, maybe she felt sorry for you or you helped her, but you being older than her but still pretty clearly a beta male means you are not going to be viewed as anything but a friend, if that.

Just give up on this particular girl, you're not going to turn it around at this point. There are other ones, but you might try to aim higher age wise...

>>34853572
why so hostile? I didnt know what the fuck a "oneitis" was

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>>34853201
Hmm... I think I know wherein the problem lies OP.

Post a pic of yourself.

>>34853601
Haha, looks like he beat me to it

>>34853201
It sounds to me like her and her friends are a bunch of assholes. You're better off having been rejected because who wants to be in a relationship with someone who acts like that. Seriously. What the fuck?

>>34853608
Yea, disgracing and belittling the interests of my fellow robots. You fucking punk.

>>34853515
This, listen to this based anon

>>34853687
Yeah... I bet you thought asking her to the symphony would make you seem worldly and sophisticated. That plan rightfully blew up in your face.

>>34853670
It'l take time, but as OP looks back from a less and less emotive standpoint, he'll understand she wasn't the one after all.

>>34853691
I don't understand and am perfectly content with that.

>>34853349
>at a rec center
OMG in california? Because I think I saw that shit

>>34853737
He's a sophiscated gentleman, anon. We got another Elliot in the making, my friend. Give him another 1-3 years and he'll be shooting up rec centers like a champ.

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>>34853593

You'd be an 8/10 if you worked out a bit to lose the baby fat on your cheeks and stopped squinting like you're about to take a load on your face.

Now that I think about it you kind of have this look on your face. Give us a neutral one or one where you smile and we can talk.

>>34853803
How about you be content with my fist motherfucker

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>>34853846
Roast me papa

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>>34853201
Dude, you are better than this. Dont let this shit bother you at all. She is a cunt and those others are cunts.

If I had been with you that shit would of went down different. I am a fit dude and I would of straight up toldem me and you are going to a symphony and they can go be sad cunts that dont understand music. Woulda told that cunt to prepare for life as a dumb ass white trash single mother cat lady bitch.

You will find a chick dude, and when ya do she will hit up shit with ya and you wont have to worry about her being some judgemental egotiistical emotional rag cunt.

>>34853850
I'd like to see you try to catch these hands.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2k425NY-mBI

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>>34853792

There it is again. That weird face you make. Why do you do that?

Give us a smile and open your eyes, senpai!

>>34853792
anon your over the dumb bitch minimum height, get /fit/ then become the man /r9k/ hates.

>>34853883
J-Joe? Is that you, bro? Haven't seen you on campus in a while

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>>34853883

You're a 6/10 because you have nice skin, symmetrical facial features and good height. However your face is a bit chubby and you're still doing that retarded squinting face.

OPEN your god damn eyes and SMILE. Or just give us one where you just have relaxed/open eyes.

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>>34853966
See
>>34853515
>>34853323
>>34853603
Your all right thanks for the advice guys

>>34853966
In other words, an incredibly generic looking white guy. It's no surprise this girl barely knows you exist, OP.

>>34854073

I'm actually envious of this guy. As a 26-year old who still gets occasional zits on his face and have a back/chest covered with it I'd happily trade with him. He's a 6/10 at the very least. 8/10 if he worked out and stopped squinting like a fag.

>>34854071
OP is my ideal bf

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>>34853201
Chad here, this is probably what went wrong.

>Symphonies are a bit too specific. There's small venn diagram of people who like both symphonies and you, and almost none of them are 17.
It's cliche to ask someone to a movie but the reason people do it is because pretty much everyone likes movies. And it's less of a financial and time commitment than a symphony.

>How much time did you two spend together prior to this? Were you on good terms or pretty much strangers?
It can be a little confronting to be asked out cold with no warning. Especially for a 17 year old girl. Now she handled it pretty fucking poorly if you ask me, but I do understand where she's coming from. You've gotta flirt a little bit first, or if you can't flirt just have polite normal conversation. If she feels comfortable around you, she's more likely to say yes, or at least say no a lot nicer. If you're having trouble getting to know her well at work just ask her out to coffee and progress things from there. Even if it's not a formal date it can lead to one in the future.

>She was probably a little off-put by the 2 year age gap.
2 years is pretty much nothing in the grand scheme of things but at 17 it can seem like a lot. Especially considering she's probably a virgin and most 19 year olds probably aren't. In her mind there's a lot of baggage and expectations that come with dating someone older. Either aim for people your age or a bit older or put her on the bench for a couple of years.

The important thing is not to give up. I know exactly how you feel and these things fucking suck. It'll take time to get over her but eventually you will. Just keep your head down and wait until you don't care about her as much, even if it takes a while. There'll be more crushes in the future and this is all experience that'll help you the next time.

>>34854191
Too bad you're a boy(male).

>>34854230
>17 year old girl
>probably a virgin
I'm an 18 year old still in high school and no. just no. This does not exist if the girl has any friends.

>>34853201
The fact that she was with her friends may have shot you in the foot.
Oneitis was originally a PUA term, and one of the main objectives in PUA is to isolate a girl from her friends if you want to try to escalate things, including asking her out.

>>34854277
Well I'm Australian so maybe things are different here but in my experience most girls lose their virginity around 17-19.

>>34854357
I'm Canadian and it was commonplace here to have lost your virginity and even make fun of virgins in the 9th grade
I didn't

>>34853887
>that text on a picture of a roider
pretty funny

>>34854277
Loads of girls lose their virginity the first week of college. They have to be coming from somewhere.

>>34854417
How old? I'm Canadian, 29, and it wasn't quite that bad when I was in school, I can even remember when girls wore baggy jeans and you would probably get sent home if they dressed how they do today.
It seems like things have gotten so bad in such a short period of time.

>>34854230
Chad speaks the truth

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>>34853349
anon she is too young.

just stop, go to school, get rich and fuck bitches

>jokingly ask crush if she wants to go see lego batman with me
>says yes without hesitation
Now I'm like, did she really mean that or...

>>34853323
>symphonies make you look gay.
fuck off

nigga i don't even like that shit but quit putting other niggas down

>>34853201
You asked a girl out?

Why are you here?

See, this is the reason why I don't ever try to approach a girl and ask them out. Not because of the fear of rejection. That's bad enough, but at least I can handle it. What pisses me off is that some girls are such assholes, they spread the whole "omg, anon tried to ask that girl out, what a creep!", and now suddenly, everyone you know thinks you're a pathetic loser and makes fun of you.

Why do people have to be like this? I get it if you don't want to go out with me, but why have to be such a cunt about it and fuck the little social life I have?

>>34853349
Kek all these puritan ameritards thinking 17 is too young

>>34853515
wait hol up, you got rejected by a 17 yr old and you're 19? holy shit you are pathetic OP. my god. most chicks wet themselves over the thought of an older guy being with them. she never even gave you a thought and even then you obsessed over her. jesus fucking christ lol

OP, the pic you posted was near the Bridge to Nowhere in Southern California. You live in the Los Angeles area.
Someone else in the thread also mentioned they saw something like this happen in California.

We're gunna track down this rec center eventually. Just keep posting pics.

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>>34853201
the mistake you made is asking her in front of her friends

by the sounds of it she probably wouldn't have said yes anyway but still, you always make sure she's alone before asking

unless you're chad, then you can do that because all her friends will be fawning over you too

>>34853601
>you probably barely communicated that you showed ANY sexual or romantic interest prior to this asking out

nigger

how the fuck does one do this

like actually how

>>34853201
>her friends at the table start laughing, mocking that I go to symphonies

If a guy asked me to go with a symphony with him, I'd probably fall in love on the spot. Chin up OP

>>34856136
Don't let what other people think control what you do. That's the only difference between betas and alphas. Alphas do what they want and betas are timid