How can anyone seriously in their right mind be okay with marrying

Because most people don't share your specific insecurity about virginity.

Don't worry, women think virgin men are equally as useless. Also that's a stupid argument anyway, the human body is constantly sloughing off old cells and making new ones which means in 5 years your entire body will have been replaced. Stop playing silly mind games

>>34837628
I don't even care, bro
1. I'll never have sex in this lifetime
b. See above

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>>34837628
is it time to dumb shit
becasue imma do it

>>34837689
>. Stop playing silly mind games
but it's more than just that tho see >>>34837720
34834923

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>>34837738
>34837720
>>34837720
>>34837689
tfw you'd forget the pic which shows more things to btfo whores

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>>34837689
>when you're in your 20s, girls your own age are having crazy wild sex with hot Chad left and right, and Chad doesn't even need to work to get the sex
>now when you're 30, you're expected to marry and dedicate your life to the same women who was handing out sex to chad freely before, but now you actually have to work hard for it and be a dedicated husband in the hope she might give you some vanilla pity sex when she's not tired
>meanwhile chad got to have sex with her when she was in her prime attractiveness, and he didn't have to dedicate his whole life to her

This is why I'm against marrying nonvirgin women, because it's just not fucking fair.

>>34837628
I wasn't, so I married a woman who was a virgin until I proposed.

That said, I needed to get comfortable spending a lot of money on 1st/2nd dates and also needed to get comfortable with the possibility that I would spend my life alone.

>>34837628
Because I'm no virgin either anon, I did it all the wrong way (escorts and hookers) and I'm in too deep now, I couldn't get with a virgin little lady because she deserves someone who actually waited

The previous generation of men were raised by single mothers or neglectful fathers so they put pussy on a pedestal and will do anything for it.

I will die a virgin but this next generation is already proving to be extremely conservative so there may be hope after all.

I think if you don't marry and have kids the Jews win so you have to improve yourself to the point where you can attract average women who don't party as much as Stacy and just choose to be ignorant of her past and judge by current behavior.

>>34837810
>tfw the Jews win even if you create more goyim cattle for them to brainwash
>tfw the next generation will be subverted no matter where they lean
how do I join (((them)))?

>>34837927
You are only a Jew if your mother was one as well

>>34837628
I am marrying a nonvirgin girl this summer. Been togethet for 7 years now.

She had some experience when we met and i had some aswell. So we had pretty good sex from the start. Nothing bad anout it. Also i know that all the kinky stuff that is above average sex she did with me....so i am totally confident.

>>34837779
I bet your sex sucks

>>34838737
Good enough for me. Good enough for her. That's all that matters.

ITT: basement-dwelling insecure neckbeards who will die without having kissed a girl.

>>34837720
>2017
>still believing in thoroughly debunked graphs created by religious anti-sex groups

>>34838744
Are you doing the same with your wife as if you would masturbate and think about sex? Or are you masturbating to "good enough" porn

>>34838806
I don't understand the question. If you're asking if we fulfill each other's fetishes, then yes.

>>34838796
*tips fedora* le friend zone is the atheist's foil

>>34838828
As long as you both can fullfill your fantasies. Thats fine.

>>34838785
At least they won't have racemixed :^)

>>34837628
Let's face it. The only reason any guys are "okay with it" is because women won the war on social standards. They can fuck 10 guys a day and nobody is allowed to judge her. So guys just smile and nod, and pretend to be okay with being only the 6th biggest cock she's had. Unless you're not a socially brainwashed cuck and you realize it's not acceptable. You might end up being single, but at least you have standards.

>>34838943
>chose to die a kissless virgin
>calls others cucks

>>34837628
That's right, anon! Let's boycott sex with non-virgins. Oh wait, that would require you to be able to have sex with them if you wanted to... Nevermind.

>>34837767
i'd marry anri okita

>>34838943
Let's face it, you are projecting your own insecurity onto others. Social standards may have changed but social standards are subjective to the times, but since reality will always fall short of our expectations and easy, cut and dry solutions are appealing we have a tendency to romanticize the past.

>>34838967
>>34839043

Nice normieposting

Don't actblike wanting a virgin is unreasonable on principle, after all it worked for a good part of human history

If a man works his ass of to provide for a wife and family he deserves the best of her that he can get, and that's her in her sexual prime with her virginity intact

Why would you put all that effort into a woman just to get what other guys got with no effort and when she still looked better?

>inb4 muh partnership

Being screwed over isn't partnership

Of course some loser neckbeard who never worked for anything also doesn't deserve anything

>>34839369
Nowadays the woman works too in like 90% of households. Most people can't provide for a kid alone anymore

>>34839369
It is unreasonable unless men want to be virgins until marriage too.

>>34837767

Agreed. Getting married is for chumps.

>>34839369
1. People got married at 13, not 30, so it was more common to be virgins
2. People have always fucked, married or not.

In other words, you're an insecure beta cuck.

This is going to be an attention whore post, please ignore unless you're willing to offer me advice.
I'll try & sum my situation up
>be me, young virginal female
>meet guy on /b/ year ago
>lives on another continent, no chance of meeting unless one of us travels quite far
>we talk every so often, nothing serious
>only really talk to send nudes
>like him a lot, he says he'd date me but we're too far of course
>there's a time where I may be free to visit in around a year and a half
>he says I can stay with him for a few months then if I'd like
I don't know what the romantic situation would be if I stayed with him but nonetheless, he offered.
My actual question: I absolutely intend to stay a virgin for my husband / very serious boyfriend, but I like this guy a lot and he's very good looking. Should visit him in 1 1/2 years & lose my virginity to him?
He would likely be the only other guy I sleep with other than my future husband.
Also:
>he is not a virgin
>he is around 7 years older than me
Sorry for this post, but I don't know where else to turn.

>>34839963
Ask someone you trust, don't take advice from the dipshits on here

>>34840001
What, ask my mom? Why do you think I'm on r9k

>>34840019
Alright, well you probably shouldn't do it. Mostly because you have to go another fucking continent to do it. He clearly isn't that important to you

>>34840019
If you want to be a virgin until marriage, then no, don't do it. Don't sacrifice/invalidate your principles on a whim. However, if you do some soul-searching and feel as though this is the right choice for you and is genuinely what you want, then go for it. But make sure it's in a way that you enjoy and that benefits you. Please don't let him pump and dump you. Also, personally, please don't do it if he's a Chad and fucks women all the time. Only do it if he's a genuinely very good person for whom you greatly care.

>>34839963
First, you can't just stay in another country like that. There are things like visas, permits, and generally immigration related things. If immigration asks and you tell them you will stay a few months with a guy you never met, they probably won't even let you in the country.

>>34837628
Wow that's weird. I'm worried that my gf hasn't fucked enough guys before me. How do I not know she's jsut desperately latching on to me because she's afraid to not find anyone again? How can I be sure I'm the best I can be if she can only compare me to the one loser she fucked before me.

>>34840065
Thank you, your advice really helps.
Your part about him being a Chad, I really don't know how many girls he has slept with but he's made a few comments to make it seem like a lot.
I don't know, I'm really just an idiot girl so I think I'll end up going for it.
He is just really nice to me. Of all the guys I've met on 4chan, he's the only one who's only ever been really nice to me & put up with my insecurities & idiocy so it makes me think that he may care for me somewhat.
I really can't get into the mind of a guy.

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originalo posterino

>becoming a slave to the vaginal Jew

>>34839396
They'll still usually expect the man to make more money and be more established financially

>>34839466
Sure, if that's the standard women want to apply it's only fair. Generally they don't, and never have. Just a difference in what they get out of it I guess.

>>34839527
People didn't get married at 13, 16- 25 or so with 18-20 being common

People getting married so late isn't a good thing either, it reduces birth rates, reduces the likelihood of the child being healthy and has 50 yo parents still having kids at home.

On the flip side people generally want to be flexible whilst still in education or just starting a job, but that's not actually an impossible problem

Also people being virgins at marriage wasn't just a factor of age, but also of societal expectations. If a woman didn't have her hymen on the wedding night the man could in many cultures just annul the wedding, and noone would marry a women who was known to sleep around

Yes, people had sex even then, but usually just with the person they inew they were going to get married to. If not, they were stigmatised

>you're a beta loser virgin blablabla

Typical women bullshit. If you can't make a good argument then you'll talk about how sex is unavailable, but then in the next sentence talk about how you're not a sex object. Numales do this as well

>>34837767
You will never get a women so long as the only reason you value them is sex. You are pathetic.

>>34839963
>>34840067

That, and I wouldn't take the chances with someone I've met over the internet, you can be much more different in real life.

>>34837628
if you think the most valuable thing a woman has in the world is her pussy it doesnt matter what you think because you're never going to get married anyway

>>34840604
Yeah but he's such a qt. What's the worst that could happen? He kills me? So what. Anything less than that isn't much to phase me

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>>34840678
That is the most valuable thing a woman has in the world.

If you don't agree, then why don't you marry your best friend? He has all the other things that you supposedly think are so great about a woman you'd want to marry. But you don't want to marry him. Why not?

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>>34840678
If you don't think the most valuable thing a woman has to offer is her vagina.
Then why don't you make out with your best friend ? You think alike, you have fun and interesting moments together, you enjoy each others company.

Tldr - if you don't think the most valibale thing about a woman is her pussy, then you are a faggot

>>34837767
Fuck women, acquire currency, never get married. Just pump and dump one to pass your seed. I hear it's all the rage now.

>>34840591
Man, shut your bitch ass up. The fact that you think women have anything more to offer than their vagina and hot meals tells me that you're either (1) a fucking moron; (2) a woman.

>>34839963
If you only talk to each other for nudes what makes you think he'll be fine without sexual activity for months while having you right there?
>b-but I know him :(
No. Just no.

>>34837628
What if a woman is a widow, is she supposed to remain chaste and in mourning forever after?

>>34842352
My question was whether or not I should go - to fuck him.
If I do go I'll be losing my virginity, that's my dilemma