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Who else /fine with being alone/? Everyone here seems to hate

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Who else /fine with being alone/?
Everyone here seems to hate being alone, having no girlfriend and no friends. Ive been alone since I was born, it was always just me and myself. This isn't a sad thing, I don't really care either way. I guess I'm just wondering why you guys are so bitter and sad and depressed, what's wrong with being alone? People suck anyway, right?
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>lonely all my life
>get gf
>going great at first
>now I just want to be alone
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i had a great setup with my one and only GF. She lived in Staten island i lived on Long island. so wed only see each other on the weekends. that gave me enough me time.

Tried going after 2 other girls that were locally around here. they wanted to hang out too fucking much.
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I feel the same, I don't want friends, a girlfriend or sex. I just need internet and vidya.
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I agree anon. I've never wanted a gf. Never felt the need for a woman, the whole thing. Particularly now with the benefit of experience I understand how much of a pointless gamble women are.

So I wank. I fuck fleshlights and sometimes shove things up my ass. Or suck cock. Its enough
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>>34808191
Being alone is great, the only problem i find with it is the goddamn organ harvesters, they target lonely people.
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>>34808271
I know the feel anon. I talked to my crush once but afterwards I realized I didn't really need her, I'm better off just being alone.
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I like to be in my own space. I like having complete control in what I'm doing. I don't mind socialising though, I think it's important for us humans.
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>>34808191
>>34808346
I feel you.
I just want to be left alone.
Are you depressed?
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I'd like to try out sex at least once to see what it feels like, but aside from that and seeing all the shit my brother has to put up with his girlfriend I'm so glad I'm alone.
It also helps that I can talk to people relatively well because I don't get nervous around them since I don't care much about what they think of me, but I suck at making friends.
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>>34808191
I used to feel this way, but then I met a girl at work who drives me crazy and I can't stop thinking about her and I started feeling lonely for the first time in awhile, even asked her out and she said yes then she canceled on me and ignores me now.
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>>34808727
I'm not really depressed, just unemotional. I've always been like this though I sometimes feel like a robot. I've gotten good at not having emotions
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>>34808191
I use to be very bitter during my teen years with no gf and no friends to confide in with my problems. Very depressed and cold on the inside. But now I've gotten so used to it that I've found a sort of comfort and happiness in the simplicity of it all. No one bothers me and I bother no one, maybe this is for the best.
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>>34808191
I don't want to be completely alone, I just want to be alone like 80% of the time. So obviously I don't want a serious relationship, I have never been interested in that. But I do want to hang out with my friends for a little bit every now and then, and I also want some casual easy sex every now and then, just for the degenerate pleasure and nothing else.

For the most part I agree with you though, I've realized life is at its best when I'm getting comfy by myself. There are just times when I need something else though.
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>>34808271

I was stuck in that feel, luckily she broke up with me. I had to pretend to be sad.
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Feel the same way as well. I've always been very introverted and always felt at peace when left alone. Whenever I start feeling sad about how it sucks I don't have any friends or a girlfriend, I remind myself how I would get bored and exhausted with them anyways. The only thing I wish is to lose my virginity so I can at least experience how it is and get it out of the way. Might get a hooker for that, it seems.
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>>34808191
I've been in three long/mid term relationship in my life but being alone is comfy af
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>>34808271
How do you get gf if you're always alone?
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>I can do what I want ,when I want
>don't have to meet the expectations of other people
Sometimes I get lonely, and then I remember how exhausting it is for me to keep up with people. I want to do my own thing.
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Same here. Used to crave gf in my 18-22 but now im honestly good being alone.
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>>34808191
One part of me longs for human contact, but another part of me longs for isolating myself; particularly in nature. I think I'm gonna purchase a dog and just go exist in nature for as long as possible.
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>>34808191
http://www.learning-mind.com/why-smart-people-are-better-off-alone/
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>>34808191
exactly why are you faggots crying about a weaker,dumber, and more emotional unstable version of men? Women don't even love men because they will never sacrifice themselves for you and you are just projecting your love on to her when she is biologically program to survive and not to sacrifice herself. only men do this not women.
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90% of the time yeah
the other 10% I'd like some specific company or things
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>>34808191
M8 being alone is comfy as fuck, am here reading a new book and drink some ice tea, all while being comfy in my bed with my blanket.

Feel damn good
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>>34810280
>throughout my life thought I was an introverted loner because I'm smart
>tfw actually brainlet just good at rote learning things for grades
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i've been alone my whole life, would be nice to have someone, but i can deal with being alone just fine
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>>34808191
vsauce did a thing on isolation, that was cool. but people need other people.
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>>34810726
I was a super genius introvert until I suffer a cognitive decline but for some reason people still call me a genius/smart at times. I still have some of that leftover greatness but its not as good anymore after my early decline.
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>>34808890
hell really is other people
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>>34808191
I actually find socializing to be fun. On the rare occasion I'm invited to go somewhere, I almost always wind up having a good time. I have pretty bad social anxiety so I'm always nervous as fuck at first, but that subsides pretty quickly. And then I just talk about bull shit with people and it's pretty fun. Time usually flies by.

I just wish I had more people who liked me and invited me to go do stuff.

>In before normie rooooo
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>>34808191
High tolerance for solitude is great

I swear I am at my best creatively and am most focused when I have at least 1-2 hours of uninterrupted privacy and solitude, its why I'm a nightowl
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>>34810045
I can barely manage to talk to one steam friend without feeling exhausted afterwards, and two or more is a nightmare I end up talking less to the other.

Its just so exhausting to socialize in any way that isnt anonymous imageboards for me.
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>>34810342
>programmed not to sacrifice herself

Proof??
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>tfw lonely doesn't apply because I don't exactly want what lonely lacks

>tfw can manage just phenomenal alone and have inexplicable resentment for those who can't

>get bored enough to wonder about other living beings
>realize I will never initate conversation with anyone with hopes of companionship
>sometimes humor the attempts of others out of good nature until I see an escape

I break down why this is to the atom with socratic reasoning at least once a day.
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>>34811646
look at nature you see it all the time males are willing to sacrifice themselves to protect females. Males want to protect females and their offspring so their genetic legacy can continue. also females want to survive for them to continue to reproduce.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PEq5crJ8Nmg
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>>34808191
This. Being alone is great. You get to spend all your time and hard earned money on yourself, you don't feel obligated to go out with and hang out with others, buy them gifts, take them out for dinner, etc. You just get to do whatever you want to do, buy whatever you want to buy. So much freedom.
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>>34808271
same man. i could propose tomorrow and she would say yes. part of me just wants to be alone, part of me wonders if it would be a mistake to throw it away. fuck i dont even want to have to make a decision
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Grew up a complete loser. In my final year in my high school of 600, I was probably cooler than maybe 20-30 other students tops.

Apparently I became handsome somehow. I moved to the city, became an alcoholic, and would go to clubs pretending to be a chad.
Although my "pretending" was just imitating Ryan Gosling's body language from the notebook.
I'd actually watch romantic movies just to take note of how the man expresses himself via body language.
Women started to approach ME, drag me dancing, buy me drinks, and even sleep with me.
Most were average looking or chubby girls, but a few cuties came my way.

I started dating and would cut off all other social ties except my current GF. I got sick of all 3 of them, thinking I'd be happier alone.

Ive been alone for a year, except for work, I haven't touched or talked to anyone that isn't family in a year.

On one hand, I'm fine and I don't miss the fighting, the heartbreak, or any struggles of love. But on the other, I just want someone to cuddle and hold. I miss being able to love someone, spoil them, and make them happy.

Keep telling myself I can go back to my old ways but everyday I just work/smoke/videogames
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