A question to normies, is this site unhealthy?, should I quit

Just don't fall for the blacked, cuck, trap, gay, trans, lgbtbbq shit and it's fine

>>34789735
That is a hard question. My first therapit said that I should leave as soon as possible, my second therapist said that it is good for me to talk with people with the same problems.

>>34789760
Therapists are a meme
Just don't fall to memes

This site is absolutely bad for you. I blame a lot of how bad I felt at uni on spending too much time here and the thoughts that came into my head because of it. It's not a healthy place for lonely, impressionable young men.

>>34789759
This basically.

Orginalo

>>34789735
It can be. But for me, it's more an entertainment thing. I help people who want help, but for the smug NEETs, I view them like single mothers: desperate to appear better than they really are.

>>34789735
Coming here when you're feeling down is the worse because that's when your the most susceptible to auto suggestion and self hypnosis which makes you pick up on autistic tendencies, which can put you in a trance where you actually come off and believe you are autistic. Most users here are fallen normies who became autistic through proxy and osmosis over time. Your brain acclamates to autism over extended usage of this site to the point you can't distinguish between what is real and what isn't.


t. Meme djinn of 4chan

>>34790590
im highly impressionable and relate to the kvh losers here. i want off this ride

I pretty much always feel worse after coming here. But I'm not normal.

>>34789735
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>>34790796
Leave this site. Try to do something more productive. Learn a hobby or shit. Go to a gym and start lifting. You can even socialize in a gym. There are tons of outdoor hobbies that can help you socialize if you just want to give it a try.But because people here have self hypnotized themselves in believing that no matter how hard they try, they just won't succeed in their life and trying is just not worth it. They just run simulations of situations that they will go through in their life while sitting in their room and end up failing, thus strengthening their belief that they are a failure as a human being without even trying. Life is not like that. You have to keep trying in it.If you fail then get up, and try again. Practice will make you not perfect but at least way better then how you are right now anons. If you're in school or college then work hard, not to find a hot stacy but to live an amazing life in future. If you're mentally sick then seek help. Don't shut in people who want to help you out. And there is no shame in asking people for help, everybody in their life has their low points. Give yourself a chance. How the hell can you people expect others to love and respect you when you can't even respect and love yourself? Why would people want to be around you when all you radiate is gloominess? Try to be cheerful and smile, even if you don't feel that way. Having a positive outlook in your life changes the way the world see you. Stop living in your delusions and stop being a quitter. You will be a khv loser if you don't change how you are. Try to discover stuff/hobbies that you love, if you don't like it, then try another one. The world is huge and you'll eventually end up finding something.Leave this echo chamber of depression and loneliness and move out of your comfort zone. Put yourself out there. Inaction is worse then trying and failing. Doing something and failing is way better then living in regrets of what ifs.

>>34790950
im too scared and embarrassed to seek mental help, they might not think im mental enough

>>34790950
>radiate
im trying to radiate a positive expression physically though

>>34790986
Don't give a damn to what other people think, this is about you anon. Do you really want to live your life as a sick person? Try seeking help. Talk to your parents about it if you have a good relationship with them. Try to make them understand about the situation. If you seriously need help then seek it asap. Stop wondering how people will think about you. You're already a neet(assumption), stop caring what society thinks of you. Your own well being comes first anon. Just make them agree to let you see a therapist or a doctor. At least get a diagnosis. Like I said, you have to try anon. Otherwise your situation would just keep on deteriorating and it will be too late. I understand you might be scared, but opening up and letting people know how you are would really help. Family can be the best moral support anon. It would be good to know that they are there for you. Just convince them to at least get a psych evaluation and make them understand your situation.I hope you get better anon, best of luck!
>>34791007
Good for you anon. You won't learn it in a day, practice would make you better. And do try to smile more. Best of luck!

>>34791075
i went once and they said i should definitely come back but i never did now im too scared to

>>34791208
It's never too late. Try going back there anon.Take someone with you, like your parents or your cousin. That would help you out. Tell them you need help and go there.

I used to be a failure. Then I came here, stumbled across PUA blogs, and I eventually took the red pill. Now I'm a successful man with a career and GF.
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>>34791075
These are good advice. I still come to /r9k/ hoping to find any remaining gems from its golden age, but 99,5% of /r9k/ now is bait, propaganda and reposts. If you've been here for three weeks, you've already seen what there is to be seen. Let it go and go outside.

>>34791690
I just want to be mentally healthy again

>Tfw I've been on this site since 09 and I don't even think about leaving

>>34791722
Then seek medical help. No matter what r9k tells you, therapy and specialists aren't a meme. Seek medical help, if you're embarrassed and scared, open up to your family. No matter what you think of, they will be there for you, try to make them understand. Get a psych evaluation,leave this shit hole and work on yourself.

>>34791762
i opened up to them they just tell me to stfu and there is nothing wrong with me, if i take it further they get very angry

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>>34789735
Yes. This place encourages you to give up and brainwashes you into a negative mindview that will keep you a a loser forever. If you stay here you are 100% guaranteed to have no future. If you're ok with this, stay.

>>34789735
If you legitimately buy into most of the things that are said here it's bad for you. Don't spend hours on hours here either, get off the internet and go outside.

>>34791735
>been here since '06

help

>>34791862
Then ignore your parents and go anyway. You don't need their permission. Google your nearest health station and order a check up. Your common doctor should be able to direct you to a therapist. If you get a diagnosis and have public health care, it will cover therapy lessons, as opposed to when you approach a therapist directly.

No. It's a fucking echo chamber.

In the past, where there weren't internet sites like these, people who were different, asocial, deviant, or weak minded spent most of their time surrounded by people who told them they needed to get their shit together.
There was at least an incentive to try and change.

Nowadays, thanks to the internet, these freaks can constantly talk to other freaks, who assure them that they are perfect, and they don't have to change, and its all societies fault for not accepting them. They form "identities" and "communities" all centered around their failings. That's why terms like "chad" came about. As if being masculine is something to be scorned and ashamed of. They turn everything on their heads. Taking pride in weakness and scorning strength.

And the term "normies" as an insult is proof of this.
It's funny. You can call a mordern day millenial a fag, or a freak, or scum, and they will just brush it off. But to them, implying someone is "normal" or "regular" or not a special snowflake is one of the most biting, damaging things you can say to them. It hits at their very core.

And of course, this all means they never get changed.

This is the great poison of this generation. The echo chambers .That's why we are fucked.

>>34792013
Well said.


(keeps browsing anyway)

Avoid the FBI honeypot threads designed to filter out threats like autistics going down the rabbit hole of debunking their problems via race, politics, and reducing everyone to inanimate objects e.x. the Elliott Rogers threads. This site is regularly mentioned in court cases of crazy shooters.