would girls notice if i'm pretending to be a normie when in realitiy i'm a avoidant insecure virgin neet that happens to be a 7-8
>>34757596
Be yourself, you'd be surprised what they like
>>34757609
>bee urself
Only ever works when "yourself" is something else.
>>34757638
So it doesn't work?
I think you'd be happier with someone who likes you honestly than someone who just likes your fake Chad alias
>>34757609
wouldn't work for me, i'd be considered an absolute creep if i say everything that comes in my mind
>>34757658
You mean I'd be happier alone than with someone who only likes a fake image of me?
Maybe.
>>34757658
finding someone that genuinely likes me is like finding a needle in a haystack im pretty sure
>>34757714
Honestly, yes, that's true.
>>34757596
>7-8/10
>thinks he belongs here
fuck you
>>34757596
Do all you fags think you're a 7/8 or something?
>>34757725
It's more like searching for a needle in a haystack, because someone told you there's one in there. But there isn't. There never was a needle in that haystack.
>>34757596
How about we team up?
I'll be the ugly one who'll makes you look better/stand out and in return you buy me snacks and booze.
>>34757738
>>34757752
i know i am, i get rated 6-8 average on soc
>>34757753
deep
>>34757804
sure if i get laid that way ill buy you all booze n snacks you want
>>34757871
>on soc
1. /soc/ ratings are crap
2. stay there normalfag
>>34757609
I dont think that showing off your r9ks degeneraces would yield any positive results
>>34757596
If you really are an 8 girls will like you no matter how autistic you are. Losing your virginity won't help you though. If you're truly avoidant and insecure then you're fucked on an internal level and no amount of normie gratification will make you feel better. Good luck.
>>34757738
you'd be a normie if you're were a 7-8 while i'm not. fuck you
>>34757906
it's the only place i can get validations/compliments for something, which are my looks
>>34757917
looks like i'm fucked then. well they find me cute at first but lose interest quite fast
>>34757753
>there's no needle in the haystack
>because SOMEONE ELSE TOOK IT!
>tfw
>>34758064
You don't get it, anon.
There is no needle. At all. That girl, who is like you and likes you for you who are, simply does not exist.
There is only hay.
>>34757917
>If you really are an 8 girls will like you no matter how autistic you are
Why do people keep perpetuating shit like this. If you're autistic it doesn't matter what you look like, you'll find a way to fuck things up.
>>34757738
>>34757871
>>34757923
>r9k
>i'm a 8/10
>r9k
thats ALL folks
>>34758098
she does, but you will never get to meet her
>>34758098
This is a comforting lie, to think that there was no needle to begin with, rather than think that some else has taken your needle and ran off, and left you searching like a fool.
>>34758196
i know my looks are far superior than most of yours but i'm still a 20 y/o virgin neet?
>>34758211
And how do you know this anon?
>>34758449
lets say we got 3billion women, there has to be one that would fit you
>>34758515
Why does there have to be one that would fit me?
>>34758538
i don't fucking know. okey lets say it's very likely that there is one
>>34758515
You know you have to trim that down to those in the right age bracket. You also have to remove the mentally retarded. And those from wildly different cultures.
The number drops dramatically.
>>34757596
yes it will (only if you are good looking), i'm not good looking, i consider myself at least 6, i followed that path of acting as normie for one year, kinda work, got laid twice.
>>34758739
>i'm not good looking, i consider myself at least 6,
what
>>34758812
I'm positive
>>34758739
were you a virgin friendless neet aswell b4 that?
>>34758885
>Neet
i was in college in that time
>virgin friendless
Yes, i decided it was the time when i was almost 25, i made a pact with myself, if i reach my 30's virgin, i will gave up on this shit and became a monk (kinda, not into religious stuff just the idea of self control)
>>34757596
What makes you think someone else would love you if you don't even love yourself enough to be yourself?
>>34757685
>being yourself means saying everything that comes to your mind
>>34758132
Random anon here. I think it's more that they'll have initial interest to a certain extent and be willing to try and pursue you for a varying period of time and put up with your oddities. However if you keep up the autism/don't follow through like a normal well adjusted male they will eventually lose interest. And since a lot of us here aren't right in the head we typically won't read what would be easy social cues/signs or we would just adversely for whatever reason thereby losing said opportunities.
Source: me
>>34759279 meant for>>34757596
Super original u faggot ass bot
>>34759007
good job on fixing yourself, bond
>>34759150
good question. i don't know honestly
>>34759159
that's what i think it means
>>34759279
i'm not to bad at reading social cues/signs. it's just insecurity and a constant feeling of depersonalization that fuck me up
>>34759279
>they'll have initial interest to a certain extent and be willing to try and pursue you for a varying period of time and put up with your oddities
You'd be surprised how well some normies can sniff out autism right away.
>we typically won't read what would be easy social cues/signs or we would just adversely for whatever reason thereby losing said opportunities
This is very true too
>>34759368
it means being comfortable in your own skin. everybody thinks of stupid shit anon, they just know when not to say it.