tl;dr Man anally rapes 16 year old; she forgives him; years later and share their "story"
In 1996, Thordis Elva shared a teenage romance with Tom Stranger, an exchange student from Australia. After a school dance, Tom raped Thordis, after which they parted ways for many years. In this extraordinary talk, Elva and Stranger move through a years-long chronology of shame and silence...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oX_sO0nyM2M
>>34738362
>Rape
>Woman
Women can't be raped.
>>34738423
she was raped by tall chad
why would i watch a ted talk about anal rape? what the hell? is there anything more underwhelming? go read chicken soup for the soul or watch porn what's going on with this dissonance?
>>34738506
>she met up with her rapist in south africa for a WEEK while HER HUSBAND AND SON were elsewhere
>>34738362
this can't be real
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>>34738362
Women enjoy being raped; news at 11
kek, if he was anything short of gorgeous male model, he'd have just finished serving his 20-year sentence and be out for christmas
>raping your own gf
uh huh OK
>>34738362
I found this easy to fap to...
>>34738362
>gets drunk
>goes home alone with her boyfriend
>rape
>>34738362
That poor guy. I can't imagine what he's had to go through. The way he talks about his experience is so heartbreaking
>>34740041
What a cunt
I feel bad for the guy. Under influence or not, I don't think that is rape.
I've yet to watch it, but did she tell him to stop throughout and then he continued?
Or is it because she just said yes while drunk?
One of those is rape, one of those is you being a regretful bitch.
>>34738544
Damn he fucked her so good she wanted more
>>34740162
>but did she tell him to stop throughout and then he continued?
She got drunk, her boyfriend offered to take her home, he carried her up to her bedroom and then started undressing her, she was "too tired to fight back", she didn't even say no
I have a criminology degree and did wrote essays on this kind of shit and I still can't bring myself to understand women who react this way to sex.
I feel like it's a combination of fear mongering by society that makes them believe everything is rape unless they're 1000% into it in the moment. It's fucking stupid.
>Counting seconds instead of saying "No"
Fuck this shit. Woman can say no even if they're drunk, this meme needs to die already, fucking cringe ass video.
>>34740393
This, these woman have no idea what actual rape is like, it's equivalent to calling someone racist because they don't want to date someone of a different race. It's completely fucking different and it's downplaying the severity of the actual thing, fucking bullshit. I'm liberal but even this shit pisses me off, I don't feel bad for her in the slightest.
>>34740393
can rape be retrospective? what if I felt like I was raped but a week later I decided I wasn't
>>34738362
If you don't say no, it isn't rape. If it's your fucking boyfriend and you've banged a hundred times before and you don't say no, that is super super not rape. Do these people think no one in a relationship can ever fuck each other drunk? There is implied constant consent when you've been dating a while unless otherwise verbalized. Jesus
>>34740461
Pretty much
>>34740468
Yes
People can often replay an event in their head and completely over-think it and they do it over and over so many times that a harmless event turns into something that they end up giving themselves PTSD over, all because of their mind replaying it over and over and making it seem like it was worse than it actually was. It doesn't help when everyone around them is also screaming down their throat that they got raped.
It's like you having an interaction with some stranger and you may feel like they were rude to you, and as time goes on you replay the event in your head 100 times and by the end of it that person is literally hitler. When in reality the stranger probably just had a shit day, and it was nothing personal against you, and the entire event was actually literally nothing.
Weak minded people do this.
>>34740393
>1000% into it
Your right on the money man, she lost her virginity in the way she didn't enjoy and was salty about it. Then she just added some bullshit trauma sob story; it's all societal brainwashing.
>>34740483
Agreed you can't be raped if:
1) He's your boyfriend/Husband (unless you were forced in that relationship)
2) You are a pornstar
>>34738362
the question is did she let him it for real this time?
I havent watched the video, nor am I going to, but if the guy was fucking her floppy, semi conscious body while she was so out of it she was unable to say anything, well that sounds like rape to me.
>>34740628
anon she literally says she said nothing and stared at her alarm clock, when they went home together after a dance while they were dating still.
The only reason she's on a stage again with him is because she wants the chad dick and money
>>34740700
well, i just watched it. what a stupid fucking cunt. if she was conscious enough to count the seconds like a dramatic bitch, she was clearly still conscious enough to say no.
boy, I'm getting upset now.