Sincere and honest question:
If I become uncomfortably aroused when little girls are affectionate towards me -- like when my younger niece or friend's younger sister hugs me, snuggles up against me when we're sitting together, or even sits in my lap while I'm watching TV or playing video games -- should I seek help or is this "natural"?
They're both younger than 12, by the way, so there is absolutely no confusion as to whether or not they're children.
>>34720139
I consider it to be natural. Pic related is OK cupid data of men's preferred ages for women. I read in an evolutionary psychology book that the biggest signal to men that a woman is sexually ready is the development of breasts and hips. But other than that, men prefer women to be as young as possible.
If that only happens from kids, then you're a pedo. When my sister was young, and she sat on my lap, I'd get boners. But same happened when my step-mum or a male friend would sit on my lap. It's just warmth, pressure, and movement that cause it.
>>34720139
I had a job last summer where I was a camp counselor at this summer camp for kids like 7-15 years old. Some of the middle school girls were pretty cute, not gonna lie. I was 19-20 that summer.
There was this one girl who was kind of a "tsundere" type where like she acted like really tough towards me but you could tell she thought I was cool or whatever. I thought it was pretty adorable. I think she was like 12 or 13? She used to like restrict me a bit by holding my hand and stuff and we'd kind of mess with each other verbally. I would visit the room she'd be working in with her counselor and classmates and she'd be like "what are you doing here, anon?" in a really sassy way. it was like her greeting for me, haha. When we sat in the bleachers in the gym she'd sit behind me and like tickle my sides when i wasn't looking to get a reaction out of me and make me laugh while the rest of the camp was around listening to what the program director was saying.
Good times, too bad she wasn't there for too long lol. I'm such a pedophile kill me
>>34720253
Your post gave me feels
>>34720139
i'm glad i never had this problem. i find kids disgusting
>>34720248
>when my step-mum or a male friend would sit on my lap.
go on
>>34720248
Honestly just being AROUND my friend's younger sister (she's 12 now) makes me feel nervous and mildly aroused and all I want to do is hug her or hold her hand but I know that it's unacceptable and if I tried such a thing only terrible things would come from it.
>>34720333
Nothing to tell. She was just being motherly, and most of the males at my school were touchy-feely (it was considered manly).
>>34720337
Well, you shouldn't let that fear stop you from enjoying her company. Just make sure you're never alone with her.
>>34720139
You just need to get your shit together I think. They don't want your dick. They are just being kids.
I used to play lego with friends loli. All she was doing is playing lego. If you are autismo it my be hard to understand but do your best.
>>34720452
I'm not the guy you're responding to but you might avail yourself of this information.
>>34720139
Just think of disgusting and annoying kids are.
>>34720253
Sounds comfy anon
>>34720139
As for OP, when I would go to my step-nieces ball games my other step niece would sit on my lap and I would unintentionally get aroused, it's just the biology of it I think, and unless you actually want to fuck kids or something it's not that big a deal. As for your friends sister I'm pretty sure you actually do like her and unless you're too young for this board you need to just forget about it famalam, only bad things will come.
>>34720478
>fists in pocket
So that's why teachers in middle school always had their hands in their pockets...
>>34720139
Probably just enjoying the stimulation from contact and the feeling of closeness that most robots are completely starved of since childhood.
>>34720478
I had to teach my 10 year-old cousin how to delete browser history after I had to use her computer for a minute.
>>34720191
>But other than that, men prefer women to be as young as possible.
you're lookin at that chart but you ain't really readin it
>>34720139
Should you seek help? No, not really.
Though you are lonely. Very lonely and your body is desperate for female human contact, attention, and affection that you have not felt in a great many years I wager.
Mankind was not meant to live in a dysfunctional society such as ours and so going this long being alone is making you seek out younger and less experienced women for comfort due to them not yet reaching peak sexual market value.
If you still feel for woman your age what you feel for these girls then you don't need to seek help. However, if women your age show you the same attention and physical contact as these girls and you don't have the same response then you should seek help discretely and immediately.
>>34720248
Yeah I remember my little sister sitting on my lap and getting a huge boner, and her asking me "what's that poking me anon?" and I replied "uh I think there's a stick in my pants"
>>34721817
What kind of shit would a little girl be looking up besides barbie or minecraft?
>>34720139
OP, it is a little weird but you don't need help unless you actually want to touch them, in which case, get help right away. Empathic guys are going to get turned on by love, and thier love is very pure, but not sexual, but your emotional mind doesn't know the difference.
>>34722429
Girls know what dicks are, ever heard of the 'show me yours show you mine game' 6 years old play? I could image she was googling dick, and that led her down rabbit holes, does not mean /nessasry/ it was sexual in the same why an adult would mean sexual.
Honestly children should not be allowed on the web at all, it's not safe, anywhere, even YouTube has JoI videos now with girls in panties going "yeah jerk your cock and cum for me", on fucking YouTube.
And it's not heathy for them to see that stuff.
>>34722555
>YouTube has JoI videos
Never knew that, thanks. But it seems pretty well hidden. I doubt a 10 year old could find or stumble upon that kind of stuff. Unless they had a shitty upbringing I would hope they don't know the terminology.
It's not as bad as that House of Air video, though. Outright porn and it's music so it could spread easier. Though, thankfully it seems it doesn't come up in a search. Have to google for it.
https://youtu.be/R2uZyTm_w0M
>>34720139
What >>34720835 said. You're probably starved for human contact/affection, and that wire does have a way of getting crossed with that of sexuality since we regulate both of those things so strictly in our society. The one kind of implies the other, in as much as if you see two adults making contact with and being affectionate toward each other you automatically think they must be in a romantic relationship.
tl;dr Society is the one that's messed up, man.