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Oh my fucking god. Is anyone else's parents as dumb as a box of rocks? I've been having a heated argument with my mom for the past hour, and we keep hitting a dead end, because she can't describe why she feels a certain way about things. Like, she'll just say, "That's just the way it is.", or "That's just life, anon.", or she'll just dismiss my arguments by saying "Haha, you're just stubborn, you're like a brick wall.". I can't even get her to understand the difference between subjective and objective. Everything is objective to her.

I just don't get it. I'm not even that educated, or smart. I'm not sure how you could go through life being devoid of critical thinking skills like that. Pic unrelated.
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>>34716908
That's just life, anon.
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>>34716937
You have no fucking idea how tired I am of that shitty phrase.
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>>34716908
She can easily describe why she feels a certain way about things, she just doesn't want to have an ugly and dark conversation with her son, you stupid fuck. You really think someone a generation older than you can't describe why they feel a certain way?
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>>34716908
>arguing with your mom

Holy fuck, how autistic are you. You shouldn't even be living with her still if you're old enough to be on this board.
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>>34716908
what exactly were you guys arguing about?
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>>34716993
We've had ugly and dark conversations before. I'm pretty sure that she actually can't articulate why she thinks things.
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OP made my day lmao
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>>34716964
you're like talking to a brick wall anon. So stubborn.
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>>34716908
How old are you?
origginalll
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>>34717015
>Holy fuck, how autistic are you.

I come from a close knit family that talks about everything.

>You shouldn't even be living with her still if you're old enough to be on this board.

I'm saving up for my own house, so I'm not in debt forever.
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I like how OP avoids telling us what they we're arguing about because he'd know we would side with the mom
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>>34717023
We were arguing about morals in general.

>>34717049
21
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Some people never grow out of childhood mentally but they think the younger generation are the children
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>>34717077
>I'm saving up for my own house
Haha, stop lying to us. No one does that. Any normal young person gets an apartment with a roommate or two if they want to save some money on rent. Your parents sure must love you to put up with a manchild who looks at 4chan nesting in their home.
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>>34717107
well that doesn't tell me a whole lot! i'm starting to think >>34717091 is right about you.
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>>34717141
>Haha, stop lying to us. No one does that.

I do.

>Any normal young person gets an apartment with a roommate or two if they want to save some money on rent.

Sounds like a waste of money.

>Your parents sure must love you to put up with a manchild who looks at 4chan nesting in their home.

They talked me out of moving out. My brother just moved out at 26. It's smart to wait to move out until you have the money.
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>>34717203
>Oh honey, don't leave!

They don't really mean that. If your brother only moved out after twenty-six it's pretty apparent you're a bunch of fatties with a dysfunctional family relationship. Move out of the lardhole, faggot.
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>>34717144
We were originally arguing about politics. I'm a right leaning libertarian, and she's a hardcore socialist. Then we got on the subject of morals, like what's right and wrong, and how could you just decide what your morals are, they have to come from a religion. I didn't say because it's not important.
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>>34717260
Whatever you want to believe, anon. I've got a decent paying job, so I'll probably have the money at 23, as long as nothing happens.
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>>34717267
>a libertarian taking food off a socialist's table

When will the memes stop being real?
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>>34717267
>I'm a right leaning libertarian
so i take it your dad's not in the picture
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>>34717267
It is important, your mother is one of those religious freaks, I just wanted to understand where she stood
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>>34717297
Family helping each other out is different from the government taking your taxes to help stranger.
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>>34717290
So long as you don't lose your job that pays a dollar about minimum wage at Wendy's? Don't worry, bucko, I'm sure as long as you try hard you'll be able to afford your own truck with a camper shell, just like your shitty brother.
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>>34717267
>Then we got on the subject of morals, like what's right and wrong, and how could you just decide what your morals are, they have to come from a religion
If you actually believe morals only come from religion, you're being autistic. Stop. However you phrased it in such a way that it is hard to decipher whether you were referring to yourself, or your mother.
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>>34717308
He is, we hang out a lot, he doesn't care about politics.

>>34717327
Lol, you sure do want me to be pathetic in some way. Is it because that's how your life is, and seeing someone doing ok makes you feel bad?
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>>34717367
Sorry, my mom's a catholic. She doesn't understand where I got my morals from if not god.
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>>34716908
It bothers me when people respond or say meaningless things like that i.e "it is what it is".... its nit contrubuting anything to the discussion, nor does it mean anything, might as well say nothing at all.

I would advise you to calm down and don't get upset in such situations because it doesn't help or benefit. So what if you can't reach a consensus? If it's of no importance it doesn't matter, just continue as you were, but try to be friendly since you benefit from her directly with money ( i presume), favours and whatnot.
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>>34717321
how are these two things any different on a moral level?
what makes you a more virtuous freeloader than a citizen of a socialist state?
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>>34717409
Some otherwise really smart people are in that. Situation. I'm envious of their delusion.
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>>34717412
It doesn't usually get to me this bad, I just came on here to bitch about it instead of yelling at my mom or something. It'll all be fine tomorrow. She brings it up every few weeks, and neither of us make any progress.
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>>34717435
Family helping each other out is voluntary. Socialism is not. I'd be fine with the government implementing voluntary socialism, where you can choose to get taxed more, but if you don't, you get no benefits.
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>>34716993

Being a generation older doesn't mean shit. You can be old and dumb. Many people spend their whole lives trying to articulate why they feel certain ways about things, on top of that.

My mom also is dumb as a box of rocks. Any kind of political, religious, social, or otherwise topic that's not about a person we know or an event coming up is off the table because of how dumb she is. My brother and I always have a good laugh about it.
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>>34717517
>voluntary socialism, where you can choose to get taxed more, but if you don't, you get no benefits
i'm going to give you the opportunity to apologize for replying to me with this nonsense.
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>>34717473
>yelling at your mother

"BUT MOM, IF LE GLORIOUS LIBERTARIAN REVOLUTIONS HAPPENS EVERYTHING WILL BE PERFECT, WHY CANT YOU SEE THAT EVERYONE WILL BEHAVE AND ABIDE BY THE RULES WHEN THERE ARE NO RULES?"
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>>34717706
Why? I'd be fine with it, I don't advocate it.
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>>34717715
Ignoring your dumbass strawman, I don't yell at my mom. I walk away and do something else when we piss each other off. Get some reading comprehension, faggot.
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>>34717723
why don't you quit being shy and give us an outline of what you DO advocate? seems it would save everyone a lot of time
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>>34717764
>supposedly ignoring my post
>still replies to it

I'm going to guess dad is gone so mom is letting her precious babies stay around for some perverse substitution of male company. Also going to guess she's a gross small town fatty and that's why she hasn't found a new boyfriend who would kick your shit encrusted ass out.
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>>34717829
He said ignoring your strawman representation, not the context of your post
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>>34717782
Sorry, I thought you'd have a good idea when I said that I was a right leaning libertarian. Basically I think that there should be very few laws. Just basic ones against killing, stealing, and physically harming other people and their property. I also think that America should stop being involved in other countries business, and go back to being isolationist. There should be very few taxes, only covering police, military (a much smaller one than the one we have now), and public infrastructure.
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>>34717879
It's like your belief system is some retarded version of conservatism because you're too much of a pussy to go Republican.
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>>34717854
Thank you.

>>34717829
Believe whatever you want, I don't really care.
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>>34717912
You cared enough to reply yet again. Anyways, I've got some other threads to shit up. Enjoy trying not to look like the manbaby you are for the rest of this thread.
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>>34717879
no funding for schools? whats wrong with you?
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>>34717911
It has nothing to do with being a pussy or not. Republicans are mostly authoritarians these days, so I don't agree with their stances on a lot of issues. I want less money spent on the military, legalized drugs, massive scale-back of the FDA, etc.
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>>34717978
Schools should have funding. I forgot to include it.
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>>34717960
You sound stupid right now. You must be a moronic Christian
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>>34717879
>I thought you'd have a good idea when I said that I was a right leaning libertarian
i honestly thought i did, but then you posted that awful, awful thing about "voluntary socialism" which i am still sort of hoping was a joke
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>>34718128
It was a joke. Voluntary socialism wouldn't work, because hardly anyone would agree to have half their paychecks taken.
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>>34718160
oh. good joke i guess
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>>34717015
>implying robots are not frequently neets
>thinking parents should abandon children at an arbitrary age so there meaningless suffering from work can fund jewish landlords
>being a wagecuck
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in life a man's honor or his sense of integrity or sense of self as you call it is all he really has.

so yes honor matters
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>>34716908
Kinda a similar situation but not totally the same thing

My mother usually go full SJW mode when trying to talk about politics with me like saying how Trump is bad or any pointless shit that resemble what you read across buzzfeed and on the news (Which is obviously fear-mongering garbage and as serious of what you would see on /pol/ but the exact opposite of the same coin). I usually tell her that I do not care about politics and any stupid attempt at indoctrination and she always goes in rant of how much I am selfish and inconsiderate toward my surrounding and that I should get interested in thing and picking sides. Meanwhile I prefer to remain neutral and I want to avoid getting involved into pettiness that is over the top for nothing.

I came to hate small talk with her since she always goes full political or simply being vain and, I came to despise her for that cause all she talk about is politics, social media, or any kind of average trend that is trending right now like it is a Nobel prize. It seems like she cannot think about anything but consuming, believing and spreading everything you see on social media like it is some sort of way to feel good about herself. Most of the thing she say to me are usually illogical and downright contradicting. To be fair that is the reason why I do not engage in conversation with her usually. Because it's always ending up getting into fight about trivial shit and she always put the blame on me while saying that I should accept my faults while neglecting her own part of responsibilities for what the argument usually begin with.
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Yea. I cut contact.

How does the retarded bitch expect me to open up to her if she gives me answers exactly like the ones you mentioned AND more.
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>>34716908
Well, I haven't had the best of times with my mother.

Pic related is a screenshot I never get tired of posting. This was an awful night, but people commenting on it is always funny.

I also have another screenshot now, from just after the election. Will follow this post up with that.
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What pisses me off the most is that my dad always white knights my mom in every single argument we have even when she's wrong. I straight up told him he's a pussy for doing that.
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>>34720930
Whoops, forgot to crop that one.

Anyway, here it is again.
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>I can't even get her to understand the difference between subjective and objective

Do you understand it? Because that's something philosophers have been struggling with since the beginning, so I have a doubt that somehow you are the one who has it all figured out.
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>>34720930
Lol, from what I can tell from that conversation, you have a really great relationship with your mother. She's is angry at you for something you did, not something she perceives you to be. She's being honest towards you, because she's concerned, it's actually exactly what parents are supposed to do in this situation. Something many of us have never had right there anon.
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>>34717374
>Lol, you sure do want me to be pathetic in some way. Is it because that's how your life is, and seeing someone doing ok makes you feel bad?
ETERNALLY

BTFO
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F
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>>34721035

t. Dr Phil
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>save money for the school year by working 60+ weeks over the break
>"You know, if you got a part time job through the year you wouldn't have to slave away wasting your summer"

>get part time job this year, have plenty of left over money for summer
>"You're such a lazy piece of shit anon, you can't stay here with us if you don't get a job while you're not even studying"
Just fucking shoot me
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Ordinary people who spent their entire lives working jobs usually have consciousnesses that have evolved to be a "job-working guy" and not much else. They know how to do basic things and they have a lot of practical knowledge, but you'd be surprised at how little flexibility they have in terms of thinking abstractly about philosophy and shit.

I don't even mean to sound like a libertarian edgelord "I'm really into politics ;)" guy who thinks that all the normies are beneath me. I'm just being honest. Most people who work 9-5 and raise a family, and just try to survive basic life, are surprisingly limited. Especially to an autist flower child who has had infinite free time and the Internet to develop freely into some kind of wizard anime expert, and whose soul hasn't been crushed beyond repair by the neverending grind of being a normie. That's why it's so tragic.

I used to have fights like that with my parents and I used to treat them like shit, because it was so frustrating that they were just bashing me over the head with what felt like retarded statements, while I was trying to be smart and argue with complex autismo logic. In hindsight, I realize they were just trying their best.

If someone's dumb they're just dumb. If it's because of genetics, it's cruel to fuck with them and go "LMFAO!! HE CAN'T EVEN UNDERSTAND THE POINT I'M MAKING! HAHA RETARD!" But it's no less cruel if it's due to living a normie-ass life and raising you.

In the long run you'll feel bad. She's just some lady who is trying her best to be right. If she's being a bitch, it's because her feelings are telling her "you're right! You should be bitchy to prove it!" She's trapped in her own limitations. Just be nice to her, work with her, don't be combative. In the long run you'll regret bullying your mom tb h.
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>>34721137

Same

>Get a full time job
>"Anon you working so much is making you stressed and your anger issues. Why don't you quit your job already?"
>Become unemployed and go to school online
>"You're lazy and you don't anything around this house at all! Its contributing to your anger issues!"

Stupid fucking bitch expects me to be Mr so happy beta cuck yes man fuck her.
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>>34721182

>tl;dr just b nice and understand her :^)

Go fuck yourself. Normies deserve to be put on the spot when they try to act smart. That's how misinformation spreads around and causes chaos. Just look at liberals vs Donald Trump.
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>>34721256
Just saying man, if you are actually smart, one day you're going to realize just HOW lucky you are to be smarter than the average person, and you're going to look back and realize that you spent your entire youth going
>MOM YOU'RE A FUCKING RETARDED BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and then right about the time you realize that, she gets cancer and you have a month left to make up for lost time.

The smarter you are, the gentler you should be to people who literally can have the same information as you do right in front of them, and still fuck up and fail to reach the solution you reach.
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>>34721182
>>34721289
he's right
>>34721256
you're a worthless piece of shit

heey, just weighing in here
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>>34721289

>tl;dr just be humble bro!!! xD

Like I said. Normies deserve to be put on the spot for their stupidity. Your type of thinking encourages tolerance and too much tolerance doesn't fucking solve any problems, it just creates more. Too much tolerance doesn't make normies realize that they're in the wrong, maybe they should shut the fuck up, and reevaluate their sources/arguments. That's what makes them smarter. When these fucking normies are spreading their bullshit without anyone calling out on them, it creates huge misinformation. Just look at fucking Plebbit. No one called them out on their shit because of the upvoting/down voting system yet their discussions are stupid and lack substance because its a huge echo chamber.

Of course, retards like you will contribute to the echo chamber if we just "stay humble bro!! xD".

>and then right about the time you realize that, she gets cancer and you have a month left to make up for lost time.

What does that even have to do with this? It appears you're only arguing on subjective terms.

>The smarter you are, the gentler you should be to people who literally can have the same information as you do right in front of them, and still fuck up and fail to reach the solution you reach.
>more "just b humble bro!!! xD" nonsense.
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>>34721338

>you're a worthless piece of shit

Not an argument. Dumbass.
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>>34716908
>I can't even get her to understand the difference between subjective and objective
Not to be an ass but most people like you wanting to spilt hairs about shit like that are either wanting to avoid something or are wasting time with nonissue arguments.
>Everything is objective to her.
That's how most people see things. Emotions can be seen as a weakness and flaw (more so if it's a female's emotions) so it makes many frame their mind that everything is driven by logic even if it's not.

The big flaw is you are likely debating on what's "right" or dealing with it like their should be a winner to the opinion. The trick to communication with others is to ask more questions about their opinion then to make statements about your own.
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>>34721256
Misinformation spreads when you won't try and look and understand another's perspective and basicly just come crying to some safe space telling you what you want to hear.
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>>34721605

Which is exactly what normies like OP's mom do.
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>>34721622
And OPs doing it as well.
Both are just different sides of the same coin.
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>>34721182
I agree 100% with you anon.
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>>34721495
Except normies are not interested in spreading their world views around for the most part, they're more interested in being the sort of person that can survive in the world, independently of anyone else. If you live in their house and off their labor, they have every right to criticize you for not living in accordance to their notions of how such a person lives.

If you sincerely believe yourself to have more intelligent views, then you shouldn't be getting this upset when they challenge your views. You should be so much above them, that it doesn't affect you emotions. You are affected, however, because deep down you know you're not what you should be, that you're still a child, and that's not comfortable for you. You'd rather dismiss them as being stupid, so you don't actually have to learn anything from them.

Until they die and you are alone in the world, you will never understand that all those challenges, while driven by frustration, were never meant to harm you. They were meant to teach you something.
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>>34721495
It's not about echo chamber. Our ability to learn new things and understand better diminishes greatly as we grow older and we become less and less flexible. People who at their youth never had the chance of dig deeper into things and who have been working 8-5 for the last 40 years had that impact in their way of thinking. It's a reason as to why people talk about "thinking outside the box" and that's because lack of stimulus will indeed put you in one of the smalles box possible.

It's not only just "hard" for these people to innovate and learn, it's very much likely that's impossible at all. Specially if they never had any kind of higher education.

Don't forget you surround yourself with young people eager to learn and try and that bias makes you think everybody is like that.
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>>34721634

No he isn't. His mom is arguing on subjective terms while OP is arguing on objective terms. The only difference is that arguing that subjective terms have no basis in their argument and therefore deserve to be called out on.
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>>34721811
>His mom is arguing on subjective terms while OP is arguing on objective terms.
Actually from what OP shared both are subjective, it's just both are idiots and think the they are the objective one. More so when walking into where morals come from.
I wouldn't be shock if OPs mom was like him in her youth and he will continue the great wheel and become just like her in his older years. Not in subjects but in blind "No I'm just right because this is how I lived X number of years, it can't be wrong!"
They are both what is wrong with the world because they both see the other as stupid and wrong rather than agreeing to disagree and be self confidant enough in your stance that what you mom thinks doesn't upset you.
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>>34721750

>If you live in their house and off their labor, they have every right to criticize you for not living in accordance to their notions of how such a person lives.

So if they're into DUDE WEED LMAO and all types of degeneracy, we deserve to be shunned down for not accepting their values because "my house my rules"? That's some stupid logic right there. One thing is to live under their roof and respect the house while the other is shoving down your values down into someone's throat. The two are not the same.

>If you sincerely believe yourself to have more intelligent views, then you shouldn't be getting this upset when they challenge your views.

Aka you should act this way this because I say so and it looks nice!!! Wow you really convinced me with that argument, faggot.

>You are affected, however, because deep down you know you're not what you should be, that you're still a child,

Get the fuck out of here with your shit shaming tactics. People will get triggered hearing stupid shit because its in our nature to be competitive AND no one likes hearing stupid shit. Its that simple.

>
Until they die and you are alone in the world, you will never understand that all those challenges, while driven by frustration, were never meant to harm you. They were meant to teach you something.

Not an argument.
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>>34717015
ur gay like that guy who always post
>r u 14
>r u 12
whenever they reply to a post
like r u stupid?
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>>34721908
Not anon but when you are basically dependent on them you are their bitch to be cuck as they please. You can think it's wrong but that's the breaks also it's pretty fun you do what most normise do and create a ridiculous scenario that is neither being argued nor brought up just so you can block out the truth in the statement. Your options are to leave or accept you are their bitch.
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>>34717015
Edgy but true enough. My mom and I never saw eye to eye on most topics but I just accepted that as the cost of living their till I moved out and after that I even cared less because I don't go home to her so why should I give a fuck about her views? We will all die and this world is pointless why waste energy fighting over what what's "right"
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