Why are japanese-style relationships SO FUCKING HARD? You think

>>34701678
It's actually pretty easy if you make a fucking move.

>>34701678
At least try to explain it. Is it a cultural thing? Tradition thing?

>>34701690
>making a fucking movie
>in japanese

i'm not even a japanese person and i can feel the tension when trying that shit.

>>34701719
Anon, I used to live in Japan. Pulling girls there is as easy as it gets, and that's not only true for foreigners. One of my best friends over there was a chill and laid-back Japanese guy. He never once struggled with girls and was always seeing somebody because he was chill, fun and daring.

>>34701694
It's a combination of culture, tradition, society

I would say it's unarguable that Japan has the highest social expectations in the world, and that failure to meet these ridiculously high social expectations is brutal.

I can explain a bit further, give me a second to type a post of my interpretation, as someone studying the culture for the past few years.

>>34701747
I see. I guess i'm not trying hard enough, thanks for your input anon.

Where do japanese girls congregate online anyways?, the site I use is shutting down in 2 months. what's the japanese girl equivilant of tumblr

also, why did you leave?

>>34701747
>and that's not only true for foreigners

When you say foreigner, does it just mean white guy?

>>34701806
>also, why did you leave?

I went there for studies (and returned for a while for vacations and stuff), I don't think that I want to work there. I like having spare time.


>Where do japanese girls congregate online anyways?, the site I use is shutting down in 2 months. what's the japanese girl equivilant of tumblr

Mixi used to be big back in the day (it's basically the Japanese equivalent of FB). I don't know if it's stull used much now. To be honest, I usually met Japanese girls at social events or through friends and acquaintances.

>>34701845
Nope. There was a black guy that was popular with Asian girls too. And I had a "brown" buddy that was seeing three girls at the same time.

>>34701872

Awesome, I really gotta visit there at some point in my life. I'd never live there though.

>>34701852
>I don't think that I want to work there
that's probably the downside for doing a 'temporary stay in japan'. you treat yourself to a temporary view of japan without having to worry about the work culture, then once you get your fill, you leave it behind, so you don't have a strong urge next time to go back because you don't like the work culture

i'm going to try to avoid making that mistake. i only got one shot at this shit


>Mixi
I heard about mixi years ago, but i really doubt it's still used much today.

I'm just trying to create some bridges/connections to japan before i make my move.

>>34701905
why not?

for $3,000 you can join a program that lets you live with a japanese family for 2 weeks.

if you just care about their merchandise and dyadic relationships, you can just grab a capsule hotel and spend $2,000 for two weeks.

>>34701756
If you would I'd appreciate it. I'm interested in culture and traditions from sround the world.

>>34701678
Take a deep breath Jamal everything will be fine