I really shouldn't be alive. I'm literally never content

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>>34698288
dude no girl is going to want to talk to you cause you are so desperate, Are you a diagnosed sperg?

You have to accept the western society we live in wants you to fail and doesnt feel sorry for you and is actually happy you are suffering.

Work out. Lift. Go on /fit/, its more productive than /r9k/. Take care of yourself, and stay upright.

Listen to these youtube channels:

https://www.youtube.com/user/torahthinking/videos?shelf_id=1&view=0&sort=dd


(L'havdil bain kodesh l'khol)

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=clasik+obas (I recommend paying Classik for life coaching and say Justin E referred you, also you should buy the album Wise Man 3, just for the first track atleast, also his music is good for playing when you are driving in a car with a lady)

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=howard+dare

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=howard+dare

Do you want me to add you on skype even though Im male

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tfw this thread speaks to you

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>>34698288
also I know you are masturbating and its throw you off balanced. I urge you to get an inter filter so your access to porn is diminshed. It will make you happy in the long run once your body gets used to not looking at porn. Right now your brain thinks you are Atillah the Hun so its sort of shutting down since it assumes you are impregnating females thus your motivation is going down because you are short-circuiting your dopamine receptors.

http://www.covenanteyes.com/personal-2/?ibp-adgroup=adwords&ibp-keyword=keyword&ibp-matchtype=matchtype&ibp-custom=adposition%20+&gclid=CjwKEAiAwfzDBRCRmJe7z_7h8yQSJAC4corOgTQ9qm2yQXVNDQnVVxpxNbIZyoob4Q26OpT-2rkbghoCSd3w_wcB (I use this, it works for me. Very user-friendly)

http://www.taghelpline.org/ (Many people in the frum community use this. I think its too intrusive, but its much cheaper)

https://www.google.com/#q=guard+your+eyes
Stop eating soy products, it makes you into a sissy. Stop using deodorant and body spray and shampoo because it contains estrogen disruptors. use milk of magnesia for your armpits and look into other home substitutes.

Also, you have to see into your life and think what benefits are disguised in your shortcomings and failures. For example, if you werent suffering, I wouldn't have gotten this important information disseminated

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8C3YWv9PIvc

>>34698580
dud what the fuck?

http://desuarchive.org/r9k/search/filename/20170111_070811.jpg/

stop blogging please

or at least use a different image, holy christ

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>>34698580
also if you are dating an asian chick or hang out with asian people or around even asians or in an asian resturaunt, dont put soy sauce on your food because asians traditionally only use soy sauce for cooking and think its weird when people use it as dip.

>>34698682
Now this is what i call useful advice.

>>34698580
I actually was doing nofap for a few days and I failed today. I'll try again but after while I simply lose the motivation to attempt to better myself, because who am I bettering myself for? Noone.

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>>34698797
>, because who am I bettering myself for? Noone.

THIS IS THE ISSUE! You are looking for other people for validation.

Judaism is different (l'havdil alef hav'dalos) from every other garbage made-up religion because we have a concept of being kind to yourself.

When you brush your teeth and go to the bathroom, you are doing kindness to yourself. When you pray to Hashem, that is also doing kindness (Khesed) for yourself. The first mishnah in masekhet avot says that performing acts of khesed is equivalent to the sacrificial service in the Bait Ha'Mik'dash and the study of Torah and these things are our purpose in this world, do ultimately we don't know why Hashem wants it to be this way, though there are different solutions but they are all wanting in some way and we have to accept we can't know except this is the direction Hashem wants our lives to go on, like a loving father who wants what is best for their child.

By lifting, you bring atonement to yourself and that is why women are instatnly attracted to buff men...but in reality it is because Hashem is mashpiah them (from the word "shefa", the "out-pore" of Hashems blessing from On High.) The same goes for wealth, Hashem gives so they can get more. But far vas? The answer is simple, Hashem "wants" you to have ha'karat ha'tov (He doesn't have wants cause He owns everything in His creation you to have), He wants that you have gratitude, because gratitude makes a person happy. And this you apply to your relationships with mortals. The sefer Khovot Ha'lvavot (By Rabbeinu Bachya, a Rishon) even when they do something they are expected to do, or were paid to, or intended to do or werent asked to do, you should still thank them.

http://www.artscroll.com/Authors/Rabbi_Zelig_Pliskin.html

I recommend you invest in these wonderful sefarim

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>>34698797
you cant be successful in nofap if you dont have a filter. Even if you dont fap or look at porn, you will be tormented by the fact it is readily availble. but if its not even an option then you wont think about it atleast not at that level frequency and pressure when you can do it.